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[–] QueenHawlSera@sh.itjust.works 85 points 3 weeks ago (4 children)

God deserves credit for all that he has done....

Which is nothing, because the chump aint real.

[–] BassTurd@lemmy.world 31 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

He allegedly killed everything on the planet except for two of each creature, amongst a slew of other murders.

[–] Viking_Hippie@lemmy.dbzer0.com 19 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

Later he became his own dad* and had exceptionally buoyant feet, though, so swings and roundabouts as the Brits say

*through his spirit raping a 12-16yo virgin

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[–] prole@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (3 children)

Don't ask about the fish, birds, and sea creatures though. They did just fine, but they don't count for some reason.

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[–] prole@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 3 weeks ago

Don't overlook all of the death and suffering caused in his name!

[–] snooggums@piefed.world 4 points 3 weeks ago

He made them alcoholic!

[–] buddascrayon@lemmy.world 67 points 3 weeks ago (8 children)

I'll never forget the disappointment I felt the day I found out that Alcoholics Anonymous is a christian group. The fact that one of the few institutions that exists independently to help people to get free of the crippling addiction to alcohol does so by shoving god down your throat is such an amazing let down. I had a friend who was a terrible alcoholic and also an atheist and the trouble he had finding organizations the could help him was so devastating. In the end the alcoholism eventually led to his death and I often wonder if he could have been saved if there had been a more robust network of non-religious substance abuse groups.

[–] CptOblivius@lemmy.world 23 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

In my experience AA tries to exchange ones addiction to alcohol to an addiction to religion. I've noted the most feverously religious people I know became that way after AA. Religion preys on the most susceptible.

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[–] Tyrq@lemmy.dbzer0.com 20 points 3 weeks ago

I put up with it for long enough to get the help I needed, but I can't stand it either. At least there were enough supportive people with actual advice kicking around. I can't attest to every community, but if you want it bad enough, it's probably worth the price of admission for the few months it takes to break the habit.

I got three years a couple months ago, and I'm not sure I would have made it without the support, but I also regret that the program teaches that you don't have the power to do it without god, just a fun reminder of how these people prey on the vulnerable.

I'm sorry about your friend, I know my life could have ended the same way pretty easily the way I was going.

[–] prole@lemmy.blahaj.zone 16 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (1 children)

The fact that one of the few institutions that exists independently to help people to get free of the crippling addiction to alcohol does so by shoving god down your throat is such an amazing let down.

Dunno if it helps at all, but the success rate for people who go through AA is the same rate as people who do it by themselves.

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[–] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 14 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

I've long complained that Christians push the queer community to the bottle then sell us their god as the solution.

[–] PhoenixDog@lemmy.world 5 points 3 weeks ago

As a queer malfunctioning alcoholic, they can keep their God.

[–] crimson_iris@piefed.social 9 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Sorry for the loss of your friend.

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[–] Bluescluestoothpaste@sh.itjust.works 6 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (1 children)

Well, there's different levels of christianity at different chapters. I found a chapter that was mostly atheists and would only refer to a "higher power" and even then was like "look really it just means you can't just think about what you want, because you want to get drunk and it's killing you.".

So, you have to think about something greater than whatever itch you have in the moment, if you want to live.

[–] buddascrayon@lemmy.world 8 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

I'm not going to downvote you. Because I think it's great that you found group that was helpful and effective. So a sincere congratulations to you. But waiting around hoping for a Christian group that is not too overly Christian is like waiting for a New York City taxicab to show up in Philadelphia.

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[–] echodot@feddit.uk 4 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

I'm surprised there isn't some NHS thing. They have support groups for dieting so I would have thought there would have been one for alcoholism given how much damage it does to people and how much it must cost the NHS every year.

[–] svcg@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 3 weeks ago

The NHS does have things, but not everyone lives in Britain.

[–] Novamdomum@fedia.io 37 points 3 weeks ago (5 children)

When my religious friends get a little too intense I tell em to go visit a terminal children's hospital ward. Don't give me any of that "works in mysterious ways" rubbish either. I'm not saying there isn't a higher intelligence than us somewhere, because that's unknowable in an infinite universe, but to then somehow pivot to thinking that intelligence would care about every little thing we do is beyond insane.

[–] Seleni@lemmy.world 10 points 3 weeks ago

One day when I was a young boy on holiday in Uberwald I was walking along the bank of a stream when I saw a mother otter with her cubs. A very endearing sight, I'm sure you'll agree, and even as I watched, the mother otter dived into the water and came up with a plump salmon, which she subdued and dragged onto a half submerged log. As she ate it, while of course it was still alive, the body split and I remember to this day the sweet pinkness of its roes as they spilled out, much to the delight of the baby otters, who scrambled over themselves to feed on the delicacy. One of nature's wonders, gentlemen. Mother and children dining upon mother and children. And that is when I first learned about evil. It is built into the very nature of the universe. Every world spins in pain. If there is any kind of supreme being, I told myself, it is up to all of us to become his moral superior.

-Sir Terry Pratchett, Unseen Academicals

[–] echodot@feddit.uk 7 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

I think it's entirely possible that there are entities more intelligent than humans (let's face it the bar isn't very high) but I think that's different to "higher intelligence" an entity of God like capability, I don't think that high IQ necessarily grants you access to alter the fundamental laws of reality.

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[–] Triumph@fedia.io 4 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

I'm intellgent, and I'm high.

[–] Novamdomum@fedia.io 16 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

"I'm intellgent, and I'm high."

No disrespect, but the irony of misspelling that word is chef's kiss 🤣

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[–] Velypso@sh.itjust.works 25 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (1 children)

GOD is good! He made you an alcoholic so you would struggle through life and fight so, so hard to maintain a form of normalcy his favorite creations obtain with ease.

Again, GOD is good!

[–] echodot@feddit.uk 7 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

I always disliked that arguement because it suggests that you wouldn't have such a good life had you not had to struggle first. A claim for which there is no evidence.

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[–] WorldsDumbestMan@lemmy.today 25 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

If God was so good, they would not have to repeat it, every damn time.

[–] Etterra@discuss.online 10 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Have you read the Bible? Their God is a malignantly narcissistic tyrant.

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[–] explodicle@sh.itjust.works 24 points 3 weeks ago (4 children)

"Oh you just think you did that on your own, but your personal achievement should actually be credited to God."

[–] PhoenixDog@lemmy.world 8 points 3 weeks ago

God gives humans free will

Humans do things with free will

Humans: Thank God!

[–] Notyou@sopuli.xyz 6 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Does he get credited with the alcoholism too? Why curse so many people with that when they drink themselves to death?

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[–] plutopos@lemmy.zip 5 points 3 weeks ago

This reminds me of when the first flotilla provided enough of a distraction that Palestinian in Gaza managed to fish for a bit without getting caught, and the top comment under the post said "God is best planner"

[–] VitoRobles@lemmy.today 4 points 3 weeks ago

"God works in mysterious ways... " Me after stink up the bathroom at the supermarket.

[–] quarkquasar@lemmy.world 19 points 3 weeks ago

Good ol' catholic guilt was a big part of the reason I nearly drank myself to death.

Fuck god, believe in humanity.

[–] Valmond@lemmy.dbzer0.com 17 points 3 weeks ago

2 years here!

[–] Starik@lemmy.world 16 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (1 children)

This is a misunderstanding. They are a fan of Good Old Days beer and are disappointed that OP won’t drink it now.

Edit: I was the one who misunderstood. They were simply suggesting a non-alcoholic beer.

[–] Spezi@feddit.org 8 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

But it says its alcohol free beer on the bottle?

[–] Starik@lemmy.world 8 points 3 weeks ago

Good catch. I missed that

[–] DagwoodIII@piefed.social 9 points 3 weeks ago (4 children)

https://aaforagnostics.com/

If you need help there are hundreds of agnostic and atheist AA meetings live and online.

To paraphrase Robert Downey Jr. If you aren't an alcoholic, religion is a choice. If you are an addict, you've already surrendered to a Higher Power. My addiction told me when to get up, who to talk to, where to go, how much to spend, who to hurt, and who to flatter.

[–] Madzielle@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

My partner utilized SMART Recovery when he was getting sober. It's science based and completely free of religion

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[–] echodot@feddit.uk 9 points 3 weeks ago (7 children)

Didn't Jesus literally turn water into wine? So God literally produced the original alcohol. So it's all his fault.

I know that the wine back then typically had the alcohol content of seawater and was mostly drunk because water purification wasn't really possible, but it's their belief system so I'm going to hit them over the head with it.

[–] EpeeGnome@feddit.online 14 points 3 weeks ago

Not the original by any stretch. The story is that he made the wine because they ran out of wine while the party was still going. He just didn't want his friend's wedding reception to flop. But the host was still somewhat embarrassed because everybody liked the new wine so much more and said "hey dummy, don't you know you're supposed to serve the quality wine first, and the shit wine after we're too drunk to care?"

[–] Agent641@lemmy.world 8 points 3 weeks ago

Pretty sure we were guzzling hooch since those first monkeys discovered a pile of half rotten fruit, ate it, vomited, then ate the rest and woke up with a prehistoric hangover. JC was just a garden variety bootlegger

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[–] qyron@sopuli.xyz 7 points 3 weeks ago (11 children)

I read somewhere that one part of going through the AA (USA) process revolves around channelling the person towards a sense of belief in a higher power; for the already religious, it basically stirs a new found sense, to those without belief it can essentially become into forced "evangelisation", even if not into a formal belief.

I've known a couple of hardcore alcoholics, both in and outside the family, and those who underwent detox, here (Portugal), it involves medication to aid in withdrawal, paired with mental health aid and educating the person on what the alcohol is doing to them. We have two singers, both former heavy drinkers, that are strongly vocal against alcohol abuse; one even states he is not "healed" but "in a never ending healing process".

So, what is all this about throwing people into belief for getting out of an addiction? Medicine is a thing, with proven results.

[–] wintermute@discuss.tchncs.de 4 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

That’s true. My wife has been sober for more than a year now. She went to AA meetings and did therapy. We are both atheist, and she really hated the religious part of the AA program, but talking with people that went through similar experiences really helped her.

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[–] samus12345@sh.itjust.works 7 points 3 weeks ago
[–] FiniteBanjo@feddit.online 7 points 3 weeks ago

Statistically the whole religious indoctrination aspect of AA is less effective than other combined methods, but that's unfair because some of those methods include well funded treatment by actual professionals like doctors and therapists.

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