Reddit

Welcome. Get ready to realize just how dogshit reddit is (both the userbase and the policies). Try to let go of any maladaptive habits you don't need anymore (self-censoring, treating all argumenters in bad faith, or anything else you've needed to do to survive reddit); this is an opportunity to start anew.

Welcome! Don't hesitate to ask question or community (lemmy's equivalent for subreddit) recommendation.
Idk your taste but let my introduce you to !superbowl@lemmy.world nevertheless. Great content both fun and full of learning possibilities and objectively better that its Reddit conterpart. Enjoy!

What took you so long?

Recently I got a 7-day reddit ban for encouraging violence - tbh I don't know exactly what I said because all they would do is give me a link to the deleted comment, which was deleted, but it was in the Ukraine War sub and I'm pretty it was for saying I wished somebody would take out Putin. Banned for enouraging violence, upon the enemy leader in an ongoing war. That's a mighty high ethical bar you got there, sheriff.

I got a seven day for mocking a racist and never looked back

Dude, I feel you. Welcome from a fellow Reddit expat. Right after the Inauguration, Musk had a meeting with Spez, and they permabanned an unknown, but enormous number of people, including me, with a 12 year account, and a million Karma.

People like you and me were on Reddit when NOBODY knew who they were. We BUILT that site, made it the active conversational free speech site it was supposed to be, until they started getting heavy handed, and then went full MAGA for the second round.

You'll find Lemmy is a LOT more forgiving for political speech, although some instances and subs still have some stupid mods.

There aren't nearly as many niche forums as Reddit, which is too bad, and there isn't nearly as much engagement. You won't be getting thousands, or even hundreds of upvotes. Dozens, maybe. Often none.

On the other hand, you don't get anywhere near the amount of nonsense you have to put up with at Reddit. The other day I checked out a post that came up in a search, and had to bail because I couldn't get through the dozens and dozens of pun posts, totally irrelevant tangents, bots, novelty accounts, etc. I never did reach any actual conversation about the subject. It was so much worse than 18 months ago, and it was already bad then.

MAGA has obviously discovered the power of Reddit, and destroyed it. They haven't found Lemmy yet.

Welcome aboard!

I lost my 11y account for the audacity of song lyrics that a random mod classed as hate speech. It had a rude word 😑.

Fuck them. It's thankfully more authentic here and a lot less bots. I've yet to see a haiku.

I got a site wide permaban for saying Putin should be executed for war crimes.

On r/ukraine

Here by choice not by force. I left Reddit when they chose to fuck up by abandoning the API for Ads. Haven't missed Reddit one bit. If you aren't already, you'll be happy somewhere in the federation. Sorry about losing history, hopefully you are okay with your transition to the future.

Yeah, fuck them. My account over there is a bit older than yours was and it's been hit with 2 3 day bans recently for "threatening violence" for posts which clearly were not threatening violence. I hope they were by bots, because God save us all if real people with reading comprehension at that level have been given authority of any kind. They don't pay any attention to the appeals so I just insulted the admin staff in the last one.

Hi, welcome! Sooooo, maybe this is new info. Maybe this you already know. Either way, as a Lemmy newbie, allow me to fill you in on some lingo and details around here.

So, subreddits are called communities, but it's the same thing.

What's not the same is the core functionality. Lemmy has potentially an infinate amount of servers. I say potentially because you can start your own Lemmy server right now.

These servers are called "instances". It's just a server where you can host your own lemmy account, or your own communities.

So, you can do whatever you want on your instance. You can tell all your friends to join your instance. I could sign up for an account and be hosted by your instance.

Now I'm not saying you need to do that, or even that you should do that. I'm just saying you can. It's possible.

Now, let's talk federation.

Think of each instance as a circle. Now imagine a line connecting two circles. That connection between the two circles means they are "federated", or connected. You as a user on an instance can interact with all other federated instances. This is why you'll see topics on lemmy.world and users hosted lemmy.ml.

Lemmy.world and Lemmy.ml are two different instances, but they are federated. So Lemmy.ml users can interact with Lemmy.world communities/topics/users.

Your instance is ani.social. I'm not firmiliar with which instances you're federated with. Clearly federated with Lemmy.World.

But imagine you found a problematic instance. Like what if you found somethink like nazis.online for an instance. You might want to cut ties with them.

So now imagine that line between ani.social and nazis.online is cut. You don't want to talk to nazis, and neither does anyone on your instance. So ani.social defederates from nazis.online, and now the nazis can't see, nor interact with you, or any communities on your instance.

However, user@nazis.online can still ineract with Lemmy.ml, and ani.social can still interact with lemmy.ml. So you still may see users on other instances that you're both federated with. In that case, you can block user@nazis.online.

And Lemmy.World, and Lemmy.ml are both Lemmy. But you may see users from an instance called piefed. What is piefed? Well it's a totally different service, with its own instances, with its own communities, run by different people that can still federate with Lemmy and other instances within the fediverse. But how is this possible?

Well, the fediverse is all services that use something called activitypub. Now, I'm a bit out my own element in knowing the finer details, but the over simplified version is that if a service uses activitypub, it CAN be part of the fediverse. I say "can" because I've been told that bluesky does run activitypub, but they choose to limit their own federation to just bsky.app. Meaning there are no other bluesky instances, and no other service is federated with bluesky, even though they totally could federate with mastodon.

Bluesky is almost a 1:1 carbon copy of pre-musk twitter. Mastodon is more pre-musk twitter inspired, but also fully part of the fediverse.

Bluesky has limited interaction with mastodon. I've never tried it, despite having both a bluesky and mastodon account. I've heard you need to bridge the accounts, and it's a whole thing. So I never bothered. I hear it's clumsy, and not worth it.

And there's a whole bunch of fediverse services.

Lemmy/piefed are like reddit.

Peertube is like youtube.

Loops is like tiktok.

Pixelfed is like instagram.

Friendica is like facebook.

And when I say all this, there's one giant elephant in the room we haven't addressed yet. Corporate interests.

Lets say you're still on X for some god awful reason. Well, you probably notice that they push their own agenda on you. They make money by getting you to follow the agenda. On the fediverse, there are no owners.

Like I said earlier, you can run your own instance. If Sony wanted to advertise on Lemmy, it would be damn near impossible. Because they could advertise on Lemmy.World, but only Lemmy.World users would see the ad. Because when you interact with Lemmy.World, you personally are not on Lemmy.World. You're on Lemmy.World via Ani.social. So you're actually browsing all this from Ani.Social. You never actually leave there. And if you try to go directly to Lemmy.World, you'll find you're not logged in. Because they have no login credentials for you. But if you go back to Ani.Social, you'll find things just as you left them. Still able to interact with Lemmy.World but still technically browsing Lemmy.World via Ani.Social.

I know thats a lot to throw at a newbie, but I promise it's only complicated in the begining. Once you get it, it's like second nature.

One last thing, despite being called the "fediverse", there's no need to worry. It has nothing to do with Kevin Federline.

My wildest permaban was for a Garyy Tan supporting Cop loving dog shooting another dog, this was detected as threatening violence (or something) a human overturned the obviously ludicrous 7-day ban and then a bot made it permanent.

Mods have never been great on reddit (the number of True, 2, slightly different spellings) subs are largely a result of legitimately bad moderation.

But the admins have gotten so much worse recently (not that they've ever been great either: Doxxing trans coworkers to alt-right led subs & banning me for forwarding that someone was trying to dox a mod).

I'm still on their to prevent my local sub going even further right as the rest of Reddit does but I really only engage in that sub now.

I got banned - after 13 years - for reporting hate speech.

Turns out that is “report abuse”.

I got a 3 day ban for a really innocuous comment. Done by "AI", of course... I was so annoyed that I didn't even appeal it and just deleted my account. Should have done it way before, of course. Haven't been back in 3 weeks. All I said was that Elron Musk hates poor people, and their shit AI said that was threatening harm to someone. Okay.

I had a reddit alt that disappeared for what seemed like 2 years, then all of a sudden I was able to find it and access it again. 🤔 I stopped posting over there around the time of the API blackout and now I have a whole process of sites I go through before I cave and check if something is on reddit.

Got my 7yo account banned for not verifying my mail.

Created a few more accounts with temporary mails, got banned by 'unauthentic activity'. Then I gave up all and begun to use lemmy. I try to interact on everything to create engagement

Welcome to the real world, Neo.

I got a 2 month ban on worldnews in a thread about Tesla stocks going to shit and Elon Musk crying about it. My comment was "Hahaha, may he suffer" and apparently that is harassment and inciting violence.

Right after Melon Husk bought Twitter, I posted something about Howard Schultz (CEO of Starbucks) while he was questioned about his anti-union activities in front of Congress. I wanted to slap the smile off his face into next Tuesday. That got me a 7 day ban. I didn't log in for a month. When I came back, my feed was just as nasty. I moved everyone I followed to Mastodon if they had an account. Same with Facebook. That was over 2 years ago. When BlueSky started using their posts for LLMs, I deleted my account.

Mom told me this story about a little old man that a reporter saw praying against the Western Wall (of the original Temple) in Jerusalem. The man was there for over a week during the morning and afternoons. The reporter wanted some insight into this man's devotion, so he asked him about it.

The old man pondered the question then said "In the mornings, I come and pray for peace. Then I have a bit of a nosh and come back in the afternoon I pray again for peace."

"Well, given what's happening right now, what's that like?" asked the reporter.

"It's like talking to a wall." said the old man sadly.

I had to go shortly after the "He gets us" Jesus ads made their appearance.

AI mods, and increasingly AI content, they're making it a training ground for what they can get away.

It will become more like Facebook.

I hope you already edited all of your comments and posts