The left treating this like the right treated the Sandy Hook parents.
Grief is just a weird private thing. You might not get to see when it hits someone. Different people do it differently.
We're adaptive. We evolved to deal with death pretty readily.
EDIT: I'm specifically talking about the right being suss about videos of parents laughing with police. They were used to start the rumors the parents were crisis actors and not grieving "correctly". Same thing. You can't police grief.
Humans fucking suck, Web 2.0 is a failed experiment.