Because (particularly in the US) people have the attitude of "I know that it's going to be shit for other people, but it makes me feel a little better about things, so I'm going to do it anyway"
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That's a very complex thought process. Let me unveil the real reason:
"whoah that's cool"
That's it. If someone made a pan-nuclear LED with the same brightness as the surface of an entire white dwarf, people would buy it. That's where the thinking ends. Where the light ends up, other people, etc.. Who cares?
"Other people exist?"
It's fucking horrible even here in EU, where I would expect it to be better regulated. Can't imagine how bad it's in the US.
I've even seen multiple posts on local subreddits about people buying SUV/crossovers and one of the main reason was being blinded by other SUVs.
Fucking horrible it should be checked at every MOT, and it sometimes is, but the newer vehicles are exempt from yearly MOTs for some stupid reason.
In Canada, the federal government just put out a nationwide poll for input on this exact subject, as it’s coming near to the time to review the related legislation. It’s very possible that some of the headlight implementations currently on the road will soon be illegal nationwide.
Thank god, I've been sick of this shit for over a decade. I don't know who would vote against dimmer lights.
The poll closed 20 April: https://tc.canada.ca/en/corporate-services/consultations/canadian-experience-vehicle-headlights-glare-night
I seem to recall it opened in February. There were lots of news articles on Lemmy about it at the time.
It pisses me off to no end, but what the fuck can I do about it lol
I've often considered making an adjustable mirror with a servo on it mounted to the back of the car, so they can blind themselves and feel stupid
There's a strong temptation to wander my neighborhood with a thick piece of wood and "solve" my problem locally
Nothing better than having to cover my eyes at night because my retinas are being fucking burned out of my head.
For me it's not the brightness, but the color temperature of the light that gets me. Why do we strictly regulate the color of turn signals and brake lights, but not headlights? Warm white should be mandated.
Don't people who set the rules also drive? "Wow, I can't see a damn thing. Maybe headlights are too bright?"
This is a US and Canada problem. This is basically a non-issue in the rest of the world.
There are two standards for headlights, one established by the UN that applies to 99% of countries. Whereas the US and Canada have the other standard that is far worse for glare.
The global standard has strict rules on glare, requiring a sharp cutoff line at the top of the beam. The american regulations do not have this. American regulations do not account for headlight height off the ground, defining alignment purely with angles. An SUV or pickup with its headlights mounted above your eyeline can legslly shine the fullest part of its lights directly into your eyes at all times. In contrast, the international regulations account for height, and require tall vehicles to incline their headlights further downward to avoid dazzling other drivers.
This problem can be solved for new cars instantly by switching to the international standard. The auto industry is international. They sell in markets with the global standard and could switch their headlights immediately after a change in the law. This is an easily solvable problem.
If you're saying that it's not a problem in Europe then I can't imagine how bad it is in America. I get blinded by taller vehicles all the time on the road in Denmark. I also don't think most people's automatic high beams work correctly.
What can any of us do about anything? Everything sucks ass and I have no idea what to do. Should I talk to my literal neo nazi neighbors until I've somehow successfully re-educated them? That's fucking stupid and not possible. The second they turn around from our conversation, they see a television, in their own house, in all the restaurants, in every waiting room in the country, blaring FOX News.
Going over to a Facebook market place pickup, and seeing a dude with Fox just playing in the afternoon on a weekend. I was just like "you really choose to do this in your free time?". I felt nothing but genuine pity. And I got a pretty cool green enamel sink for free, so I wasn't about to say anything.
I bought glasses for this very reason. "Night vision" glasses. While the lights are still bright your eyes recover quickly.
Do these work? I’m thinking of getting them.
I wear prescription glasses they need to fit with so trying them is a much bigger investment
Polarized lenses, but with a yellow tint instead of black. I've seen them for sale at truck stops, some with extra-large frames so they'd fit over your prescription lenses.
In my experience they help, but they don't totally fix the problem. I'd still rather have them than not, though. I use fitovers.
I’ll look for that brand. I haven’t had any luck with sunglasses that are supposed to “fit over”, but have been using magnetic clipons sized to fit
Oh, the brand on mine is "Solar Shield," fitover is just a category. I've also used some of the "Cocoons," but those are mostly orange sleep hygiene glasses. Solar Shield are cheaper but I don't think they make orange ones. Clipons do also work for night driving, I have a pair of those too.
Its (like many things) mostly the us's fault. A slide away from rules into vibe based everything.
I remember a long time ago when I was first getting my license you had to pass a headlight test where you parked in a spot and there where painted lines on a wall for both high and low beams. It was how you adjusted your lights and was common in Canada. Now no one even knows what I am talking about. The rules are still there but no one enforces them and most forgot they can even adjust their lights (not sure new cars and trucks can be anymore).
Manufacturers in North America are now putting their lights so high up on vehicles and use such bright piercing lights on everything that night driving has become a nightmare. The answer to getting blinded is now to out blind others, its madness.

I love that people are asking me if I have some kind of visual deficiency when the phenomenon of blinding lights is so common that it's in the simpsons from 27 years ago lol
And those are "only" halogen. It's gotten much worse since then. Like you said, a sort of arms race.
We haven't. Many states have new laws on the books about this issue, and others on the horizon. The issue is that they approved at one point, so there will most likely be a grandfather clause for existing ones on the road because you can't force car manufacturers to go back and recall all these things to be retroactively compliant with a new law at cost to them. Not how laws work.
Because consumer protection and regulation seems to have stopped being a real thing after Reagan. Since then everything good has been legacy agencies patching at the edges where they had authority (all gone now thanks to the Supreme Court - see Loper Bright Enterprises v. Raimondo).
Buckle up. It's only going to get worse.
(This is extra ironic because buckling up is only even a thing because of consumer protections. So I guess get ready to be thrown through a windshield.)
In the USA, the lack of proper technical inspections and adjustable headlight beams, is a problem with raised vehicles. WTF, riding a motorcycle against a raised POS Bro Dozer, with multiple light bars, is the closest thing to a blinding UFO encounter. One cannot see jack shit! In Europe, that pile of rolling bolts would not be allowed on the public roads.
It's all part of The Shittening
Also why did they make them cooler? Everything used to me more tinted red and now everything has gone to blue which is worse for your night vision.
I have light sensitivity, the new lights cause physical pain. I completely stopped driving at night because of them and sometimes have to wear sunglasses at night as a passenger. They're hell
We as a society just accept everything. It's what we were trained to do. We get mad and make posts like this one, then go back to our daily lives, having changed little to nothing about our behavior or the behavior of others. It's not necessarily our fault - it's difficult for one person to make a real change, but that's just the reality of our society.
It's not just cars. Also super blinding lights on bicycles, aimed too high. And the worst of all: straight at your face aiming super blinding lights from fricking joggers on park roads that have public lighting!!
Because hurting people with your truck headlights is MANLY.