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Inspired by yesterday's discussion on whether or not a hotdog is a sandwich, I've decided to wade into the waters of filled-bread food controversy. I am of the contention that jelly belongs on top of the peanut butter. What say you, Lemmings?

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[–] QDgwZjQYdfbnMdMNQ@lemmy.cafe 1 points 10 hours ago

I always put the peanut butter on top because it sticks to the bread better. If I pick up a slice of bread with jelly, there's more of a chance that some could fall off.

[–] elephantium@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago

I make PBJ toast for breakfast a lot. Spread peanut butter first, then jelly, eat slices separately.

On "running late" days, I used to make it into a toast sandwich & eat in the car (WFH now). I'd still spread the toppings on both slices out of habit, I think.

[–] testaccount789@sh.itjust.works 148 points 4 days ago (8 children)

Depends on which fingers you want to get dirty.

[–] DudeImMacGyver@kbin.earth 55 points 4 days ago (3 children)

Alright, now listen here you little shit...

[–] Zachariah@lemmy.world 10 points 4 days ago

not shit; peanut butter

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[–] gigastasio@sh.itjust.works 21 points 4 days ago

This is angry upvote material.

[–] samus12345@sh.itjust.works 2 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

The 4th Earl of Sandwich would be highly offended by this.

[–] bitjunkie@lemmy.world 13 points 4 days ago

Take your god damn upvote

[–] JennaR8r@lemmy.dbzer0.com 8 points 4 days ago (2 children)

Do you think he washed his hands with soap & water after that photo was taken? Or do you think he licked his fingers clean?

[–] CmdrShepard49@sh.itjust.works 1 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Perhaps this is their first stage of foreplay before performing "the shocker" on his partner. Lubrication is important.

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[–] wonderingwanderer@sopuli.xyz 6 points 4 days ago

Remove this aberration from my line of sight immediately!

Or at least mark it with a content warning.

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[–] Astronut@lemmy.zip 47 points 4 days ago (3 children)

Absofuckinglutely! The jelly will gooify the bread on on a much faster rate than the peanut butter. You have to eat that sumbitch jelly up and that’s all there is to it!

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[–] Drusas@fedia.io 28 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Jelly on the top slice, probably because that side has less structural stability as it becomes moistened by the jelly/jam.

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[–] gigastasio@sh.itjust.works 21 points 4 days ago

It’s a matter of structural stability. Peanut butter, being more dense, makes for a superior foundation. In the event of earthquakes, sudden stops, or cabin depressurization, a PBJ with the peanut butter side down stands a stronger chance of maintaining position and surviving.

[–] 5too@lemmy.world 6 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (3 children)

Whichever one I want to taste more of on the next bite goes down!

Does nobody else flip their sandwiches over periodically like this?

[–] sydd@lemmy.world 2 points 2 days ago

Yes entirely, it makes a difference.

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[–] Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world 20 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (13 children)

The obviously correct answer is neither.

You have to peanut butter BOTH pieces of bread to create a jelly proof barrier. Then there is no top side!

[–] Tahl_eN@lemmy.world 10 points 4 days ago (2 children)

My mom used to spread peanut butter on the bottom slice and dairy butter on the top slice for the jelly proofing.

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[–] SethranKada@lemmy.ca 18 points 4 days ago (8 children)

I put peanut butter on both slices, then jam on top of the peanut butter.

And no butter!

I don't know what's up with those weirdos buttering their bread before putting spreads on, but I'm not one of em!

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[–] blockheadjt@sh.itjust.works 11 points 4 days ago

The whole "pb on both pieces of bread" thing is SPECIFICALLY for making the sandwich IN ADVANCE like making your lunch in the morning. If you're eating it immediately then that's unnecessary.

That method increases the likelihood of cross-contamination (don't get one ingredient in the other's jar, you heathen), so don't do it UNLESS you're making it in advance.

Anyway, the correct way (for eating-immediately scenarios) is jam on top, as it's less likely to drip that way.

[–] Washedupcynic@lemmy.ca 5 points 3 days ago (4 children)

Peanut butter is placed on BOTH sides of bread, and the jelly goes in-between those layers of peanut butter. This keeps the jelly from making your bread soggy.

[–] Soggy@lemmy.world 7 points 3 days ago

I've never had a problem with jelly-sogged bread.

[–] Buddahriffic@lemmy.world 4 points 3 days ago (1 children)

My approach for the more liquidy sandwich toppings is to deliberately give them direct access to the bread so that they soak up in it instead of dripping out. It doesn't get soggy because the bread is toasted.

Jelly stuck inside layers of impenetrable peanut butter sounds like a mess either when the sandwich compresses during the first bite or later on, when your bite includes the centre of jelly mass.

Though for maximizing peanut butter (which is also a worthy goal), you could do both pieces of toast but leave a gap in the middle of one (or both).

[–] elephantium@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

How much jelly do you heap on there?! I always figure a thin layer is plenty.

TBF I mostly eat PBJ toast, so the gobs of jam effect isn't something I have to worry about

[–] Buddahriffic@lemmy.world 1 points 19 hours ago

It's mostly an issue for sauces rather than jam or jelly. The other comment just reminded me of my old method where I'd inadvertently seal the bread away and then get more dripping.

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[–] nowherelord@lemmy.world 6 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Jelly on top, if you use the same knife for both peanut butter and jelly, you'll mix jelly with the PB in the jar. I know I don't want that, but to each his own, I guess. PB doesn't tend to get into the jelly jar as much, in my experience, but again, to each his own.

[–] Drusas@fedia.io 4 points 3 days ago

I just wipe the jam off the knife onto the clean slice of bread before doing the peanut butter side. No getting it in the peanut butter jar.

[–] agent_nycto@lemmy.world 3 points 3 days ago

Jelly on top, peanut butter on the bottom, bread in the middle

[–] BarneyPiccolo@lemmy.today 5 points 3 days ago

You spread the peanut butter on one slice of bread, then wipe the knife off on the second slice, spreading a super thin layer of peanut butter across the surface to seal it, so the jelly doesn't seep in.

Then you use the now clean knife to spread the jam or preserves over the thin layer of peanut butter, and slap them together, and slice it in half.

[–] tdawg@lemmy.world 10 points 4 days ago (2 children)

Everyone keeps talking about structure. Yet no one seems to consider eating. If you do PB top side then you get PB stuck to the roof of your mouth

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[–] AngryCommieKender@lemmy.world 4 points 3 days ago

Stripes. Side by side. Peanut butter next to jelly next to peanut butter, and so on. No top. No bottom. Just utter chaos.

[–] captain_aggravated@sh.itjust.works 6 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Correctly made, a PB&J should be symmetrical. A layer of peanut butter on each slice of bread with jelly in between, so the jelly doesn't sog up the bread, especially if the sandwich is to be stored for awhile as in a packed lunch.

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[–] MisterNeon@lemmy.world 9 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Jelly belongs on top. Peanut butter belongs on the bottom. Banana belongs on top of the peanut butter. Chia seeds must be worked into both peanut butter and jelly before setting the banana.

[–] cattywampas@lemmy.world 13 points 4 days ago (8 children)

If I find chia seeds in my pb&j I'm crashing out

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