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It used to be interesting before with engaging posts and looked like a burgeoning community. Now it's just stagnant, full of politics and tankieism has become more commonplace.

Idk though, maybe it's just me

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[–] Sunsofold@lemmings.world 4 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

The qualities swing and sway in various ways. Some days, it seems to be a giant wall of 'fuck trump/ice/anyone right of me.' Some days, it's horny memes and cat pics. Some days, it's 'I made bread today. It's delicious.'

[–] NannerBanner@literature.cafe 1 points 1 hour ago

It's too bad all the bread posts are the types that aren't delicious. Fucking sourdough has rotted the collective world's mind.

[–] Notyou@sopuli.xyz 8 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Do you miss the bean posts?

[–] DacoTaco@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago
[–] GrammarPolice@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] Notyou@sopuli.xyz 2 points 21 hours ago (1 children)
[–] GrammarPolice@lemmy.world 0 points 17 hours ago

Jeez, I think i joined right when this was dying, or something similar

[–] Diva@lemmy.ml 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Idk though, maybe it’s just me

i'm having a great time screm-cool

[–] GrammarPolice@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] Diva@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

why thank you, it's pretty awesome. i have almost completely cut out other social media at this point.

[–] schwim@piefed.zip 27 points 1 day ago (1 children)

full of politics and tankieism has become more commonplace.

Not if you use filters and blocklists. This platform has been full of politics and porn since the first day. On day 2, I created a short filter list and blocked a few instances and communities and now I see absolutely 0 posts daily regarding it.

As for stagnant, that's what you get when you move to a platform that doesn't use an algorithm and ragebait to keep you engaged. For all the people that say they hate the manipulation used against them by the big platforms, they have been conditioned to want it and many move back or keep visiting while here. You can either choose to catch up on your feed here and then go touch grass or you can doomscroll reddit with the assurance that you'll never run out of psychologically tailored content to peruse.

[–] NannerBanner@literature.cafe 2 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

As for stagnant, that’s what you get when you move to a platform that doesn’t use an algorithm and ragebait to keep you engaged.

I do wish they could make the 'hot' and 'active' calculations a little bit better. Hot quickly becomes 'scaled' after just a few pages, it seems, where older posts are very quickly pushed down.

[–] schwim@piefed.zip 1 points 42 minutes ago

I agree completely. I use my adblocker to block the sidebar, since it's of no value to me. I appreciate the extra post space more.

[–] Rod_Orm@piefed.world 0 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

I'm on lemmy just to wait on the waiting list https://rhyme.com/ to be honest 🤷‍♂️

[–] GrammarPolice@lemmy.world 0 points 13 hours ago (1 children)
[–] Rod_Orm@piefed.world 0 points 12 hours ago

Well stay on lemmy then 🤷‍♂️

[–] Wren@lemmy.today 2 points 1 day ago

I'm having a fantastic time running the kinds of communities I want to see and only browsing by subscribed.

[–] Iconoclast@feddit.uk 3 points 1 day ago

What? You don't want to spend the whole day talking about things that you don't like and make you angry?

Are you sane?

[–] hendrik@palaver.p3x.de 12 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (15 children)

If you want advice: Maybe unsubscribe from like the political memes communities and specifically join replacements which are better aligned to what you need. Some people are trying to make an effort.

If you want validation... I see shitty things here as well.

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[–] jet@hackertalks.com 4 points 1 day ago

I've curated my feed to things I find sensible. And yes Lemmy is slowing down. We just have to keep reasonable conversations going until the next reddit exodus and the cycle continues.

The tools are getting better, Lemmy 1.0 is in public beta. I don't think Lemmy is dying, just in a slump right now... And yes the userbase I mostly block is driving normies away. Which means less of the conversations I enjoy. So... Better tools!

[–] ArgumentativeMonotheist@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

The average American has the weirdest, silliest of takes. Go back to Reddit where Western imperialism is praised and political discourse is within your acceptable limits. 🙄

Or just block any community that discusses anything non-scientific seriously? Politics are an extension of ethics and ethical convos happen all the time, it's unavoidable if you discuss life and society.

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[–] HubertManne@piefed.social 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

this reminds me of im leaving reddit posts. when I left I did not post about it. I just left. now im here and i have blocked enough communities and users that its a fine experience for me. granted my instance does some blocking to so we will see if I ever get off my tuckus and move over to zip.

[–] OwOarchist@pawb.social 3 points 1 day ago

when I left I did not post about it. I just left.

You didn't post about leaving reddit because you didn't feel any need to.

I didn't post about leaving reddit because I got shadowbanned.

We are not the same.

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