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[–] bmpvy@piefed.social 49 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I love that you're now having the non-genitals you want and I love that by requesting that you've now been a pioneer paving the way for others 🏳️‍⚧️

You really should be proud of yourself for going through all the medical system interrogations and stuff and enduring people questioning you on things that are not their business.

Congrats for nothing 😁💕

[–] Tiral@lemmy.zip 9 points 1 month ago (1 children)

It kinda is their business if they're doing the surgery. They can refuse to do things that they feel are unethical, inhumane, ect. Plus they have to take into account the person's mental status if they're in the right state of mind for an elective operation like that. It isn't surgery to remove an appendix or gallbladder. They can also refuse to do it.

But yeah, if that's what you want do you. They just need to make sure, for some pretty damn good reasons.

[–] bmpvy@piefed.social 10 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

seems like you don't know how invasive the questions asked by medical stuff can be. sure this is something with extra questions involved. these questions are not my point.

(just for example I have been asked unprompted - and in details - about my sexual activity by a diabetic doctor. things like that happen a lot. it's exhausting to be trans in the medical system.)

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[–] toomanypancakes@piefed.world 46 points 1 month ago (1 children)

No real questions here tbh, I'm just so glad you were able to get what you wanted! Having genitals you don't want is unbelievably fucking uncomfortable in my experience. I hope it was the relief you needed!

[–] Grail@multiverse.soulism.net 42 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Yeah, I'm way comfier now. And no more hair getting stuck under My balls! Now it only gets stuck in My butt crack! That's progress!

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[–] Paradachshund@lemmy.today 23 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Did you have trouble finding a doctor willing to do it, or get a lot of push back? I've heard how hard it can be for women to get sterilized sometimes, so I imagine there would be a lot of push back on this too. "Are you really really really sure for real?"

[–] Grail@multiverse.soulism.net 49 points 1 month ago (3 children)

I had a lot of trouble with the doctor stuff. Bottom surgery in general in Australia is a nightmare. There's this guy, Andrew Ives, who used to be the #1 recommendation for bottom surgery in the entire country. So I booked a consultation with him, months and months in advance. And then he retired.

I eventually found a surgeon with a great bedside manner, who could do exactly what I wanted, including the special feature I wanted. The only problem was, he wanted Me to see TWO licensed WPATH psychiatrists. Most people only have to see one psychiatrist, but I had to see two because My surgery is less common.

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[–] SushiSushi@lemmy.blahaj.zone 21 points 1 month ago (2 children)
[–] Grail@multiverse.soulism.net 31 points 1 month ago (1 children)

My surgeon made Me a new pee pee hole, around where most women keep theirs. You definitely couldn't fit a penis in there, though, it's tiny. It's for pee and jizz only, same as the old one. I suppose I could still do sounding, but I don't want to.

[–] Rumo161@feddit.org 9 points 1 month ago (3 children)

Jizz in the form oft baby juices? Arent the berrys gone? Is there some biological thing i have still to learn?

[–] maxwellfire@lemmy.world 26 points 1 month ago (2 children)

The vast majority of the volume of semen is made in the prostate and seminal vesicles (which are right next to the bladder), not the testes!

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[–] Tiresia@slrpnk.net 15 points 1 month ago

Ejaculate is a bit of a cocktail. The sperm comes from the balls, but there are glands along the duct that connects the testicles to the urinary tract that add a liquid which can sometimes be seen separately as precum. During ejaculation, those liquids are pushed out, and mixed with the sperm load if one is present. Those glands and the duct can be kept during surgery.

Like how almost all people have nipples and milk ducts, almost all people have the same genital components, they're just shaped and positioned differently. These glands are the same as the ones that make the wetness of vaginas, and the tube connecting the testicles and urinary tract is the same as the womb, vagina, and inner vulva.

[–] TheMetaleek@jlai.lu 9 points 1 month ago

Jizz is only a few percent spermatozoids, the rest is seminal fluid mainly produced by other organs like the prostate and seminal vesicle, so you can absolutely ejaculate with no testicles

[–] xkbx@startrek.website 26 points 1 month ago (2 children)
[–] Nindelofocho@lemmy.world 9 points 1 month ago

Like a coke freestyle machine??

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[–] dejected_warp_core@lemmy.world 21 points 1 month ago

At first, I thought you were describing a zero-depth vaginoplasty sort of situation, but then realized you really did order "nuttin'". I'll admit, I was just as confused as Jimmy. Thanks for digging up this classic ad too.

I have no questions (your replies here tell the whole story already), but just wanted to say: this is incredible and I'm happy for you!

[–] nutbutter@discuss.tchncs.de 20 points 1 month ago (3 children)

Where did they relocate your urethral opening, or whatever it's called? I mean, where do you pee from, now?

[–] Grail@multiverse.soulism.net 25 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Around the same place most women keep theirs. Just, minus the vagina part.

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[–] brhfl@digipres.club 17 points 1 month ago (1 children)

@Grail dang, the nothing envy is real 😹

[–] Grail@multiverse.soulism.net 32 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I made this post because A: it's funny, and B: I want other trans people to know this is an option, so they can be happier with whatever choice they make.

[–] brhfl@digipres.club 9 points 1 month ago (1 children)

@Grail …despite being jokey, i hope my response didn’t come off as insincere

[–] Grail@multiverse.soulism.net 20 points 1 month ago

No, I took you seriously, I had nothing envy before the surgery. Now I've got nothing euphoria

[–] llamatron@lemmy.world 17 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I kinda want to see what this looks like

[–] Grail@multiverse.soulism.net 20 points 1 month ago (3 children)

You want pictures of My crotch?

[–] Im_old@lemmy.world 13 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I mean, this is the internet, sending each other crotch pics it's what it was designed for 😄

Also, how do you stimulate for orgasm? Prostate only I guess. Or you don't want to have sex as well? Just curious, I'm happy that you're happy 🙂

[–] Grail@multiverse.soulism.net 17 points 1 month ago

I kept a little bit of the sensitive tissue. Just the tip. It's under My skin so I can wank by rubbing it. But I'm not really into the whole having sex thing most of the time.

[–] katkit@lemmy.world 10 points 1 month ago (5 children)

Did you have an ideas of what it would look like before you had the surgery? Maybe there's pictures elsewhere on the interrnet.

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[–] llamatron@lemmy.world 9 points 1 month ago (4 children)

I guess if you put it like that it does sound weird. But yes, I'm intrigued.

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[–] samus12345@sh.itjust.works 16 points 1 month ago
[–] bdonvr@thelemmy.club 14 points 1 month ago (1 children)
[–] Grail@multiverse.soulism.net 16 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

About as smooth as My bum

[–] MidsizedSedan@lemmy.world 14 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I remember when I first got here, the biggest post was about the person who asked for advice on how to not poop for 3 days.

Now we are here with detailed comments on Genital Nullification Surgery, with GREAT answers in the comments.

How times have changed.

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[–] Echolynx@lemmy.zip 13 points 1 month ago (1 children)

What was the healing/recovery like compared to a traditional GRS?

[–] Grail@multiverse.soulism.net 18 points 1 month ago

Pretty quick and simple. I don't have to dilate or anything like that. I walked out of the hospital three days after the surgery, and a week later I was taking care of Myself

[–] its_kim_love@lemmy.blahaj.zone 12 points 1 month ago

No Jimmy. Hold the Nuttin.

[–] a_gee_dizzle@lemmy.ca 12 points 1 month ago (1 children)
[–] Grail@multiverse.soulism.net 44 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

I didn't like having a twig and berries. It got hard at inconvenient times and got in the way of wearing tight pants. Plus I don't like the concept of having a sex object attached to My body. Now that I have no genitals, I wear leggings and cute dresses all the time.

[–] a_gee_dizzle@lemmy.ca 17 points 1 month ago (4 children)

Awkward boners an issue, I agree. But I can’t imagine giving up my family jewels because of that. Are you asexual?

[–] Grail@multiverse.soulism.net 44 points 1 month ago (4 children)

According to most people's definitions of sex, yes I'm asexual. But I do enjoy some of the secret kinds of sex the patriarchy doesn't want you to know about.

[–] urheber@discuss.tchncs.de 9 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Is the area still as sensitive as the item you had before? I mean, can you still masturbate ?

[–] Grail@multiverse.soulism.net 14 points 1 month ago (2 children)

I can rubby rubby. It's less sensitive, but more pleasurable

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[–] tristan@tarte.nuage-libre.fr 9 points 1 month ago

I know nothing about the topic, but just wanted to chime in to say I appreciate your use of the interrobang.

[–] lalah@sakurajima.moe 8 points 1 month ago (1 children)

@Grail my question is, did you have to remove all your hair from down there before surgery? and can you still grow hair there now?

[–] Grail@multiverse.soulism.net 12 points 1 month ago

I did not have to remove any hair, and I can still grow pubic hair.

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