My belief is that college is a means to an end. That is, you go in with an explicit goal of achieving so-and-so, and achieving it will directly help you achieve so-and-so after college. For instance, say you want to be a doctor, and to be a doctor you need a degree. Or you want to become an engineer, and to be an engineer you need a degree. These are valid reasons to go to college.

I find that a lot of students go to college because they think they need to go to college. Or because they think it gets them a higher paying job, but they don't know which job it is that they want, just that it'll be a high paying job. Or because they want the degree for the bragging rights. Or to satisfy their parents. I interpret these goals as stemming from the belief that finishing college is the ultimate goal, and that as long as you finish college, you're guaranteed a satisfying life.

Having these kinds of goals, I think, aren't going to get you to make the most of college, and frankly, I believe that having these sorts of goals are fundamentally misaligned with what the college experience offers students.

I don't know what your situation is like, but I believe that the solution to your question lies in answering this more fundamental question: why are you going to college? And is your reason because you plan to use college as a stepping stone for a more ultimate goal?

If you do drop, just know that it’s often a lot harder to get the motivation to go back if you need to.

In ten years, if you are 35 or so, no matter where you are in life it’ll be harder to go back.

I’m not saying the answer here is to stay in school if you are burned out. But just realize that it will be harder to get that motivation later on in life.

I think you answered your own question.

If you're burnt out, grinding it through 2 more years and amassing 2 more years of debt doesn't sound worth it to me... especially if you're already working in your field

Sounds to me like you had a good reason to stop once, and then you gave up for some not as good reasons. It doesn't seem like it's a priority to you, so cut the cord yo. Not everyone goes to college.

That being said, not finishing is likely to fuck you twice: once in the money you've already lit on fire and once on the degree you didn't get.

But it's not the end of the world.

Just understand if you want to get places in IT your going to have to climb the ladder, keep sharp on technologies, and make connections. It's doable, but it takes effort. After a decade of cutting your teeth, your schooling should be largely irrelevant on your resume. This is my career path and I keep pace with my colleagues who all have degrees.

Focus on the job and paying down your debts and let the version of yourself in 5-10 years make the decision about going back.

I should've dropped when I stopped caring. Got academic dismissal instead. Years later, I was tired of bs jobs, and I was ready to get serious. I went back to school part-time and earned my 4-year degree in a grand total of 12 years. Hardest thing I've ever done, but I don't have to bear that sense of failure anymore.

When you're ready to make that push, you'll know. Your journey is unique.

I’m just a rando on the internet who didn’t drop out, so take my advice with a grain of salt. Since you mentioned you have an IT job - based on my experience, a degree becomes irrelevant in job interviews the longer you’ve worked and knowledge/experience become more important. I personally don’t care where/if a person graduated when interviewing people that have working experience for several years already. However, a degree does get you on top of the pile for HR and some hiring managers who care more about what’s on paper vs actual skills. So you need to take that into account for future career moves if you decide to leave your current IT job and not finish your degree.

I could risk a suggestion, but you seem like you are in the US and frankly what you describe does not line up with my experience of higher education pretty much at all, so I'm pretty sure it wouldn't be useful.

I'll just say that that seems like it sucks, it's not what higher education should be about and you guys should probably get around to fixing it at one point or another.

My son dropped out for a couple of years after his father died and he was failing everything due to depression. He worked a delivery job and paid off loans, then went back and finished. It was easier when he went back -- two years of maturity and working for a living made a big difference. I think if you focus on paying off your debts and saving, you will find in a few years that you are motivated and ready for success.

It might be worth seeking out a psychologist to help you work through these set backs and address the root causes of your grief and think through the ramifications of these actions. It may be possible to develop an education plan that conforms to your unique circumstances, allowing you to graduate. At my school we called those pink slips (a pink document that you gave to each professor detailing how to adjust their training to better suit you that the school has agreed too). Work out an alternative education plan to help you succeed as it isn't a black and white system, schools work out alternative plans all the time with many students. Remember, that you're not a bother the school wants you to succeed. Even from a non-humanities angle it helps with their metrics too.

There is no shame in seeking out professional help or helping yourself protect your hefty investment. Any thoughts that contradict this thought should be incredulously examined for merit.

It's also important to note, that each school may have a different way of handling your departure. Some schools let you keep your credits for a limited time to apply to you coming back. Generally speaking, once someone has left the school system life has a way of keeping you locked into your current responsibilities and its a real possibility you won't come back. This is especially true if your only experience was negative and you have only debt to show for it. It'll be really challenging to convince oneself it'll work next time.

Ultimately, this isn't a question for the internet but for the professionals at your school and hopefully a medical professional and if you haven't evaluated these options earnestly I wouldn't say its okay to drop out just yet.

1. IT can be a good career without a degree, but it absolutely helps.
2. Maintaining a full time job is far more demanding than college. If you can't stick it out in class, I'm concerned about sticking with the job too. No job and student loans is even more stressful.
3. You probably won't go back, also classes expire if you aren't actively taking classes. Yes it's bullshit, but look into this before you decide.
4. 40k debt isn't awful, but 2 more years without payments is going to really balloon that. If you try to finish, doing everything you can to finish faster would be better.

I would say if you are struggling to just let it go and revisit school when you are ready. I have had the same issues and it was never worth it to continue until I was in the right headspace for it. I still have no degree and wish I didn’t force my self to attended classes. I have a decent job not where I want to be, in IT as well but POS side. Experience has gotten me farther than the classroom. Are you sure finishing will be financially beneficial?

You can always try to take 1 class per semester. If that's not manageable, then you might need to refocus.

If it was anything other than IT I'd say reconsider.

Keep working in IT, pay your loans. Take cheap online classes to finish up your degree at your convenience, but don't wait too long or your old credits will expire (or just be non transferrable). If you try to find a new job the degree might give you an edge over another applicant without one, and if you've already done most of the work/gotten the credits but then don't finish it then all the debt you've gained is truly for nothing.

Any recommendation or advice you will get here will only be from a very limited view, from what you shared, and impersonal, as we can't know many things about you, your personality, and your life and life circumstances.

You say you have a decent job, and you consider focusing on that. Which seems like a good and split idea to me.

You tried more than once to get back into it and finish it, but failed, so that doesn't seem viable. It'd at least need a break, but if you have the alternative, and good prospects in job etc, then I don't see why you should have to or would try to force what evidently doesn't work out at the moment.

Surely you got some things out of your studies already, and job experience counts just as much as studies. You have a job, and surely provide value there, so they depend on you to a degree. It's not like you'll be lost.

When it is "okay" to drop out is entirely subjective. As a broad answer to a broad question: it's always okay. Sometimes people notice it's not what they were looking for, or doesn't fit them. Unless there is reasons to follow through, it's better to cut losses and focus on something more fitting.

People have covered most of the bases here. The hardest part is that if you don't go back soon, you will find that door is closed to you - at least to finish what you started, without having to start mostly over again. College can definitely be worthwhile, but whether it is worthwhile TO YOU is the issue. Also, once you get used to receiving a paycheck and not living on like Ramen... it is next to impossible to go back to being poor and spending every waking moment (and beyond) studying, especially for some undefinable end goal. But on the other hand, I've seen it done with like 15-year gaps in-between dropping out, joining the army/navy/whatever and then going back to finish up. Definitely think through all the angles here, b/c you don't want to do anything that you will regret later - including wasting more time chasing something that you don't really want to begin with.

Don't plan on going back, that doesn't usually work out that way. Is your job good enough? A college degree should help you get a career, but if you already have one going then maybe you don't need a degree. Would your degree help your future career prospects? Why did you start the degree in the first place? Is that reason still relevant?

The commitment to stick with something is valuable in and of itself. Hard classes don't get easier, they teach perseverance and study skills.

If you are unable to stick with it and/or don't need the degree, go ahead and bolt.

Sounds to me like you had a good reason to take a break and then you

I'll just give my point of view about college.

I had done about 1.5 years worth of college, repeating classes I had already done in highschool (compsci) and thinking I shouldn't have started in the first place.

After I had done finished the last semester (not well ofc since I didn't give a fuck about my grades) I decided to officially drop out and pursue my career full time and self learn everything and gain experience from working.

Can't say it was a bad decision looking back but I was also grateful to be taken in by a small development shop!

But hey now I can say I have worked for redacted on my resume and built out some of the most robust CI/CD pipelines that company has ever seen! Lol

This is a tough decision that only you can make. I have been in and out of college since 2003 and still have a few classes til my bachelor. What worked for me once I was in the field I wanted was to cut back to one class at a time and just gradually churn through. Depending on your school/work/debt situation this may or may not be doable. What really matters is to step back and ask yourself why you are pursuing school, if continuing now will pay off in the future, and if pausing and returning is something you would actually do if you left now. Does your workplace offer assistance for education? That can be a great help if you want to slow down.

Yes

It's ok to drop out of college when you and others realize you will already be more productive and learn more by going straight to work. So like Gabe Newell dropping out to join Microsoft, or Zuckerberg dropping out to build Facebook.

Otherwise it's more of a should never have attempted college.

Accepting you're in the latter camp there are some important questions. What was your major, how much of it did you complete, and what exactly is your current job.

Those are important to know to as they effect how far you can actually go without a degree.

Unfortunately CEO requires no degree, but head of IT does.