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[–] anon6789@lemmy.world 20 points 16 hours ago

I've seen at least one.

[–] sbv@sh.itjust.works 9 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

Does this relate to your AI grandmother post?

[–] Chippys_mittens@lemmy.world 13 points 16 hours ago

Homeboy may or may not want to fuck his AI ghost grandmother

[–] etchinghillside@reddthat.com 3 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

Seeing as how husband/wife has legal implications – no.

[–] presoak@lazysoci.al -2 points 13 hours ago* (last edited 10 hours ago) (1 children)

It's coming. Right after AI people get the vote.

[–] etchinghillside@reddthat.com 3 points 12 hours ago

I feel like since marrying your real doll didn’t really take off we’ve got some time.

[–] Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world 3 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

Many people get weirded out by the concept of AI relationships, but I support them 100%.

It'll keep a lot of people who shouldn't be in a relationship with a human from bothering the rest of us.

[–] bl4kers@lemmy.ml 4 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

The idea of not "bothering the rest of us" seems inherently flawed. They are someone's offspring, sibling, neighbor, coworker, a voter, etc. Having folks in our communities be so isolated isn't healthy for a functioning society

[–] Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world 1 points 12 hours ago

Not everyone, just anyone who thinks they can find love in AI.

Nobody's going to miss their desperate attempts at "possessing a female".

[–] _haha_oh_wow_@sh.itjust.works 2 points 13 hours ago

Only if your cringe is uncontainable.

[–] blarghly@lemmy.world 2 points 14 hours ago

Yes, for a very small, sad, lonely segment of the population.

Otherwise, no. They are definitely not "a thing".

[–] quediuspayu@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 12 hours ago
[–] MagicShel@lemmy.zip 2 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

An AI can autocomplete text in a variety of ways, including what a conversation with a wife might look like. For some people, that can be entertaining, or funny, or cool. But some people think there is something more going on there. And that is sad.

[–] CMLVI@lemmy.world 2 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

I worked in juvenile detention (in a, let's say probationary setting) in a step-down unit kinda set up like a halfway house. You get out of jail, but are still supervised 24/7 and subject to the same rules and such, but live in a house, can get a job, family visits, etc. One client I had, we had to almost recommit him to jail because he lost phone privileges over something stupid and was freaking out because he couldn't talk to his AI girlfriend. And this was like 2019, so it wasn't even really AI like we know it currently, it was just a chat bot. Guy was so deep into the weeds he was convinced that it was developing feelings and divulging "personal" details and such to him. It would be funny if not for how serious he was, and I'm suelre it has only gotten worse.

[–] sbv@sh.itjust.works 2 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

That's really sad. I hope the kid got away from that shit.

[–] CMLVI@lemmy.world 4 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

Honestly, doubt it. We didn't have many successful outcomes, cause we were only there until they were released or they aged out of the system. And that doesn't kill gang ties, or easy money. But there were a few that I think got out and did well, and those are the ones I think about from time to time.

[–] sbv@sh.itjust.works 1 points 9 hours ago (1 children)
[–] CMLVI@lemmy.world 2 points 8 hours ago

Surprisingly, most of the time, no. It was a lot of glorified babysitting, with some conflict resolution every now and then, and then very rarely actual dangerous stuff. Frustrating, absolutely, because you're dealing with teenaged boys who have, generally, grown up pretty independently and have a chip on their shoulder. It is a lot of mental stuff; frustration on why you can't reach one of them, or what you could have done differently in a certain situation, and a lot of emotional availability with basically strangers who absolutely will use it against you when given the chance (not every time, but when they're mad, 95% of the time it's gonna get real personal real fast). That's just how they've learned to operate, and you gotta show them a better way. Usually doesn't stick, but it's nice when it does.

[–] neidu3@sh.itjust.works 2 points 16 hours ago

For those who never had a real one: yes.

To the rest of us: They're not even close.

[–] HubertManne@piefed.social 1 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

AI can be anything as long as you don't expect it to be that thing anywhere in reality.

[–] Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world 1 points 15 hours ago* (last edited 15 hours ago)

That's the same warning I gave my wife before we got married.

[–] leave_it_blank@lemmy.world 1 points 16 hours ago

Please elaborate.

[–] Chippys_mittens@lemmy.world 1 points 16 hours ago

I really hope not