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[–] RememberTheApollo_@lemmy.world 21 points 1 day ago (1 children)

FWIW may I suggest these:

They’re called “strap wrenches” and are used in plumbing or automotive work among other things.

Lots of the suggestions here require grip strength, and that is tough for people who are elderly, arthritic, or just don’t have it. The “toothed” opening assist devices slip, and require strength to hold it against the toothed surface and twist the jar.

The strap wrenches can be levered against each other, grip harder the more pressure is applied, and can be “pushed” together vs needing grip strength. My 78 year old MIL uses these just fine. A pair can be bought for less than $20.

[–] Zanathos@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

I just lightly tap the lid with a knife around all edges, side and top. Even if making small indentations, the vibrations separate the lid from the jar. Works every time.

[–] RememberTheApollo_@lemmy.world 9 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Yes, that does work. It’s not the vibration, the dents change the contact surface pressure of the seal by making it uneven. That makes less surface to fight against.

I was trying to offer an alternative to something that might chip or break glass. Small odds that it will happen, but it could. I’ve probably only ever had 2 jars chip in a lifetime.

[–] renzhexiangjiao@piefed.blahaj.zone 255 points 2 days ago (3 children)

most people think opening a jar requires installing JRE. but this is actually false, as jars are simply zip files in disguise, so you can open them using a file archiver of your choice, such as 7zip or winrar

[–] Hawke@lemmy.world 34 points 2 days ago

Not necessarily, it could be the old JAR format which was supposed to be a successor to ARJ.

[–] JusticeForPorygon@lemmy.blahaj.zone 21 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I learned this while trying to mess with Minecraft's jar file

[–] festnt@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 day ago

me too, i wanted to see if i could get the assets by extracting it with 7z, and i did!

[–] SaharaMaleikuhm@feddit.org 10 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Why would you want to open that? I only want it to perform its magic.

[–] Holytimes@sh.itjust.works 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Minecraft modding is unironically likely one of the most common reasons.

Back in the day you modded Minecraft by directly editing the insides of the jar!

[–] legopika@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 day ago

Don't forget to delete META-INF

[–] UnGlasierteGurke@feddit.org 110 points 2 days ago (4 children)
[–] Clent@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 1 day ago

I can't compete with that!

I need to hit the gym.

I can't not upvote a Diogenes Vs Plato meme

[–] Taleya@aussie.zone 4 points 1 day ago

christ i wish lemmy gold were a thing. Champion shitposting my friend. Champion.

[–] chicken@lemmy.dbzer0.com 9 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Even simple gripper pads work pretty well.

[–] gravitas_deficiency@sh.itjust.works 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Or just gently bonk the edges on your counter in a few places around the lid and you’re in like Flynn.

Or for chaos mode, use a hammer.

[–] Taleya@aussie.zone 4 points 1 day ago (5 children)

Stab a hole in the lid with a steak knife

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Better person than I am. Opening the jar by shattering it in the sink would be my course.

[–] Fleur_@aussie.zone 12 points 1 day ago (3 children)

I feel like I need to start going out onto street corners and yelling at people who walk by "YOU CAN SQUEEZE A BUTTERKNIFE BETWEEN THE LID AND THE GLASS AND INSTANTLY BREAK THE PRESSURE SEAL! IT WILL OPEN AS IF IT HAD ALREADY BEEN OPENED. YOU DONT NEED A SPECIALISED TOOL OR A GYM MEMBERSHIP!!"

[–] RememberTheApollo_@lemmy.world 7 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Warming the lid under hot tap water, and gripping it with a hand towel when opening so it isn’t slippery, will also open it much more easily without the risk of chipping glass or damaging lids for something that might need re-closing like pickles vs one-time use like pasta sauce.

Or you can buy a pair of “strap wrenches” used in automotive and plumbing work, for less than $20. I suggest these instead of other kitchen aid devices because many of the made-for-kitchen ones are shit. My elderly MIL uses these all the time.

[–] unemployedclaquer@sopuli.xyz 3 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Oh no that might imperceptibly alter the shape of the butterknife AND the lid and then we're in a real situation, such as which there's not a fucking question

[–] CucumberFetish@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 1 day ago (2 children)

The lids might get damaged and might not seal properly when reused. That's why I always mark the ones which were pried open by stabbing the top of the lid. This way you can not mistake a potentially damaged lid for a good one

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[–] Fleur_@aussie.zone 3 points 1 day ago (2 children)

You're so right all my butterknives have been incapable of spreading butter for years now I shouldve known.

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[–] Oka@sopuli.xyz 56 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

Im using this

Im Agender AMAB, getting called a man feels like being stabbed with a fork

[–] victorz@lemmy.world 41 points 2 days ago (5 children)

Honestly there's no reason why we need gender in our language anymore other than to describe someone's appearance for the sake of recognition (say if someone goes missing or is wanted for a crime).

Let's normalize describing people by their attributes and qualities.

"I need help from someone strong here." That's really what they needed.

Assigning typical qualities to genders is just stupid.

[–] Tar_alcaran@sh.itjust.works 44 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (2 children)

"I need help from someone strong here." That's really what they needed.

Offtopic-ish, but a couple of years ago, I couldn't open a jar, so it said "ugh, I'm going to need a tool for this". Then my then-boyfriemd walks by, opens it and goes "you're welcome". I had to explain why I was laughing so hard.

I still tease my now-husband with that every time I need a hand.

[–] Holytimes@sh.itjust.works 6 points 1 day ago

Man played himself like a fiddle. I doubt he regrets it, that's a good fucking in joke right there.

[–] victorz@lemmy.world 13 points 2 days ago

lmao that was a good one

[–] Taleya@aussie.zone 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Legit, i just sing out who's feeling beefy / tall / delicate-fingered / whatever is required for the task at hand. It's not hard.

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[–] SlurpingPus@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago (2 children)

You can also genuinely say "I need help from a lefty". Because applying torque counterclockwise is easier with the left hand, wherein the base of the strong thumb is doing the work.

[–] LH0ezVT@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 day ago

I'm sure a conservative could open the jar as well.

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[–] Kellenved@sh.itjust.works 34 points 2 days ago (1 children)

“Let me call my transmasc friend then”

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[–] NigelFrobisher@aussie.zone 4 points 1 day ago

If you can get the flat of a knife into the screw thread it’ll break the air seal and the lid will come off much more easily then.

[–] panda_abyss@lemmy.ca 15 points 2 days ago (10 children)

If you twist the lid with your left hand, body in right, you get a bit more leverage

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[–] Bombastic@sopuli.xyz 8 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Am I missing something? He opened the lid and placed it down? That's feels good? What does that entail? Am I old?

[–] Wirlocke@lemmy.blahaj.zone 49 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

I'm assuming they are a trans girl, so the mom saying she needs "a man's help" was misgendering her. OP basically affirmed that because they are not a man they cannot help and gave back the jar unopened. Given the pettyness one can assume that the mom misgendering OP is a frequent occurrence.

[–] fubarx@lemmy.world 6 points 2 days ago (1 children)

We had one of those jar opening hand-tools. It broke. This one hasn't failed yet.

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[–] Kowowow@lemmy.ca 12 points 2 days ago (3 children)

I would not have understood this without reading the comments

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