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[–] VitoRobles@lemmy.today 10 points 16 hours ago* (last edited 16 hours ago)

OP, ignore a lot of these commenters. Remember that Lemmy is international, and does not reflect actual Americans who are stepping up. You're asking the Internet, many doom scroll then bitch and then repeat and do nothing else.

Remember that Lemmy is still social media - which means it's unprotected and anybody can read it. You're not going to find these conversations openly. Because that's a huge safety risk.

The community groups already exist. Maybe not in small towns, but every city has something. It won't be called anything like "self-defense", which is actually harmful to the core message of creating only peaceful protests.

But being involved in the non-violent aspect will help you start to get in the know. If you're already in self defense groups (everything from martial arts to your local gun range), bring up your interest in activism.

In other words, you won't find your answer here. And the real answer is face to face with other like-minded individuals in a secure place.

[–] bookmeat@lemmynsfw.com 10 points 19 hours ago

Organize. Join groups. Unite. Do not Lone Wolf anything in this situation. Your power comes from your biomass moving in one direction. Do not disperse.

[–] Aljernon@lemmy.today 4 points 19 hours ago
[–] BigDiction@lemmy.world 16 points 1 day ago

I recommend a first aid class that includes bleed and bone break trauma, and a kit.

Never a waste regardless of circumstances.

[–] Fedizen@lemmy.world 14 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

That and something to snip the valves off of the tires on their vehicles, wire cutters would probably work great.

[–] FlyingCircus@lemmy.world 11 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] bizzle@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago

Furthermore, duh

[–] TropicalDingdong@lemmy.world 47 points 2 days ago (2 children)

If you aren't already on it... Its never too late to start but its also very late to be starting. Community defense starts at building community. How many of your neighbors do you know? 1? 10? 100? Do your neighbors identify each other as people or just people that park next to one another every night. Do you share food, like potlucks or beers on the lanai or at the beach?

These are small examples, but the very, very first step is to begin seeing people as humans. Not seeing each other as humans; being trained to not see each other as humans: its what got us here in the first place. 100 people stepping out there front porch to confront ICE immeasurably more effective than one person with a gun showing up.

As far as actual training, take a gun safety course before doing anything else firearms related. You can sign up for one this weekend probably. Guns aren't something to be feared, they are something to be understood. Even if its not your gun, knowing when a gun's safety is or isn't set; its very important. At that point you can decide if its the right way for you to defend yourself.

[–] DylanMc6@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] TropicalDingdong@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Well it would be helpful to understand what you mean by self-defense. Some people hear that and think barricades and molotovs. Others think community gardens. The fact is there are many ways to resist authoritarianism.

What does community defense mean to you?

[–] DylanMc6@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

What does community defense mean to you?

Defending you and your comrades, I think

[–] TropicalDingdong@lemmy.world 2 points 12 hours ago

Okay, well, I'm trying to elaborate for you, like you asked. Does that mean making sure they have food? Does that mean physically defending them from har?

[–] yeahiknow3@lemmy.dbzer0.com 16 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Most of America has no communities at all. It’s a bunch of strangers.

[–] FlyingCircus@lemmy.world 8 points 1 day ago (1 children)

This has deliberately been done to us. The atomization of our society serves no one but the capitalists (who are the masters of ICE).

[–] DylanMc6@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 1 day ago

The solution to this atomization problem is through socialism and liberation of all oppressed people. If the US were a socialist country (like in the alternate history story "Reds! A Revolutionary Timeline" (wiki here)), no one would be stuck inside all day. Seriously!

[–] GeneralDingus@lemmy.cafe 32 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Sadly, it might not help you. A wrong look in their direction can mean being shot in the face.

[–] deranger@sh.itjust.works 26 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

It’s getting to the point I’d rather die than be complicit.

[–] DylanMc6@lemmy.dbzer0.com 16 points 1 day ago (2 children)

And that's why community defense is important?

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[–] DScratch@sh.itjust.works 22 points 2 days ago (2 children)

No to self defence. You learning self defence will only provoke a stronger response from the guys who will go up to and beyond killing you, and may call in actual military support if required.

Civil disobedience feels like a better approach. Forming human walls, information networks and rapid support responses slow and mitigate attacks on your community.

Applying pressure to your representatives also can help.

[–] Aljernon@lemmy.today 4 points 19 hours ago

They're executing people in the street for civil disobedience. A

[–] EndlessNightmare@reddthat.com 23 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

Civil disobedience feels like a better approach

We really should stop showing up. Stop showing up to work. Stop showing up to buy things. Stop showing up to sign up for the military. Stop reproducing. Quiet quitting en masse.

[–] Pat_Riot@lemmy.today 3 points 1 day ago

Many of us generally prefer to sleep inside and have food to eat. A general strike will likely never happen in the US. Being prepared as best as possible for violence is more necessary every day and making friends with like minded folks is one of the best ways to do that. They are bringing the violence to us. We cannot just lie down and take it. Arm up, train and help others do the same.

[–] Witchfire@lemmy.world 19 points 2 days ago
[–] inclementimmigrant@lemmy.world 5 points 1 day ago (4 children)

You're going to use some bog standard self defense class against multiple armed, stupid, violent ICE agents?

Yeah, that will end well.

If you're going to do anything you'd better off going to a protest, finding like minded individuals and then deciding where to go from there.

[–] frog_brawler@lemmy.world 3 points 15 hours ago* (last edited 15 hours ago) (1 children)

ICE agents get 8 weeks of training. Don’t undervalue someone with a year of real training.

EDIT: I’m pretty sure most ICE agents are below average intelligence too… so really, we already have an advantage if we did a little training.

[–] BarneyPiccolo@lemmy.today 3 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

They get 47 days of training, to honor the 47th president. That means some scummy sycophant landed on that number so that it would get to the president's ear, and maybe Daddy will know who they are.

[–] frog_brawler@lemmy.world 2 points 5 hours ago

Eh close enough.

2 range days a week and 3 days of cardio a week will make anyone a better shooter and in better shape than a typical ICE agent. The average person is already smarter. Shit… 2 range days per week will make someone more proficient than most REAL cops.

[–] VitoRobles@lemmy.today 2 points 16 hours ago* (last edited 16 hours ago)

Contrary to popular belief: Going to a protest isn't the only way to show your dislike. Protesters are the front line.

The back line is support. First aid people. Armed citizens acting as guards. Legal observators. Saboteurs. Tech people to amplify the message. All of these are not at a protest, but assembled through online groups and community events.

Granted, you'll also see them staged at protests too, but you don't have to go to one.

You need both lines, and there's a lot of roles out there.

[–] prole@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 1 day ago

Need classes on insurgency

[–] Melvin_Ferd@lemmy.world 7 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Better than nothing. Also not self defense. Hit the gym. Get a gun. Go train at a gym BJJ, MMA whatever but do something. Use the hate for fascists to drive training. I'm so tired of seeing protestors get knocked out trying to act tough. Nothing sets the effort back like watching your side get beat repeatedly. We can act high and morally superior but if we reject the basics then it's all hollow. You need to support all of it with some type of power and power comes from winning at whatever you do. If we're protesting only because they're letting us because they haven't become more violent yet then we're not actually protesting. The idea isn't to go out and hurt anyone or instigating. It's to be ready when they do.

[–] AA5B@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (2 children)

Something may be better than nothing but escalating without hope isn’t better.

It’s a bad idea to attempt force against overwhelming force. You will never win and you may lose a lot

You’re much more likely to get good results by surviving and following through in the courts. Your strength is knowing your rights, filming everything, ensuring it’s clear on video when those rights are validated.

For example, you may not be able to physically prevent an illegal search. But you can film it. You can make it clear that you do don’t consent to a search (while not physically interfering with their illegal activity). You can ask about their warrant. You can even ask for their grounds for suspicion. When they are on video violating that, it’s pretty damning evidence. That won’t help you in the short term, but it will help in the future. If there is due process, you may get any evidence obtained illegally dropped. You can follow through with a civil rights proceeding. It won’t be fast or easy but you’re much more likely to eventually get justice, than any fantasies of violent resistance

[–] LordCrom@lemmy.world 3 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

Youre optimistic about taking it to court when ice will kidnap you and deport you without ever seeing a lawyer or a judge.

[–] AA5B@lemmy.world 2 points 16 hours ago

More accurately I’m more pessimistic about direct resistance. Even if you’re kidnapped out of the country, at least you’ve survived and have hope. That law is on your side, so if we ever get back to following laws ….

[–] Melvin_Ferd@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago

I'm with you on all that except for the part that you're reacting. Which is a major issue on the left lately. It's all reaction to things others are proactively doing. The left needs to do all you said while also adapting that prepper and survival mindset. There are no courts or police or military as we knew it. It's just us and we need each other to be as ready as possible. That hammer is going to drop on us. Trump or ICE or MAGA will not go away until they inflict much more harm. Every panic in the past shows this. It doesn't end until an event occurs that is so shocking everybody kind of wakes out of a daze. The problem is we've had multiple shocks and they get stronger. This means it isn't just run of the mill momentary crash out. It's something else. It's not going to end

[–] Cevilia@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 1 day ago (4 children)

What, exactly, do you think a community of randos is going to do against a heavily-armed extra-legal military operation?

This isn't a jab or a gotcha, I'm genuinely curious what this idea of community defense would look like.

[–] FlyingCircus@lemmy.world 13 points 1 day ago (2 children)

The Black Panthers had so much success at preventing police violence by simply showing up with guns when the cops came that Reagan made it illegal to open carry in California.

[–] anon_8675309@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago

They succeeded because they emphasized education and community.

Being an armed militia willing to die for their cause was secondary.

[–] AA5B@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago

My understanding is they succeeded partly by being the bigger force. You can do that when the enemy is a small local police force with the weapons of that time. However it’s not the same when it’s a larger militarized federal force that is already claiming “total Immunity”.

If they have the overwhelming force and believe they have no limits, escalating will only escalate their response.

But legally they don’t have “total immunity”. Legally there are limitations. Legally there are civil rights. Pursuing it through the courts is slow and uncertain, but much more likely to succeed

[–] prole@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Sabotage, insurgency, guerilla tactics, asymmetric warfare...

Also, mutual aid without reliance on the state

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[–] kboos1@lemmy.world 9 points 2 days ago (1 children)

You say self defense like you're fighting off a mugger. Your facing government backed thugs not street thugs (they wouldn't need to cover their faces if they weren't doing something wrong) physically resisting isn't going to do you any good. Maybe you make their jobs a little tougher for a little while, but they will go back to work tomorrow and you will spend a few days, maybe weeks in jail or get shipped off somewhere if you survived.

You are out numbered and out matched, self defense classes aren't going to do you any good, no half measure is going to do anything. It's entirely up to you if feel the need to resist and/or feel the urge to become a martyr if they come for you, it's your choice.

If you feel the need to act, your best options are to join an activist group and/or support government leaders that you feel could help. Because in the end you're either going to be standing in front of God or a judge, you won't be physically fighting back in any meaningful way.

[–] TropicalDingdong@lemmy.world 13 points 2 days ago (1 children)

physically resisting isn’t going to do you any good.

Well at a certain point that may be the only option and human history is mostly examples of us failing to appeal to our better nature. Longer we wait do do things that physically stop these thugs from doing what they are doing, the longer this goes on for.

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[–] gravitas_deficiency@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 day ago (2 children)

What we need is for more people to read the anarchists handbook

[–] swelter_spark@reddthat.com 1 points 13 hours ago

There are lots of interesting manuals available on the internet.

[–] Aljernon@lemmy.today 2 points 19 hours ago (1 children)
[–] VitoRobles@lemmy.today 2 points 16 hours ago (1 children)
[–] Aljernon@lemmy.today 1 points 4 hours ago

Chemists. I'm to understand some of the instructions are dangerous.

[–] DylanMc6@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 points 1 day ago

FOLLOW-UP QUESTION: If NOT self-defense, would community defense be a bit better?

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