Disagree, a larger opponent can teep kick you to keep you at range or knock you out as you try and close the distance. But with knife fights no one wins and you very well might do enough damage to send them to hospital but if its knife v knife you're cooked.
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The loser of a knife fight dies in the street.
The winner in the hospital.
Fencing is an outmoded form of combat. You will never defend yourself with a rapier, against an assailant with a rapier. It’s completely irrelevant to a discussion about self-defense.
Knives are bad weapons for self-defense. Particularly for a smaller or weaker person. To use one, you first have to get within reach of your opponent. Pulling a knife can escalate a robbery or rape attempt into a murder attempt. Many fatal wounds are not immediately incapacitating, or particularly painful. Pepper spray, running away, or a gun, are far more effective.
You should not carry a knife for self-defense. They’re great to have for general utility, and if you find yourself already grappling with someone that you know is attempting to kill you, a knife could be useful as a weapon. But only then, as a last resort. Don’t make the mistake in believing a knife will protect you from a robber or a rapist. It will not.
What about a greatsword?
Well, you'll get arrested for carrying one in most places, since they're not exactly concealable, and getting the sheath off of one takes far more time than pulling a gun from concealment and doing a 'failure to stop', AKA Mozambique drill. Also, you have a limited effective range; if someone is inside about 3', you can't use the sword effectively, and would need to drop your sword and switch to your rondel.
They're really only effective if your opponent is riding a horse, or is a pike phalanx.
A lot of states simple require 'single edged'
Theres also an interesting trend of states knife regulations being ruled in violation of the 2A. With the current tests being Heller and Bruen - the ban must have historical precedence AND the banned knives must be both especially dangerous and unusual
For instance, Massachusetts had its ban on switchblades overturned ib 2024 as unconstitutional, with the state supreme court finding there was not historical support for the law, and they could not be considered uncommon because they aren't.
FWIW, merely waking around with a sheathed sword may very well be both perfectly legal and protected by your jurisdiction's personal liberty laws.
https://legalclarity.org/are-swords-illegal-to-own-or-carry-in-the-us/
https://legalclarity.org/is-it-legal-to-carry-a-sword-in-new-york/
I know someone who walked through the streets of an upstate NY city wearing a sheathed sword. They were entirely in their rights, same as if they were carrying an unconcealed rifle. But, also just as with the rifle, they couldn't take the bus and many stores refused entrance.
(And there's a whole set of criminal offenses that they were suddenly applicable because they were in clear possession of a weapon.)
As someone else who is short and skinny, this is a very dangerous assumption. I've trained in judo, karate, and wrestling, and gotten in a couple actual fights, so have some experience here. In a real fight for your life being shorter is a disadvantage, even more so if you have average length arms for your height. It's possible to overcome that disadvantage if you are more skilled than the opponent, but assuming equal skill you are likely to lose.
In an actual fight, going for a gut stab with a knife is one of the worst options you have. It means you are absolutely within grapple range, have done almost nothing to hinder their mobility, and even if it is eventually fatal, it often takes a very long time to die from a gut wound. You would be much better either going for a hit that would instantly kill them, or aiming for somewhere that would hinder their mobility enough for you to escape.
Also, in the real world it doesn't work like fencing, no one is going to break the fight up as soon as you score a hit. If you want to actually prepare for a fight you should try out a sport that doesn't break on point scoring. In general boxing, MMA, or wrestling would be a better option to prepare for a real fight that doesn't get broken up.
I disagree with your opinion. I think being the shorter person in a fight is generally a disadvantage.
All else equal, the person who is taller will likely have more mass, and thus have more muscle to utilize against you. They’ll also have a bigger wingspan, so their zone of threat is bigger.
When I used to study martial arts, my instructors always used to say “don’t bring anything to a street fight that you don’t want taken away and used against you”. Unless you have the element of surprise, and are using a knife that’s attached to your body, welding a knife against someone bigger may backfire. Being a master of de-escalation tends to have a better mortality rate ;)
Okay OP. Okay. I'm sure you'll absolutely devastate someone by trying to slash at their jacket. Lol.

Are you the same person as BeReady77? Are you a tall man or a short woman?
You clearly enjoy writing and reading about this topic, but your approach seems disingenuous.
I'd almost recommend getting in an actual fight so you can learn how different it is from your imagination.
Take a real self-defense class. In reality, your size is not enough advantage to make up for an opponent's added strength and reach. Training and speed, however can bridge that gap somewhat, assuming your opponent is not on an equal footing, so to speak.
The reach is the big one...
Counterpoint: ow oof my belly ouch
Haha, exactly
Are you a tall guy yourself?
Why do you keep reposting this what’s wrong with you
I just wanna hear more opinions
No you have some kind of weird fetish or something and need to go away
No, its not a "weird fetish or something". Just wondering, are you a tall guy? If so, then yep, acknowledging such vulnerability of your gut can be unpleasant, I can see that lol
I’m a short woman and there is something wrong with you
Careful; don't be too short or you might also become a threat. It's her advantage, being so short
AI will actually be good for occupying these creepy public role play weirdos
That's interesting. Do you manage to land those hits consistently once the element of surprise is gone? I also practice historical fencing (but I mostly do arming sword and langes messer, though I've occasionally dabbled with rapier), and my experience has been that taller people usually have the reach advantage.
Ducking and thrusting straight ahead of you makes basic geometry work in your favour for compensating the reach disadvantage (your arm has a 90° angle giving you maximum range), but it also massively exposes your head of your first hit doesn't land, and prevents you from using footwork for a few seconds. Once your opponent's has figured out your strategy it would seem like he would just have to stay a bit out of reach and counter-attack/riposte while you recover from your ducking
I'm not going to tell you you're wrong about having a type of advantage due to size, but I will say in actual fights, unless you're against someone the size of Halfþor Bjornsson, it won't matter enough to protect you.
And when it comes to knife fights, one person dies on the spot, the other gets to die on the way to the hospital.
Someone once said "Everyone has a plan until they get punched in the mouth"
Keep attending self-defense classes and learn to kick assailant ass the proper way!
How about "Everyone has a plan until they get stabbed in the belly by a short sneaky girl"? 😉
I genuinely hope you're never in a position to find out how badly this attitude can go in the real world.
You want to be confident and feel secure in yourself and I get that but you're too confident and inexperienced.
Over confidence, inexperience and a bit of emotion is a quick way to end up dead.
sneaky
Are you thinking of defending yourself, or murdering someone unsuspecting?
You nead to be sneaky, agile to defend yourself succesfully, especially given my short height
You need to ask the smallest guy you know to wrestle with you. Explicitly tell him that you don’t want him to hold back his strength.
If you want to get fancy with it, give him a white shirt to wear, and have an uncapped felt tip marker in your hand. See how many stabs you can get in before he’s completely overpowered you, which he certainly will.
Asymmetry
Steel enters the fight,
One leaves in an ambulance,
The other; bodybag.
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I was reading this post and like 1/3 way through I thought you were gonna say something like" I am at the perfect height to just slice off their balls, the ultimate vulnerability."
You might get in an attack, but while they bleed out, you’re gonna be stomped on like the mushrooms on a dewy morning walk to the bus stop.
You might have well said you have an advantage because the bigger they are the harder they fall.
Since you impaled a tall guys unprotected belly. Prison when?/s Just kidding 🤡
Well, I guess you understand that I referred to training rapier - you cannot pierce your opponent's stomach with it anyway. So its not literally "impaling" lol


