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Im not sure if this post matters but im bored.

Ive debated on making stickers or candles just to learn something but im unsure as i dont have a use for them afterwards, havent tried it yet because i overthink.

Should i go with one of the crafts i suggest or is there something more suited for men out there, maybe bread making?

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[–] Bgugi@lemmy.world 10 points 1 hour ago (2 children)

Cross stitch has an incredibly low barrier for entry, you can get all-in-one kits for like $2-3 at your local craft store. There's also knitting/crochet: it's worth trying both, many people can't get one or the other to click.

If you have around 10 yards indoors or outdoors, a cheap air pistol or rifle can get you started on target shooting, though shooting sports can easily spiral into one of those comically expensive hobbies.

It may be worth looking at what your options are for local maker spaces. They'll often have the fixed assets for lots of different hobbies.

There really isn't much in the way of "more suited for men" hobbies, outside of maybe penis hammering.

[–] moondoggie@lemmy.world 4 points 35 minutes ago (1 children)

Don’t forget penis whittling

[–] Aussiemandeus@aussie.zone 1 points 26 minutes ago
[–] NOT_RICK@lemmy.world 1 points 22 minutes ago

There really isn't much in the way of "more suited for men" hobbies, outside of maybe penis hammering.

Maybe he could get into those silly elaborate beard competitions

[–] Pat_Riot@lemmy.today 1 points 6 minutes ago

So, going into crafting with the notion that you have to be doing something practical is a great way to never enjoy making anything. Pick a thing you think is kinda neat and try it. Suck at a few different things, ideally, and eventually you'll probably find something that makes you cuss while you're doing it and smile when you make a good one. That's my experience in hobbying, anyway. Brother, I have a lot of hobbies.

[–] Witchfire@lemmy.world 2 points 31 minutes ago

If you ever want to try your hand at leatherwork, you can get scraps from couch manufacturers for pretty cheap. It does tend to become costly in the long run though, mainly because of the tools

[–] DeuxChevaux@lemmy.world 2 points 35 minutes ago

How about woodworking? All you need is a handful of hand tools, a piece of wood, and a bit of creativity. You could even just start to carve a little gnome from a piece of broom stick with your pocket knife.

[–] Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world 3 points 52 minutes ago (1 children)

Does home brewing count as a craft?

You can get started with a soup pot and a 5 gallon bucket, but if you enjoy it, there's no shortage of upgrades to spend money on!

[–] MajorMajormajormajor@lemmy.ca 3 points 31 minutes ago

Plus, you get to call yourself an artisanal craftsperson, which sounds much nicer than "keg stand Steve".

[–] tychosmoose@lemmy.world 7 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

Knitting is great for everyone. You can make clothing and accessories for you and for gifting. Knit and then felt wool bowls and other household articles. It's inexpensive to get started with basic yarn to see if you like the activity.

[–] gingersaffronapricat@lemmy.world 2 points 59 minutes ago (1 children)

There is a recent-ish reprint of “The Manly Art of Knitting.” I imagine there are still copies out there. I’ve heard good things about the book and would take a look if I ever crossed pathed with it, despite no personal interest in cultivating manliness.

[–] MajorMajormajormajor@lemmy.ca 3 points 34 minutes ago

cultivating manliness.

Behold! My manliness crop grows abundantly, the gods shine their pleasure unto my oak bookshelves, moustache comb, and tobacco pipe.

[–] starik@lemmy.zip 1 points 20 minutes ago* (last edited 3 minutes ago)

I don’t know if this has already been suggested (and don’t have time to read all the comments) but penis whittling.

[–] CommissarVulpin@lemmy.world 1 points 27 minutes ago

I’ve been enjoying bookbinding. You can get started just with some paper, glue, craft knife, and a ruler. Add some needle and thread, cover board, and bookcloth and you can make some nice custom pieces.

[–] Dalacos@lemmy.world 3 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago)

Writing.

Short stories, poems, song lyrics, whatever floats your boat.

(I use OpenOffice if you're looking for a software rec. There might be better out there but I've used it so long many of its functions are ingrained and it's open/free which endears me to it too.)


Edit/PS: I found a cheap graphics tablet on my local online market and was learning to use it with GIMP and Krita, recommend that as well.

[–] jerkface@lemmy.ca 14 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago) (1 children)

I don't understand the gendered aspect of this question. Surely hobbies are not gendered.

[–] TeamAssimilation@infosec.pub -2 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago) (1 children)

Hobbies are certainly gender-biased. I haven’t met a female iron scrap sculptor in my life, ever. Conversely, I have known several (five IIRC) female painters, but only one male painter.

Disclaimer: I mean real life meeting, social networks or YouTube don’t count. YMMV.

[–] Pat_Riot@lemmy.today 4 points 14 minutes ago

I'm a man. I paint, crochet, sew, have done macrame, cook, bake and garden. I also play multiple musical instruments, work on engines and other mechanical shit, fish, shoot guns, weld, keep bonsai, and so fucking many other things. Hobbies and crafts are just skills learned and practiced for the enjoyment of doing it. I know men and women who do all of the things I do and some things I don't. Hell, I know a chick blacksmith, and she makes some pretty badass knives, man. Most folks do not advertise their hobbies, they just do them.

There are 8 billion human beings at the moment. That you think your personal sample through individual interactions is remotely representative is a little egotistical at best.

[–] Thedogdrinkscoffee@lemmy.ca 11 points 2 hours ago (2 children)

Whittling wood sculptures.

Requires knife, trees. Anything from large hardwoods to small branches.

[–] Dalacos@lemmy.world 2 points 1 hour ago

Huh, came here to comment this myself.

Tried it, didn't like it, but the idea still intrigues me decades later. Didn't expect it to be answered and upvoted already though.

[–] Grumpy404@lemmy.zip 4 points 1 hour ago (2 children)

Do you know anything without knifes or sharp object, my family bloodline is accident prone. For some reason im afraid of knifes?

[–] Thedogdrinkscoffee@lemmy.ca 3 points 1 hour ago

Same thing with a dremel.

[–] SkaraBrae@lemmy.world 7 points 1 hour ago

That's a good attitude. You will cut yourself. Probably requiring stitches at least once. Fear is a good way to keep the edge pointed away from yourself.

[–] BigBolillo@mgtowlemmy.org 5 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

Not exactly for men but how about innovating and making artisanal soap with fragrances oriented to males.

[–] MajorMajormajormajor@lemmy.ca 3 points 27 minutes ago

There's a huge market for "manly" soaps and other hygiene products. Just slap a tiger or wolf and some ridiculous name like "bear pelt" on those bad boys and you're good to go.

[–] ChonkyOwlbear@lemmy.world 2 points 1 hour ago

It may not seem cheap at first, but 3D printing. What it costs to set up, you can quickly make up by not having to spend money on things you can just print for yourself. There are loads of little plastic parts that break that cost a fortune to replace. I've done new shelf brackets for my fridge and new locking clips for my windows for example. On top of that I've printed loads of presents for people. My mom can't stop talking about the windmill I printed for her deck.

[–] bigfish@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 45 minutes ago

Everybody loves buttons. Cheap to make, super creative outlet, and if you become part of any group they're great for building the community.

[–] TheWeirdestCunt@lemmy.today 3 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

I'm looking into making dioramas at some point. I haven't gone out looking for tools and stuff but from what I've seen materials are pretty cheap. Mostly cardboard, foam and paper mache but they take a lot of time.

[–] Grumpy404@lemmy.zip 1 points 1 hour ago

That sounds cool ive always wanted to do something like that but for rpgs like dnd.