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Official Title of this Community: Ethnic Minorities and People of Color

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[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 3 points 6 days ago

Buzzed off my arm and leg hair and omg my skin is so pretty 🥺 I know I prob got some weird hang ups with body hair but I realized how beautiful my skin tone is. I'm gonna have to keep buzzing it off every couple of days or grit my teeth and epilate again.

Getting called "brother, man" by a Yemeni guy: Hell yeah you're sweet, that's totally what I am.

Getting called "bro, dude" by a white guy: kkkringe

[–] AlHouthi4President@lemmy.ml 21 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Hexbear/Lemmygrad/Lemmy stop parroting liberal zionist propaganda challenge: impossible.

[–] Angel@hexbear.net 15 points 1 week ago (1 children)

stop being so antisemitic and then maybe we'll try

/sarcasm

[–] AlHouthi4President@lemmy.ml 11 points 1 week ago

Hahaha 😆

[–] hello_hello@hexbear.net 13 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Have you taken the time to understand that these sorts of things never happen in New South Wales?

I'm glad we dragged that liberal Zionist in the news mega.

Also the attack on the professor in brown university, false alarm everyone its not a antisemitic incident, just a disgruntled student murdering his previous instructor in cold blood.

Sorry not sorry for adding this to the "antisemitism is real" pile, but you have to understand, Jews are oppressed and uwu little babies.

The west said they'll bring democracy to Libya and all they did was destroy everything then have 2 major parties who are trash and neither of them do an- ooooooh they mean U.S. style democracy.

[–] vegeta1@hexbear.net 18 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (3 children)
[–] homhom9000@hexbear.net 10 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Well said, I'll go watch the fight for culture

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[–] la_tasalana_intissari_mata@hexbear.net 16 points 1 week ago (1 children)

The white will look you dead in the eye and compare the noose the tie around your neck, the bombs they drop on your home, the blood they suck out of you to the Muslim conquest of Iberia.

[–] 3rdWorldCommieCat@hexbear.net 10 points 1 week ago (1 children)

They will deadass say this and think they somehow made a great point lmao "checkmate tankies"

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"You're paranoid the U.S. government wouldn't monitor thi-"

cis straight apolotical white men putting their full birth name and picture online because "idk as long as I don't mess with the wrong crowd I'm not getting doxxed"

[–] Ath3ro@hexbear.net 14 points 2 weeks ago (4 children)

oh man i’m first uhh i guess i would like to say i love you all you are all very beautiful shout out to us

[–] Ath3ro@hexbear.net 11 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

i want to be more active on here but i don’t usually interact unless im in here or when i used to watch movies with hecbeat but i dont don’t do that often anymore

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[–] 3rdWorldCommieCat@hexbear.net 10 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

shout out us the poc of hexbear fellow comrade

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[–] Angel@hexbear.net 14 points 1 week ago (7 children)
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[–] Angel@hexbear.net 14 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (3 children)

I no longer call myself "non-binary," "genderqueer," or "transgender/transfeminine."

I have been calling myself "third gender," "GNC," and "androgynous."

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[–] la_tasalana_intissari_mata@hexbear.net 14 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

another side to "we were always against this" is denying that we were fighting against it, same exampe as Apartheid in South Africa, ignoring the role Cuba and other anti-imperialist countries had.

[–] vegeta1@hexbear.net 11 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Fuckers aren't even pretending with South Africa. They see the deteriorating conditions and want it to go back to apartheid.

And this is why we learn history. We learn history to see it bleed into our present and future, even that ghoul lib kamala-coconut-tree knew that.

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[–] la_tasalana_intissari_mata@hexbear.net 13 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

there's a part of me that believes some hexbear users would be pro biden if he was better at pretending to care

[–] vegeta1@hexbear.net 10 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I'll be honest the whole "big wet boy" "jdpon don" baby talk around hex with trump kinda gets on my nerves. Idk if rubs me the wrong way with this piece of shit. I get joking and not taking things seriously all the time but... Idk

[–] CommunistCuddlefish@hexbear.net 9 points 2 weeks ago (4 children)

We gotta stop even joking about Trump being "JDPON" or anti-imperialist in any way when he's literally preparing to do to Venezuela what AmeriKKKa already did to Iraq.

idk what "big wet boy" means. I was hoping I'd figure it out from context but I never have

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[–] Angel@hexbear.net 13 points 1 week ago

The catch-22 of interracial dating (from a Black perspective):

Interracial dating is more likely to be functional when a Black person truly has a revolutionary, decolonial mindset, but such a mindset is much less likely to make a Black person date interracially in the first place

[–] AlHouthi4President@lemmy.ml 13 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I regret to inform you that the USSR political cartoonists are canceled for being anti-semitic /s

Source is this zionist archive website.

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[–] Angel@hexbear.net 13 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

Lentils in currywurst sauce, mashed taters, and sauerkraut

But while I'm at it, of course, germany-cool

[–] Belly_Beanis@hexbear.net 9 points 2 weeks ago

If you make your own sauerkraut, try adding pineapple and black peppercorns to the brine. It will blow your mind.

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[–] la_tasalana_intissari_mata@hexbear.net 13 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Crackers will talk to you about IQ scores and how you're stupider for being an African not realising the irony of that.

[–] Belly_Beanis@hexbear.net 10 points 1 week ago

Comparing IQ scores between countries is nonsense anyway because it's done on a curve. 100 is always the average for any given population. There's no way for IQ tests to accurately measure between nations because of this. It's all bullshit anyway because you can study/practice IQ tests to get better results, meaning they aren't objective measurements of a person's intelligence. They're just a measurement of how good you are at taking IQ tests.

I'm preaching to the choir. I just don't know who chuds think they're fooling when they bring up IQ fuckery. I can only assume themselves and other chuds.

[–] vegeta1@hexbear.net 12 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

Craziest thing about the whole White genocide thing in South Africa is the closest thing to that was done by the British empire by placing the Boer in concentration camps alongside the natives. Guess what musk and his pedo father is?

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[–] 3rdWorldCommieCat@hexbear.net 12 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Fellow user posts a merry christmas post with Ded Moroz

random cracker says "russia is the most fascist country in da world!!1!"

saying this while the US and the entirety of the west and israel exists is wild

other cracker jumps in with a copypasted from NATOpedia definition of fascism and says that while they "strongly disagree" with US and israel (note how they don't oppose them) they tick less boxes than russia or "less intensely"

These people are a lost cause, they are not our allies. Sure a handful of them are good but overwhelmingly they are still drunk on propaganda and arrogance.

[–] Darkcommie@lemmygrad.ml 12 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (2 children)

It’s becoming increasingly clear that white people are the great enemy of mankind yet admins continue to deny that proclaiming “international solidarity” lol lmao even there is no solidarity with your oppressor with the person trying to kill you

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[–] Angel@hexbear.net 11 points 2 weeks ago (9 children)

Seeing "woke" Indian people who appear "leftist" on everything accept Israel/Palestine. Ay, ay, ay...

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[–] CommunistCuddlefish@hexbear.net 11 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Today I got coffee from a new place I found on my way home, and the bariata was so pretty, but by conventional standards around here she wouldn't have be considered so. It really drove home to me how very white supremacist the dominant beauty standards here are. I didn't say anything about any of that of course, but it did get me thinking about body image / why I don't understand why people find me attractive.

[–] Angel@hexbear.net 10 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

My struggle from harboring a fuck ton of internalized racism to being extremely proud of being Black showed me this.

The less attractive I began to find whiteness as a system, the less attractive I began to find wh*tes as people.

The more I began to love my Blackness, the more attractive I began to find Black people.

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[–] vegeta1@hexbear.net 11 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

Wait Jake Paul getting props for getting fucked up for 50 million? Ffs so many yt westerners are so coddled no wonder they churn out so many sociopaths i-cant

All they're doing is enabling him and he's gonna fuck around and get himself permanently damaged. What are we doing here?

[–] CommunistCuddlefish@hexbear.net 11 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

Rare case of this not being race related (probably), and gonna have to be vague about this, but I do get grim satisfaction from seeing people slowly begin to realize that someone I called out as Bad News a year and a half ago is in fact creepy, gross, toxic, predatory.  AGAIN.  This is like the 7th time this has happened that I can remember off the top of my head.  I don't go making this judgement willy nilly so I can have stopped clock moments, it's pretty rare that I'll assess someone this way and warn people.  But I keep being vindicated eventually.

I mean I had no proof, all I had was this feeling of "his sense of humor is gross in ways I cannot articulate, and he seems unctuous.  Why are y'all making friends with him?  Only he can benefit from this association, at your expense, and if anything of him rubs off on you or he encourages any such tendencies in you, you will be made into a worse person.  You think you can grow your small business by networking with this content creator?  He'll use you and you'll be sullied by association when he gets cancelled."  I tried to say as much, I was told "no you don't get him he's way better in person." I no longer even see the "friend" I'd tried to warn.  But I'm seeing people complain about this dude and how he's probably going to get MeToo'd because he's very obviously gross and all I can say is, I told them.  I fucking told them.  May they all go down with that ship, because they deserve each other.

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[–] iArtemis@hexbear.net 11 points 1 week ago

flashbang s will see you smile and immediately decide they're going to everything in their power to correct that

[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 10 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (4 children)

I complained before about how horror stories would just slap on any term they heard of from first nations tribes to their made up stories to add authenticity but been hearing some that avoid that now, kinda prefer it this way ngl. Now if I have to do with a general analysis of most these stories it's probably the theme of acknowledgment of not belonging on stolen land. I don't know how conscious that is but that's my vibe

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[–] vegeta1@hexbear.net 10 points 1 week ago

Funny because one faces absolute destabilizing forces. Guess which

[–] Angel@hexbear.net 10 points 2 weeks ago

That third-party recruiter got back to me and said that the client marked my application as "Qualified" meaning that they'll reach out for an interview soon likely. Because it's around Christmas time, she told me it might be a bit delayed, but she said that she'll definitely work with me to secure my chances of getting an interview with this client and even others.

I got an over-the-phone interview later today, too, so that's neat.

[–] Angel@hexbear.net 10 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Due to my androgyny, I have been letting people have a "choose your own adventure" approach to my gender, as I am gendered inconsistently.

If someone calls me a man, okay, then I am a man.

If someone calls me a woman, okay, then I am a woman.

I sometimes engage in gendered code switching with my voice because of this.

For instance, let's say I go into the grocery store, and the cashier says, "Find everything you need, ma'am?" I will respond with an unequivocally feminine voice to accommodate their perception.

Let's say I go into a coffee shop immediately after, and then the barista says, "What can I get you today, sir?" then I might respond with "A large black Americano" with my most bassy, masculine voice.

I got used to it by now.

[–] CommunistCuddlefish@hexbear.net 4 points 6 days ago (1 children)

waow-based honestly if you're comfortable with that that's super cool <3

[–] Angel@hexbear.net 2 points 6 days ago

Yeah, I don't mind. There's a reason why my pronouns say "any," lol

[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 9 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I do not like being in banks or government buildings and I suspect it mainly has to do with being queer and poc, maybe 30% and 70% respectively. I'm trying to get over self defeating mindset but it's like idk what to expect out of these institutions other than patronizing talking points. When it's staffed by poc/queer people it feels like their a different breed I talked before of the split in the people who's families had enough to get here legally vs not but yeah.

The more I get into it I can hide my queerness but my skin color ain't changing. I know assimilation is a dead route anyway. I'm a little down rn but no worries, winter blues or something. Little of just knowing next year ain't gonna be a turn around but I'll keep living.

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[–] Angel@hexbear.net 9 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Came to learn that the aforementioned Black + Asian vegan woman blocking wasn't anything personal... she apparently did it to a lot of other people I know, too. Hmm. I don't know what's going on.

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