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Ethnic Minorities and People of Color

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Official Title of this Community: Ethnic Minorities and People of Color

Why is the title different?

We like to have fun here.

What is this place? A safe space for underrepresented peoples and peoples of color to talk, chill, and vibe.

What are the basic rules of the community?

  1. Follow Lemmy TOS and Community Guidelines. Non negotiable. This is the bedrock and mods will make decisions with this always in mind.

  2. This community is for ethnic minorities and people of color. This is a safe space where such people can freely discuss their struggles, insight, and thoughts without fear. If you are not, we respectfully ask you do not post or comment here. A future community will be established to allow for racial discussions with a mixed userbase. However, remember, comments here must still respect Lemmy TOS and Community Guidelines.

  3. Irony Racism is still racism. Racism is bad m'kay? We will treat irony racism and bad faith racist satire as racism. Will wield the ban hammer accordingly.

  4. No sectarianism: This is an identity channel not a channel for you all to complain about why XYZ isn't the "one true leftism". Take that to another place.

  5. Stupidpol is not allowed. Stupidpol is class reductionist. We are an identity community. Thinking like stupidpol ignores the struggles of the oppressed, their voices, and their need for unique support. Nothing says oppression more than someone saying that the identity you have is "not real" and that if you only thought like them you'd see what your "real" identity is. Mods reserve the right to ban users and content who promote stupidpol, stupidpol memes, and other class reductionist thinking.

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I don't look XYZ and/or sometimes I can pass as white so I don't know if I can post here. Can I?

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[–] CommunistCuddlefish@hexbear.net 11 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

Rare case of this not being race related (probably), and gonna have to be vague about this, but I do get grim satisfaction from seeing people slowly begin to realize that someone I called out as Bad News a year and a half ago is in fact creepy, gross, toxic, predatory.  AGAIN.  This is like the 7th time this has happened that I can remember off the top of my head.  I don't go making this judgement willy nilly so I can have stopped clock moments, it's pretty rare that I'll assess someone this way and warn people.  But I keep being vindicated eventually.

I mean I had no proof, all I had was this feeling of "his sense of humor is gross in ways I cannot articulate, and he seems unctuous.  Why are y'all making friends with him?  Only he can benefit from this association, at your expense, and if anything of him rubs off on you or he encourages any such tendencies in you, you will be made into a worse person.  You think you can grow your small business by networking with this content creator?  He'll use you and you'll be sullied by association when he gets cancelled."  I tried to say as much, I was told "no you don't get him he's way better in person." I no longer even see the "friend" I'd tried to warn.  But I'm seeing people complain about this dude and how he's probably going to get MeToo'd because he's very obviously gross and all I can say is, I told them.  I fucking told them.  May they all go down with that ship, because they deserve each other.

[–] CommunistCuddlefish@hexbear.net 9 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

not race related

But it's always white people.  Usually but not always men.  Maybe they just get more of a pass from other people becuase of white privilege or something so the problems build up and fester.

[–] Lemmygradwontallowme@hexbear.net 4 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (1 children)

Wow, you're quite perceptive on people. Wish I was as much as you.

[–] CommunistCuddlefish@hexbear.net 4 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

Thanks, I'm highly traumatized and have learnedfrom bad experiences how to recognize a lot of bad behaviors early.

Didn't save me from getting fucked over by my most important ex though, I didn't see their toxicity or abusiveness until it was mauling me. I don't know if there's any amount of perception that can keep someone completely safe.