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[–] DJKJuicy@sh.itjust.works 16 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (6 children)

Every single person now thinks they're smarter than everyone else. No matter what their political leanings are, they're all smarter than everyone else. Smarter than:

  • Doctors
  • Scientists
  • Engineers
  • Economists

It's absolutely ridiculous and it started sometime around the 90s around when Ross Perot first ran for president and it just got worse with social media.

That's the real problem right now. Everyone thinks they know more than people who spent decades studying and becoming experts in their field.

[–] SaveTheTuaHawk@lemmy.ca 10 points 5 months ago

To be fair, there are a lot of bullshit economists and Doctors.

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[–] crash_thepose@lemmy.ml 16 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Self driving cars, cold roasted peppers In crappy vegetarian sandwiches, chamomile tea, and war.

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[–] WhatsHerBucket@lemmy.world 15 points 5 months ago

People that don’t use their turn signals.

[–] PM_ME_VINTAGE_30S@lemmy.sdf.org 14 points 5 months ago
[–] undeffeined@lemmy.ml 14 points 5 months ago

The grifting culture that seems to just be getting worse and worse,, amplified by scum people like Joe Rogan

[–] FatVegan@leminal.space 14 points 5 months ago

That we as a society just accepted that cigarette butts aren't garbage. It's something smokers are allowed to toss everywhere because they can't be bothered.

[–] Dicska@lemmy.world 13 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Selfishness. It's the root cause of many things that plague the world: people putting themselves/their immediate circle before others, lack of empathy, greed, xenophobia, homophobia, misogyny, racism, fascism, or pricks listening to stuff through their phone's speaker in public.

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[–] Xylight@feddit.online 13 points 5 months ago (2 children)
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[–] AceFuzzLord@lemmy.zip 13 points 5 months ago

The people who think they can just cure mental illness like depression by saying things like "have you tried not being sad?" or "have you tried smiling more?" instead of actually being sympathetic and understanding.

I don't have any mental illness that would attract those people, but I still find they have very punchable faces.

Also, since I am out of practice since I haven't played for over a decade, I am currently absolutely hating Ulala from Space Channel 5 because of Sega Superstars Tennis, xbox360. Specifically because of the vs mode on normal difficulty and her getting her useless ability way too quickly and my ability being useless because the game decides my shots deserve to go directly to the other player with zero chance of going where I want it to.

[–] DasFaultier@sh.itjust.works 13 points 5 months ago (1 children)

low carb diets, Michael Moore, the Republican National Convention, Kabbalah & all Kabbalah-related products, Hi-Def TV, the Bush daughters, wireless hotspots, the OC, the UN, recycling, getting Punk'd, Danny Gans, the Latin Grammys, the real Grammys, Jeff that Wiggle that sleeps too darn much, the Yankees payroll, all the red states, all the blue states, every hybrid car, every talk show, everything on the planet, everything in the solar system, everything, everything, everything, everything, everything, everythingj every-everything that exists past present & future, in discovered and undiscovered dimensions! [turns away, then turns back] Oh, and Hugh Jackman.

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[–] HotsauceHurricane@lemmy.world 12 points 5 months ago (2 children)

Having to scan QR codes. Fuck 'em. My doctors office can & WILL print me out a goddamn paper form to fill out.

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[–] INeedANewUserName@piefed.social 12 points 5 months ago (5 children)

I hate the folks that burned the library of Alexandria

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[–] LodeMike@lemmy.today 12 points 5 months ago

How shit a lot of modern tech is.

[–] TankovayaDiviziya@lemmy.world 11 points 5 months ago (2 children)

I'm not poor, but I hate that I don't feel financially secure enough to do more whatever I want. Working alone isn't enough anymore to save a house but at the same time to have fun.

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[–] davidgro@lemmy.world 11 points 5 months ago

Human suffering.

The people with high "personal" ambition that ruin this world for the rest of us. I am sure at least one of them was sitting at the table on that first thanksgiving thinking about how to exploit the Native Americans.

[–] Lemminary@lemmy.world 10 points 5 months ago

I hate my fucking shithead neighbors who want to make everything tino a problem. Last night their kids were playing with our gate door so I went down and locked it without saying a word. Well, the little shit fucks came back and started slamming against it and yelling obscenities. Their parents nowhere to be found. They just let their cum goblins run around amock without teaching them any sort of decency or manners. I'm almost ready to throw a few of them into my cauldron and make some kid stew. 😀

[–] Clbull@lemmy.world 10 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (19 children)

At the moment, everything.

This time last year, I was meant to be buying my own apartment and finally moving out from my parents' home. Then I got laid off, spent seven months struggling to find work and then landed a temporary purchase ledger job which I fucking hate. Partially because the commute takes me about 2 hours each way, partially because I work an 8-5 shift and have to get up at stupid o'clock in the morning on office days, and partially because we use Oracle Fusion which is the biggest crock of shit I've ever used.

Unfortunately that means I have to live with my parents for even longer. Renting somewhere is out of the question because Bristol is the second-most expensive British city to live in, and I basically can't get a mortgage without a full time job.

Sometimes I question why I chose to pivot towards accounting. I have a History degree, I'm fully AAT qualified and I'm halfway through my ACCA and I'm earning Β£13.50 an hour, or just Β£1.29 above minimum wage on a zero-hours contract. I can genuinely earn nearly as much from stacking shelves, flipping burgers or pouring pints, not that there's really many hospitality or retail jobs available. Office days genuinely take 13 hours out of my day. 8 of these are working, 4 of these are the commute and 1 is the lunch break I get.

My future is uncertain and I feel like there's no point in bothering. Best-case scenario, AI is truly a bubble that's going to burst, crash the stock market and leave us in a recession. At worst, it takes all our jobs and the rich leave us to starve.

Despite a brief relationship with a woman who finally popped my cherry (we're still really close friends and I'm grateful she took my virginity), my love life is practically nonexistent. Online dating is an absolute void where I only seem to match with GPS-spoofing South-East Asian and African women either pulling love scams or trying to find a Western spouse and the means to a green card. Two ladies messed around with my feelings and led me on big time this year and that's left me exhausted.

I have a lipoma on my neck which is going to cost me a lot to remove, and good luck actually finding the time to get the consultation and surgery/liposuction booked. The NHS won't do it because it's not cancerous, even though this thing has grown to the point where it's 5.5cm in diameter and sticks out like a sore thumb.

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[–] MTK@lemmy.world 9 points 5 months ago

Thanksgiving, cool idea but could we not celebrate genocide by murdering some birds whil living on stolen land, thanks 😊

[–] Muaddib@sopuli.xyz 9 points 5 months ago (4 children)

The white capitalist state

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[–] mrgoosmoos@lemmy.ca 9 points 5 months ago

parents who don't parent

stayed in a hotel recently during a hockey tournament. kids were banging on doors and intentionally hitting the same door more than once. they knocked paint off the interior of my door frame doing this, because they hit it extra hard due to the do not disturb sign.

I took a walk after a while and noticed that this behaviour was clearly visible from the lobby where the parents were hanging out, you could hear the banging sounds echoing through the stairwell fifteen feet away.

I was very close to losing my shit on them, but I didn't want it to be worse the next day

People who hurt cats. If you hurt a cat, may you be paralyzed but awake and not numb for the entire duration of an open heart surgery.

[–] Zier@fedia.io 9 points 5 months ago

Stupid People. Not people who are naive, they can be educated. But actual stupid people. They will kill us all.

[–] nett_hier@feddit.org 9 points 5 months ago (7 children)

I often say I hate people but I mostly just hate myself

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