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To you, what constitutes a good sense of humor?

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[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 24 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (1 children)

Everything can be funny if framed right. Nothing is off the table. But you should always punch up, and never down.

[–] Valmond@lemmy.world 8 points 4 months ago (1 children)

You can joke about everything, but not with everyone.

[–] Chippys_mittens@lemmy.world 7 points 4 months ago

I feel like knowing your audience is a huge part of being funny.

[–] LORDSMEGMA@sh.itjust.works 10 points 4 months ago (2 children)

I have the best sense of humor ever. Everything is funny to me. I am completely incapable of taking anything seriously.

[–] Chippys_mittens@lemmy.world 3 points 4 months ago

Makes me think of that Bo Burnham song "what's funny"

[–] Mac@mander.xyz 1 points 4 months ago (1 children)

If everything is funny, then nothing is.
Therefore your sense of humor doesnt sense humor at all.

[–] Asafum@feddit.nl 9 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (1 children)

As far as what constitutes a good sense of humor I think there are a few ways to see it. One way to see it is being able to "take a joke," to know that you shouldn't be offended depending on the joke.

Another way to see it is the actual understanding/ability to make jokes and to know when to do so.

A third way to see it is with your eyes.

...ok I'll leave. :P

[–] Chippys_mittens@lemmy.world 3 points 4 months ago

Hell yeah good explanation

[–] nicgentile@lemmy.world 7 points 4 months ago

Give shit, take shit, have a laugh about it.

[–] Almacca@aussie.zone 6 points 4 months ago (1 children)

I reckon the key to a good sense of humour is to be able to laugh at yourself.

[–] Chippys_mittens@lemmy.world 3 points 4 months ago

Huge part of it in my opinion.

[–] Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world 5 points 4 months ago

I like to think so.

Someone with a good sense of humor understands why jokes are funny. Similar to how everyone can enjoy music, but a musician enjoys it differently.

Those people know how to craft a joke, and how to adjust timing to make it funnier, and are the first to laugh or at least acknowledge when that's a good one.

[–] RBWells@lemmy.world 5 points 4 months ago

The ability to see what is funny in a situation, quick wit, I think that's a good sense of humor. Understanding what will be funny to your audience. Not mean-ness. Though I do find snarky sarcasm funny, not the hurtful kind.

And yes, sometimes I am funny, or so I am told.

[–] Canopyflyer@lemmy.world 4 points 4 months ago

I love puns and word play.

Puns are one of the few forms of humor that doesn't have a target. No one is ever the butt of a pun and that is what I like about them.

[–] 200ok@lemmy.world 4 points 4 months ago (1 children)
[–] the_grass_trainer@lemmy.world 3 points 4 months ago

Yes, i do. If i can dish it out, i gotta be able to take it back in full.

Half my jokes are about myself anyways.

[–] Krudler@lemmy.world 2 points 4 months ago

Apparently not, because I detest webcomics. And people think they are wildly funny and so entertaining. I think once or twice in 10 years I've smirked at a webcomic.

[–] PieMePlenty@lemmy.world 2 points 4 months ago (1 children)

I can laugh at deadpan, satire, parody, dark, puns, self deprecating humor but find it hard to laugh at cringe comedy. I generally get when something is supposed to be funny, but it can be harder with some like satire.
I can't tell whats considered "good" though.

[–] Chippys_mittens@lemmy.world 3 points 4 months ago

Yeah, its mostly subjective so good is different for everyone.

[–] WindyRebel@lemmy.world 1 points 4 months ago

HahahahahaHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!

[–] YeahIgotskills2@lemmy.world 1 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

I think so. Humour was needed growing up in a Scottish school. I approach most things with a sort of 'Gallows Humour'. A kind of pleasantly self-soothing mindset that accepts that we're all pretty much fucked, so we might as well have a laugh while we're at it.

[–] TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 0 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (1 children)

No. I don't like lazy/easy humor, like one-liners and dad jokes and toilet humor.

I like satire and absurdist humor mostly, which alienates people because it requires knowledge of what it is satirizing.

I also like comics who insult everyone mercilessly and don't pull any punches, which is not very popular in the 'sensitivity' climate we have nowadays where certain groups are 'prohibited' from being mocked, or people who think political comedy must be one-sided only.

[–] Omgpwnies@lemmy.world 4 points 4 months ago

At least you're honest... you don't have a good sense of humour :)

Nearly every comic I've seen that "insults everyone mercilessly" just rehashes the same tired jokes, I consider that extremely lazy. I don't buy into your senitivity BS, people are just tired of the same garbage "I'm not racist, I hate everyone equally" humour.