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I remember my childhood mostly as a happy, oblivious one, affordable food, the usual disagreements between liberals and republicans, but nothing unhinged (say taxes, migrants or abortion). At least it looks reasonable today.

Now it's like everything is unhinged: politics seem to be based on purely emotional reactions and the other side is hell bent on destroying the country: texas starts heavily gerrymandering to secure 5 extra republican seats at the next midterms? california starts lobbying for doing exactly the same and dismantling an independent redistricting commission texas never had.

When I was younger it seemed politics were more rational and cruelty never seemed to be the point of doing nothing. Now we execute people with nitrogen gas, meaning a conscious person has to breathe something he knows its going to kill him during 4 minutes. This is somehow not cruel and unusual. And nobody bats an eye.

I still don't get how populists can be so popular now, they simplify complex issues most people without a degree in the matter, cannot grasp. This includes me.

I'm now 35 and wonder if I'm already talking like an old person who misses his young days so hard. I see that in people in their 60s and hoped never to become one of them, but here I am. To a younger person I may look like one of those old guys who lives to rant.

Am I going to feel even more detached and depressed with each passing day?

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[โ€“] nimrod06@lemmy.ml 7 points 2 days ago (2 children)

In terms of politics, yes. But we are better in almost every other aspect.

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[โ€“] TheDeed@hexbear.net 6 points 2 days ago

I'm around your age and feel the same, it's not just you

[โ€“] 10TH_OF_SEPTEMBER_CALL@hexbear.net 7 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Honestly maybe the 90ies were a short break between two crisis or a "golden age", but on the other hands, my parents were both struggling, we never had money, there was terrorism and police violence already

Remember when computer were magic though?

[โ€“] 7bicycles@hexbear.net 4 points 2 days ago (1 children)

remember when going online was a thing you used to do and not a 24/7 state of being

yeah now not looking at a screen is something i actively do

[โ€“] PetteriPano@lemmy.world 9 points 2 days ago

Yes, but now you get all the bad news streamed straight to you 24/7.

Previously you would have to pick up a newspaper or turn on the TV at the right time to hear about it.

[โ€“] LadyCajAsca@hexbear.net 8 points 2 days ago

Believe it or not, the world has indeed been made worse, it's just the era of American Domination due to the collapse of the USSR has waned due to previous socio-cultural issues ramping up and COVID-19 as well as the general beginning of change across the world due to the old generation dying out

[โ€“] furrowsofar@beehaw.org 3 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

There are a lot of things going on. Internationally, China and Russia and others at war or preparing for war with the west. So big geopolitical stuff. At home an aligment of those forces to create political instbility with existing forces internal to the US. A media and social media enviornment that thrives on outrage not truth. Disastisfaction that has resulted in a major political party being taken over by fascist, authoritarian. and corrupt influences. A populus that thinks this is just fine for one reason or another. A wealthy corporate power elite behind the scenes that likes this.

[โ€“] m532@lemmygrad.ml 3 points 2 days ago

It's way better now. Neoliberalism is dead, hope is back.

[โ€“] Lemmchen@feddit.org 2 points 2 days ago

Why not both?

[โ€“] manuallybreathing@lemmy.ml -1 points 2 days ago

Every major event i spend a lot of time rolling my eyes at real bougie people doing an emotional 'omg everything is suddenly so hard!', but the more things change, the more they stay the same, first as tragedy, second as farce

we're arguably a lot better off today

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