People who add periods to their acronyms (which is unnecessary to begin with), and then omit the last period.
this post was submitted on 05 Oct 2025
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Oh god; where to start?
- 'literally'. It's best when using the Essex pronunciation of 'litchally' for maximum cringey delivery.
- 'the ask'. Because 'request' or 'question' is too hard to say around the pablum.
- 'the spend'. Off the car lot, it sounds super-douchey.
- 'action this'. Why decide on a verb like 'do' or 'complete' or 'revisit' or 'prioritize'?
- 'begs the question'. Chances are, it really doesn't. And using that wrongly makes you sound like Mike Tyson saying 'utilize'
And now there's one more:
- 'utilize'; or, really, anyone using stilted 'formal' phrasing instead of plain English. You don't sound posh, but you do sound like you're three kids in a trenchcoat trying to fake being an adult so you don't get booted from the R-rated movie.
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"no offense" then proceeds to offend said person, or people using the word "YALL" how did it become popular when 15-20years ago and was considered unintelligent. Also people saying "entitled to thier own opinions" but end up saying thier own opinions matter more.
I don’t rember where I heard (must’ve been a TV show) it but it always stuck with me when a character said "yes offense".
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Y'all does it for me
I use often that IRL and commenting. Made myself a deal around 2000 or so that I would only say things online that I would say to a person's face, and that I would use my own voice online, comment as I really talk.
The Internet would be so much better if everyone were like that. People are so much nicer in person
I use y'all because my native language has a plural you and english doesn't I use y'all because it's the most neutral plural you english has. I suspect that's part of the reason why it's over-represented online, esl learners.
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"I have nothing to hide" -Man wearing pants
Eh...
"What I think she was trying to say is that- 🤓☝️" Stop trying to put words in my mouth or speak on my behalf when I am right here to put my point across to everyone.
That followed by those public event speakers that brush off the first round of goodmornings and then say "SAy iT lOuDeR! wHeRes yOuR eNeRgY! DIdNt yOu aLl eAt bReAkfAst?! 🤪" Idk what it is about hearing this sentence early in the morning that inspires so much hatred in me. You could have the most riveting, inspiring and thought provoking presentation in the world and have done lots of commendable deeds but if that string of words exits mouth before showing all of it, I automatically dislike you and whatever you have to say next.
I think what youre trying to say is that you want to communicate your own ideas in the way you wish to and not funneled through another mind.
Also yes anyone in public speaking wanting more of a response is annoying.
How do I leave a 50/50 downvote and upvote for this lol. The downvote is for that banger of an opening sentence and the upvote is in agreement to those kinds of public speakers being annoying.
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People who talk in buzz words as if this makes them insightful and intelligent and think others who don't are ignorant and stupid.
I think 'emotional intelligence' is the one that has really bothered me the most really. It also can't even be quantified but everyone goes around talking about how 'high' theirs is and how they only want to be with other people who are 'emotionally intelligent' as they are. It's just another way of saying you don't like someone because they don't feel the way you do about whatever thing.
"It is what it is" when describing a bad situation.
No, that's defeatist as hell, it will be whatever it will be when I've given it everything I can to make it better.
There's a reason you dislike it so, I wager
It's not that deep." – dismisses attempts to expose faulty logic by asserting that logic is not necessary in this particular case.[8]
"Lies of the Devil." – used as a response to any fact that threatens the integrity of an individual or group.[9] "Stop thinking too much." – redirects attention from the topic, idea, or argument at hand to the alleged overuse of thought itself.[10]
"You clearly care way too much about this topic." – implies that one's level of concern or interest in a particular topic or situation is excessive and thus invalidates any further conversation or exploration[2]
"There are worse things in life to worry about." – implies that less significant issues are not worth addressing since they are not as significant as other issues and implies that a person's situation is not significant enough to even warrant discussion or action[11]
"It's all good." – nullifies, without evidence, any possible debate by asserting the issue is already settled.[12][user-generated source?]
"Here we go again." – implies that the redundant, cyclical nature of a given disagreement means it will never be resolved.[13]
"So what? What effect does my action have?" – used to dismiss an individual's involvement in a larger cause on the grounds that one person is too insignificant to ever have a meaningful impact.[2]
"Let's agree to disagree." – used to stop discussion of an issue rather than attempt to resolve it;[14] may, however, instantiate a dialectic.
"It is what it is." – implies that things are unchangeable, therefore there is no point in further discussion.[15]
"Let people enjoy things." – purports that criticisms to consumable media are attempts to prevent consumers from enjoying said media.[
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Thought-terminating_clich%C3%A9
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I dont let my emotions control me like that, but I know what you mean. :)
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“I call it as I see it.”
“I’m just very straightforward and honest.”
No, you’re a prick. That’s what you are.
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"to make a long story short" - especially when used multiple times in one story and/or as a mindless audiospace filler to hold control of the conversation while assembling more thoughts/words... without knowing both the long and short version it literally adds nothing to the communication, it literally makes the story longer every time you use it (wasting my time), it's probably the longest socially acceptable way to say that (one could just say: "in short"), and it's got just enough word-scramble verbal complexity to occupy the higher order English parsing logic.
Perfect chance to interrupt their story:
“Please make your long story short.”
I've seen/heard a few Americans (old and young) saying something like "it has been a minute" to indicate "it has been a long time". What the hell is that? How did that start? Please someone enlighten me
It's just a euphemism, it's a sentence made funny by how much it understates the reality of the situation
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