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[–] echodot@feddit.uk 6 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (29 children)

It's a test and you failed it by being weird and strange and obnoxious, just let her bring her friend it's literally not a downside for you. She'll feel more comfortable by bringing her friend which can only be a good thing for you.

I don't really consider myself to be particularly spectacular in the social department but even I wouldn't have reacted like that. To be crass, why wouldn't you want more girls on your date?

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[–] m4xie@lemmy.ca 8 points 3 days ago (1 children)

You gotta make sure she's not trying to back-and-switch you into a polycule!

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[–] python@lemmy.world 5 points 3 days ago (3 children)

Being this weird about not paying would be an instant no for me. Around here it's the norm that everyone pays for themselves on a date and even implying that someone will want you to pay for them is pretty rude. The only non-rude way to pay for the entire date is to ask for the full check when the waiter comes before the other person can ask to split it. Usually with the line "I'll take this one, next one's on you ;)" which doesn't really mean that the next one's on them but is more about the implication that there will be a next date.

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[–] fartographer@lemmy.world 6 points 3 days ago
[–] taiyang@lemmy.world 3 points 3 days ago

Not only does that sound like a better date to me, but I also make it pretty clear upfront we split the cost of the date. Like, I'm pretty good at winning over friends and they end up getting my back during a misunderstanding (speaking from experience lol).

[–] HugeNerd@lemmy.ca 3 points 3 days ago
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