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[–] Theprogressivist@lemmy.world 66 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] darkdemize@sh.itjust.works 26 points 1 week ago (4 children)

Is this an old person trait? Consider me a curmudgeon then.

[–] ThatGuy46475@lemmy.world 21 points 1 week ago (4 children)

Anything invented before you turn 15 is just how the world works.

Anything invented between the ages of 15 and 30 is revolutionary and groundbreaking and you should pursue a career in it.

Anything invented after you turn 30 goes against the natural order of things.

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[–] Nefara@lemmy.world 54 points 1 week ago (3 children)

I've started noticing birds, and worse, I've started recognizing them.

[–] grasshopper_mouse@lemmy.world 19 points 1 week ago

I volunteered over the summer to track birds at a plot of local conservation land. Went out there at the crack of dawn with binoculars and everything. That's when I knew I was really getting old.

[–] AstralPath@lemmy.ca 19 points 1 week ago (2 children)

If you haven't tried Cornell's "Merlin" app, I highly recommend it.

Bird watching is peaceful. I love it.

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[–] cobysev@lemmy.world 43 points 1 week ago (5 children)

I refuse to use TikTok, Instagram, WhatsApp, etc. I only have Facebook because 90% of my friends and family are there and it's the primary way I stay in touch with them, but I'd like to get rid of that too.

Regarding TikTok, I was serving in the US military as an IT sysadmin when it became popular. But we discovered that the app embedded itself deep in your phone's hardware, granted itself full administrative access to your phone, then started trickling all your data to servers in China. And you couldn't fully uninstall it once you'd installed it once. Your phone was completely compromised if you ever installed that app.

It became a huge security risk and we were told to never use it. It was a horrifyingly effective spy tool China could use to easily collect data on us. That's why President Biden pushed to ban TikTok in the US.

But of course, TikTok became super popular among our civilian population and they refused to give it up, which led to a lot of pushback against the ban. It never held, and now people are still using it and sharing all their private information with China.

Meta does something similar with Facebook/Instagram/Whatsapp, but we at least can keep tabs on what they're doing with your private data, since they're an American company. They mostly use your information to build advertising profiles on you, to better catch your attention with ads. But that information could easily be used against you if federal organizations wanted to. ICE could use it to identify non-white Americans and their daily habits and easily intercept them.

Still, if you don't want your private information being potentially stolen by these companies, it's best to dump these programs. I don't install them on my phone or tablet and I keep Facebook's website isolated on my computer, since it likes to read other open windows and use those sites to fine-tune advertising data for you.

Google has turned into one of these companies that collects data on everything you do, so I'm in the middle of de-Googling my life right now. But it's really hard because they're embedded everywhere.

We're living in a dark time where the only way to prevent corporations and governments from collecting information on you is to stay offline. Which is nearly impossible nowadays. We don't get privacy in this modern Information Age. Not while Capitalism is still a thing.

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[–] MyDarkestTimeline01@ani.social 35 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (11 children)

The streak of white in my beard?

The fact that 75% of my media consumption is things I've already seen before?

I can maintain eye contact in a conversation and at no point do I want to fuck/fight the other person nor do I believe they want to fuck/fight me?

I can maintain friendships with people who do not share all of my views on things, with a select view even having opposing views?

Comfort wins over style every time, with zero exceptions?

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[–] MrsDoyle@sh.itjust.works 29 points 1 week ago (1 children)

My old person trait is being 72.

[–] Xaphanos@lemmy.world 12 points 1 week ago

You! The only person on Lemmy older than me!

[–] Nasan@sopuli.xyz 23 points 1 week ago (9 children)

I always get printed boarding passes for domestic flights.

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[–] lone_faerie@lemmy.blahaj.zone 21 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I refuse to scan a qr code for a menu. Give me a damn piece of paper

[–] burntbacon@discuss.tchncs.de 11 points 1 week ago

This irritates the hell out of me, especially after those malicious link hijacks in the news recently. I'd accept a url before a qr code.

[–] palordrolap@fedia.io 19 points 1 week ago (2 children)

You mean, like, other than twice my age being statistically dead?

Many.

Let's start with neo-Luddite tendencies, e.g. deep suspicion of, and wanting very little to do with: devices with planned obsolescence; devices that basically spy on the user; this push for LLMs and similar generative artificial "intelligence".

Or rather, the people who are pulling the strings, so to speak, behind those technologies. The technologies themselves have great potential, but that cannot be reached under those who presently control them.

Also a strong dislike of people, usually kids, making noise or worse, actually being on my property because they have no respect for certain boundaries, or they don't even know those boundaries exist. Classic "damn kids, get off my lawn" old man attitude.

And finally: I still have a flip-phone and have no other computing devices beyond the one desktop PC I'm writing this comment from.

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[–] iii@mander.xyz 19 points 1 week ago (12 children)

I prefer an analog kitchen. Spring based scales, wooden utensils, gas stove, glass storage.

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[–] Apeman42@lemmy.world 18 points 1 week ago (2 children)

No, I do not have whatever stupidly named money transfer app you're using this week, and no, I will not install it.

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[–] iamericandre@lemmy.world 18 points 1 week ago (1 children)
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[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 18 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (5 children)

I don't download every new random chat app that's in vogue. I'll give you my phone number and we can text or talk without having to go through more 3rd parties besides the telephone companies we get service from. I hated needing a bajillion different text apps to talk to everyone I knew in the 2000s, I sure as hell ain't gonna start that shit up again 25 years down the road. Unless someone makes something like Trillian, fuck off with your WeChats and WhatsApp and Velcro or whatever the fuck.

[–] Gork@sopuli.xyz 16 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I'd usually agree with this but SMS is pretty insecure, so I mainly use Signal instead for the end-to-end encryption in a responsible manner (no leaking war plans like a certain SecDef).

[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 12 points 1 week ago

It's cool. I don't plan on discussing war plans. Just swapping dick and bootyhole pics.

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[–] tanisnikana@lemmy.world 11 points 1 week ago (7 children)

Most of my friends don’t even have my phone number, let alone a messaging service. We do postal mail or just go to each other’s houses. I mail out about twenty letters a week and get that much back, on nice stationery.

It’s good to feel loved.

[–] Usernamealreadyinuse@lemmy.world 9 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Dude or dudess, if true, f*cking awesome. And i envy you

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[–] kelpie_returns@lemmy.world 17 points 1 week ago (6 children)

Some part of my body always hurts. Mostly back, intestines, and joints, but these feet of mine have been finding their footing in this game lately too. Life hurts ;(

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[–] khannie@lemmy.world 15 points 1 week ago

I am incredibly difficult to buy gifts for because I have everything I want, which is not much at all.

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[–] Oaksey@lemmy.world 15 points 1 week ago (1 children)

When out eating and drinking, my preference is to go and order food and drink at the counter/bar, rather than install some app or give a website all my personal information before I can order.

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[–] humanoidchaos@lemmy.cif.su 14 points 1 week ago

I genuinely hate new things and most change at this point.

I don't think it's me getting old. I think I was raised differently than most of my peers and exposed to how previous generations actually fought for their rights instead of rolling over and taking it up the ass.

Most of my peers are dumb as shit and have no concept of how much businessmen are taking advantage of them. If someone tells them to buy something, they'll buy it.

[–] FRYD@sh.itjust.works 13 points 1 week ago (3 children)

I primarily write in cursive.

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[–] TriflingToad@sh.itjust.works 12 points 1 week ago (2 children)

never self checkout.. unless 18+ items are involved.
other than that or stealing literally no cashier will care or even remember you.

source: am cashier at grocery store

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[–] RattlerSix@lemmy.world 12 points 1 week ago

I get up earlier on weekends than weekdays. I try to get up at 6am but I often get up to pee at 4am and just stay up. I do a bunch of things and it feels like I've had a good day then I realize it's only like 10am and I still have a whole day ahead of me.

[–] mousefad@lemmy.dbzer0.com 11 points 1 week ago
[–] bhamlin@lemmy.world 11 points 1 week ago

I have opinions on my lawn and your proximity to it.

[–] klemptor@startrek.website 11 points 1 week ago

I avoid going out during busy times - e.g., rush hour, school zones, restaurants on a Friday or Saturday night.

[–] python@lemmy.world 11 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I'm always up to date on the grocery store sales in my area and when there's something especially good on sale I will show up at the store when it opens at 7:30.

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[–] bridgeenjoyer@sh.itjust.works 10 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (2 children)

Literally everything i do. Im not even old but I could keep a conversation going with a 60 year old easily.

Old cars, reel to reels, vhs, win 95, atari 2600, pentium 3s, 50s music, records and vintage amplifiers and speakers..dos commands..the list goes on

That and I hate social media (i realize lemmy is social media) and my smartphone stays off on weekends. I prefer books.

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[–] chunes@lemmy.world 10 points 1 week ago

I don't own a smart phone and never have. Miss me with that Fisher-Price technology.

[–] BurgerBaron@piefed.social 10 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I've never installed a banking app.

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Involuntary groans whenever I sit down or stand up.

[–] jordanlund@lemmy.world 9 points 1 week ago

Physical media.

[–] TheWeirdestCunt@lemmy.today 9 points 1 week ago

Does joint pain count? I've had the back of a 90 year old since I was a teen and the rest of my joints weren't far behind

[–] Nikls94@lemmy.world 9 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I like to go to bed at 9/10 and wake up at 4/6

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[–] Canconda@lemmy.ca 9 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (3 children)

I stopped caring about a lot of pop culture stuff coming out. I don't hate it. But like it used to capture my interest. Literally never heard of Lebooboo's until SP27E4.

Basic Fuckenomics I guess.

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