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[–] Soulg@ani.social 73 points 2 weeks ago (13 children)

I dunno, most games the sexuality of the protagonist is completely irrelevant, and in those cases id tell both sides to stop whining or just play a different game

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[–] Derpenheim@lemmy.zip 61 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

"The game is forcing me to fuck this man, repeatedly"

[–] Stalinwolf@lemmy.ca 20 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

What?! That's terrible! How?! How can I replicate that so that I don't accidentally do it?!

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[–] Opisek@lemmy.world 14 points 2 weeks ago

Could I skip it? Yes, but I paid for this content so now I have to see it to get my money's worth. It's not my fault I'm doing it, it's the woke™!

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[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 49 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (3 children)

No one is forced to be straight... Most games don't even have romances.

Like you think Doom Guy is straight because he's clearly a Christian? When I control him, he's the gayest queen in Hell. 🤷‍♂️

[–] UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world 20 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (12 children)

No one is forced to be straight…

Virtually every JRPG has a straight romance subplot, typically staring the main character. Every FF since... six? Every Dragon Quest. Every Persona. Kingdom Hearts. Fucking Mario Brothers has a straight romance in it.

Like you think Doom Guy is straight because he’s clearly a Christian?

I think you can head-cannon that the two dudes in Time Crisis are having hard core steamy Special Agent on Special Agent lovemakings in between chapters. Fine and good.

But when Arno & Elise kiss in Assassin's Creed Unity? I'm sorry, but nobody needs to see that heteronormative degenerate filth. Kids are playing that game. What are they going to grow up thinking?

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[–] InvestBurnout@fedia.io 48 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I'd much rather play as a woman.

[–] Skullgrid@lemmy.world 25 points 2 weeks ago (17 children)

I'm cis, my character in Saints row ended up trans because I wasn't a fan of dressing up a guy and wanted to dress up a woman.

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[–] TankovayaDiviziya@lemmy.world 35 points 2 weeks ago (25 children)

Why do we still attention to tiny loud minority of Gamers^TM^ who whinge about "go woke go broke" and yet these still games sell like hotcakes? Just tell them that if they don't like the game, then don't buy the game.

[–] skulblaka@sh.itjust.works 23 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

I prefer to clown on them relentlessly and let them be aware that everyone thinks their opinion is stupid and childish

Allowing this to go unchecked or ignored is how we got here in the first place. "Just ignore the trolls" led to the trolls having actual societal inertia. It is no longer enough to just ignore them, they need pushback.

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[–] BurgerBaron@piefed.social 29 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

Never liked this lumping of everyone into oversimplified "gamers" as if it's anything different besides conservatives who happen to play games.

It is always conservatives. In any hobby.

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[–] drunkpostdisaster@lemmy.world 29 points 2 weeks ago (4 children)

Would be nice if you could play a gay dude. It feels like most lbgtq representation is only women

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[–] dmention7@midwest.social 28 points 2 weeks ago (15 children)

In many cases, not even forced, just given the option to play as a non-straight character in a way that's mostly irrelevant to the actual game!

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[–] Tudsamfa@lemmy.world 27 points 2 weeks ago

"forced" to play

because the path of the gamer isn't a choice™

[–] thatKamGuy@sh.itjust.works 26 points 2 weeks ago (17 children)

Honest question, can anyone actually name a mainstream game where the main playable character is canonically and explicitly portrayed as gay?

I honestly can’t even think of one.

[–] bluecat_OwO@lemmy.world 20 points 2 weeks ago

last of us?

[–] prole@lemmy.blahaj.zone 16 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Last of Us.

Life is Strange games.

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[–] MellowYellow13@lemmy.world 13 points 2 weeks ago

Yes, Life is Strange and The Last of Us. Pretty major games

[–] skisnow@lemmy.ca 12 points 2 weeks ago

That's what makes it even more pathetic, literally just being given the option of a gay subplot is having it shoved down their throats.

It's so ridiculous that I question how many of the complaints we see online are even sincere, because surely people aren't that dumb.

[–] buttnugget@lemmy.world 12 points 2 weeks ago

Life is Strange series, Before the Storm. Not sure about the others.

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[–] kalapala@sopuli.xyz 26 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Games are not about you and the purpose often is to give you an experience that you wouldn't have as yourself.

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[–] HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 25 points 2 weeks ago

Kojima's got this one right. Every game has at least one gay character. You, the player.

[–] SethTaylor@lemmy.world 24 points 2 weeks ago

Transphobic dudes experiencing gender dysphoria playing as a woman

[–] cerebralhawks@lemmy.dbzer0.com 21 points 2 weeks ago (17 children)

What's a straight character?

In Skyrim you can romance any of a wide variety of characters marked as "marriageable" in the game's files. That really just means the voice actor was willing to record the marriage ceremony lines. Since voice actors were reused, if a voice actor recorded their lines, most if not all of their characters would be marriageable. To marry a character, you complete a task for them that makes them call you a friend (typically a quest they give you when you first meet them). You then wear an amulet of Mara (the game's goddess of love) and speak to them. They ask if you fancy them, you say yes. They propose marriage, you go to the temple of Mara and be there the next day. During the ceremony you can say yes or no. And the game does not give two shits what your gender is. If you're a male character, you can freely marry any marriageable male character, and vice versa for females. I play female characters because I like to look at them. I'd rather look at a female than a male. And I always marry Mjoll the Lioness because she's trying to tear down the most fun guild in the game, so I move her out of town and make her a housewife. (Her quest is a lot of fun, too.)

In Fallout 4 you can romance maybe half a dozen characters? All of your companions who are not robotic or animal. One of the robots can be converted into an android you can hook up with. You can't marry any of them, and you can romance all of them. None of them care what your gender is. Many have quests you have to do, but even beyond that, you have to push up their approval rating of you, by doing things they approve of (e.g. Matt Mercer's character loves when you pick locks and steal) and by not doing things they don't like (e.g. there's a junkie girl who loves when you do drugs, until you cure her addiction, then she hates when you do drugs). Once they're romanced, you can take them to any bed for a fade-to-black sex scene (neither heard nor seen).

In Cyberpunk 2077, there are four characters you can romance and hook up with, but no marriage. Each one has a genital preference and a voice preference. So you can absolutely be trans in the game. You choose a body type (fem or masc) and a voice type (fem or masc). Depending on your choice, you get 2 people you can romance. The other two will not reach the romance stage with you no matter what.

I guess the characters in GTA are straight? I don't play bro shooters and such. Not my thing. Tomb Raider? Up in the air what Lara Croft prefers. You could take that either way. I love the Life is Strange games and those lean gay/lesbian. In the first one, Max can kiss both a girl and a guy, and it seems equal, but if you read her diary, she has no attraction to the guy, but she absolutely crushes on the girl. In the second one, the guy is absolutely gay, but the focus is on his little brother who is too young to have a sexual orientation (I think he's 8?). It's less obvious in the third one, but that girl definitely has lesbian vibes. And the fourth one is Max again.

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[–] redwattlebird@lemmings.world 19 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

This is why games should allow modding.

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[–] muusemuuse@sh.itjust.works 19 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

No one is forcing them to do anything. They can choose to play the game or to do anything else.

[–] Soup@lemmy.world 15 points 2 weeks ago (5 children)

Oh and buddy they will yell about how much they won’t play a game and how their boycott will kill it while the game does just fine.

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[–] callouscomic@lemmy.zip 14 points 2 weeks ago (4 children)

I want to be something else when I play games. I don't understand this need to be the same thing I am every fucking day. Bring on other genders, sexes, races, species, colors, limbs, all of it. Let's be different. It's a fucking video game.

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[–] itisileclerk@lemmy.world 13 points 2 weeks ago

That's nothing, I was forced to play a snake that was eating small dots and getting longer and longer.

[–] Apeman42@lemmy.world 13 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Feel like dudes who refuse to ever play as women or in simulated gay relationships are just depriving themselves of some quality content. I haven't gotten to this BG3 playthrough yet, but you can't tell me Ascended Astarion and Ambition Gale won't be the most toxic codependent enabling shit ever, and it is gonna be enthralling to watch that heat up and burn down.

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