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[–] zea_64@lemmy.blahaj.zone 57 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)
[–] kautau@lemmy.world 36 points 4 weeks ago

audience laugh track

[–] Droggelbecher@lemmy.world 29 points 4 weeks ago (3 children)

I've often been told I'm too nOrMaL to be autistic but never that I don't look autistic. Have you all been told the latter? I see so many memes about that.

[–] RisingSwell@lemmy.dbzer0.com 21 points 4 weeks ago

I'm autistic enough to fuck me over but not autistic enough to get any real benefit.

[–] Cenzorrll@lemmy.world 7 points 4 weeks ago

Normie here. Those two phrases can mean the same thing. There's a lot of body language processing and behavior processing that all gets lumped into someones "look", if they say "you're too normal" it means the same thing as "you don't look autistic".

You could probably get nitty gritty and find that someone who is more familiar with you might be more likely to say "you're too normal" because they are basing it off of more than just appearances, but in the long run it's all just based on observations anyway and certain cultures might lean toward one phrase over the other.

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[–] rumba@lemmy.zip 26 points 4 weeks ago (2 children)

When your 'thing' is technology (computers/coding/hosting/fixing electronics) they tend not to label you as much as ask you for help with their tech.

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[–] minoscopede@lemmy.world 20 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

I'm not necessarily autistic, but when I tell people I'm neurodivergent, they're like "yup" 😓

[–] skisnow@lemmy.ca 11 points 4 weeks ago (6 children)

I’m not autistic, but if there’s an odd number of steps I have to go up them twice to make them even

[–] Klear@lemmy.world 6 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

Can't you just repeat the last one?

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[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 20 points 4 weeks ago (2 children)

Me I guess? I mean even I didnt know I was on the spectrum until I was 36.

[–] Strider@lemmy.world 7 points 4 weeks ago* (last edited 4 weeks ago) (1 children)

Beat 48 😉

(it's not a competition though, just having fun.)

[–] uzziah0@lemmy.world 10 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

60! Just now talking the time to figure out what it all means.

[–] Strider@lemmy.world 5 points 4 weeks ago (5 children)

Nice and congrats!

May I ask on which country? I'm currently trying to get diagnosed in Germany and its really impossible so far.

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[–] downhomechunk@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 4 weeks ago

I somehow managed to avoid it my entire miserable life. But then I caught the autism from my daughter at age 41.

[–] makyo@lemmy.world 20 points 4 weeks ago (4 children)

I don't know how well received 'Love on the Spectrum' is in the community but I have to say it was mesmerizing when the one lady was on a date with the DJ guy and they we listing off song after song and the key it was in.

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[–] Hozerkiller@lemmy.ca 19 points 4 weeks ago

They specifically say train not model of train so I can only assume it is literally every individual train.

[–] ImplyingImplications@lemmy.ca 17 points 4 weeks ago

I! AM! A SURGEON!

[–] HalfSalesman@lemmy.world 17 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

I mask a lot better when I'm not depressed. (I'm horribly depressed.)

That said I still mask as second nature pretty well as I consistently get the "I wouldn't have guessed you were autistic." response from people a lot. I generally love socializing and I'm pretty good at it from experience and the topic of "people" being an on and off special interest.

[–] renrenPDX@lemmy.world 7 points 4 weeks ago (4 children)

I hope you’re doing better, pal.

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[–] Tarkcanis@lemmy.world 16 points 4 weeks ago (4 children)

I hate the train meme for its accuracy... I dispise trains but I ended up working on the railway anyway.

[–] Empricorn@feddit.nl 10 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

Who hates trains!? Before you worked on the railway, I mean.

[–] darthelmet@lemmy.world 14 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)
[–] Empricorn@feddit.nl 4 points 4 weeks ago

Hey, my country has decided giant corporations are people, and profits are speech. STOP OPPRESSING THEM!

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[–] RizzRustbolt@lemmy.world 14 points 4 weeks ago* (last edited 4 weeks ago)

Growing up in the 80s made me ridiculously good at masking.

Which is to my detriment now that more resources are available. Unmasking in front of neurotypicals is quite difficult for me.

[–] Iapetus@slrpnk.net 13 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

My favourite response to this when is:

"Oh yeah? So what does autism look like? Go on, do your best impression. I want to see."

[–] SippyCup@feddit.nl 8 points 3 weeks ago

I have a neuromild friend who, when I am on a rant because the world works the wrong way, or explaining something in detail that the milds probably don't care about, very politely holds up a little sign for me.

It's like, "Hey friend, this is a 'tism."

They've never stopped me, never cut me off, never sighed in exasperation that the autistic guy is at it again. Just a little note that whatever I'm on about is neurospicier than the milds generally like.

[–] uriel238@lemmy.blahaj.zone 12 points 4 weeks ago (2 children)

In the post about the new convert your colleagues to your faith in the breakroom memo by the Trump regime, I offered an example of what my spiritual workmates might encounter if they raised the topic of Jesus, several paragraphs about the cosmic horror of reality.

The main thrust is that all spirit, whether another subatomic factor, or a manifold like gravity, is transparent to to the standard model of particle physics. It's also transparent to relativity, but we expect that.

And that includes human souls, ghosts, afterlife.

My point was I've thought about and researched existential philosophy at length, possibly to suggest I'm ASD (disclosure: I'm diagnosed), and my evangelical rivals may as well be walking into the Total Perspective Vortex.

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[–] Lexam@lemmy.world 8 points 4 weeks ago

Only from a distance. Ok I wear a big floppy hat so even from a distance!

[–] Ceruleum@lemmy.wtf 7 points 4 weeks ago* (last edited 4 weeks ago) (2 children)

I compiled a list of 4000 color names and their rgb values.

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[–] LillyPip@lemmy.ca 6 points 3 weeks ago

Ha. Joke’s on you, everything I do is an autism. Plus I’m a lady. Checkmate redpillers.

[–] socsa@piefed.social 5 points 4 weeks ago* (last edited 4 weeks ago) (1 children)

I have the kind of AuDHD which almost completely disappears with the right dose of alcohodderall. In fact I can be downright witty and gregarious when that equilibrium kicks in just right, so the true awkwardness is reserved for those who exist in those unfortunate, but necessary windows of sobriety.

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[–] phoenixz@lemmy.ca 4 points 4 weeks ago

I know it's a joke but this literally is my brother. Not always easy to deal with but he is super awesome in all his own ways

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