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[–] Chivera@lemmy.world 73 points 2 months ago (2 children)

I remember we discovered the shorter the phone cable the faster our connection would be. So my friend bought a 2 inch cable and we had the computer right up against the wall for that extra 2kbps

[–] tetris11@lemmy.ml 37 points 2 months ago

now this is podracing!

[–] ameancow@lemmy.world 17 points 2 months ago (1 children)

My family lived in a remote place, we had just barely gotten phone lines, they were terrible and we rarely got higher than 11kbs no matter what I tried.

Somehow I still was able to play online games like Team Fortress, I just had to radically change how I played compared to other players.

[–] kadaverin0@lemmy.dbzer0.com 11 points 2 months ago (1 children)

That was me with Quake II. All my rich friends had cable modems when they were still a luxury item and the rest of us poors out in the woods had to make do with 12kbps. It was a slaughter every night after school.

[–] ameancow@lemmy.world 13 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Don't forget getting yelled at for "camping" because that's the only way you can possibly play.

[–] kadaverin0@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

I had no shame about it. If hanging out in the rocket launcher spawn area doesn't cause my latency to go apeshit then I'm hanging out there and shooting anything that moves.

Fuck you and your 45 mbps, Eddie and Ian!

[–] thespcicifcocean@lemmy.world 42 points 2 months ago (1 children)

i remember this vividly. going to my friend's house to watch the badger song, etc.

[–] ZJBlank@lemmy.world 11 points 2 months ago (1 children)
[–] amroth@lemmy.world 7 points 2 months ago

SNAAAAAKEEEEE!!

[–] Geometrinen_Gepardi@sopuli.xyz 32 points 2 months ago (1 children)

When you entered, in the hallway there was a dedicated table that had a landline phone and paper phonebook on it. Possibly a pack of cigarettes and a lighter too.

[–] RaivoKulli@sopuli.xyz 4 points 2 months ago

Answering machine with the cute little cassette

[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 32 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (3 children)

I was the one whose computer had the internet. The cruelest thing I ever did was get my friend, who had no computer at all, addicted to Ultima Online and EverQuest.

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[–] tetris11@lemmy.ml 32 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

I would raise and contort my hand in sync with the dial-up tones when my friend was around to convince them I was a shaman

"One does not simply access the worldy wider web, my child. You have to sing to it."

[–] AngryCommieKender@lemmy.world 5 points 2 months ago (1 children)

When was the last time you heard the storm? '96 for me. Had either a T1 or DSL connection after that.

[–] tetris11@lemmy.ml 4 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (3 children)

back in '12 for me, we switched to cable and suddenly we had a landline and internet at the same time -- it was genuinely crazy

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[–] Gert@sh.itjust.works 24 points 2 months ago

That time when you had to wait for the image to load line by line only to realize, her boobs where covered, and the utter disappointed of the image either being cropped or she was wearing pants.

[–] dwindling7373@feddit.it 23 points 2 months ago (1 children)

This but gaming instead.

As in, whatching our friend play aoe2 or something.

To be fair it's exactly the same as watching a streamer, minus the parasocial relationship.

[–] Sc00ter@lemmy.zip 7 points 2 months ago

I used to watch my buddy play WoW.

That was 2 fold. We did what this post talks about, but i also knew what diablo 2 did to me, and knew i couldnt own WoW or I'd flunk out of high school

[–] TranscendentalEmpire@lemmy.today 19 points 2 months ago (5 children)

Ahh.... Hanging with friends gathered around a PC and trolling pedos on AIM. So weird that age, sex, and location were the primary opening lines of communication for a while. Even stranger that creepy dudes in their 40s were so honest about it while trying to pick up kids on the Internet.

[–] ameancow@lemmy.world 9 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I never understood that, I never participated in that weird ASL greeting, even as a naive kid who didn't even have social experience I felt that was creepy and dangerous to share that kind of thing, and I resented how it basically turned every conversation into "Is it remotely possible we could fuck."

I'm so glad the internet outgrew that silly trend and became so much more refined, intelligent and respectful.

[–] Whats_your_reasoning@lemmy.world 10 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I remember (as a girl) wanting to talk to another girl my age in a chatroom. The rest of the room started asking if I was a lesbian.

Like we couldn’t just talk to people online without bringing sex into it. I just wanted to make some friends.

[–] ameancow@lemmy.world 5 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I feel like if parents took the internet more seriously from the start and were more actively engaged in what their rotten teenagers were getting up to online we might have had at least a slowdown of the awful decay of society as our worst intrusive thoughts now not only have space to be seen without consequence, we have entire communities supporting each other's rotten intrusive thoughts.

[–] Whats_your_reasoning@lemmy.world 8 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Honestly, if my parents had any idea how many creeps were on AOL, I probably would’ve been banned from it. We’re like the “grew up with no seatbelts and survived” version of internet users.

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[–] Aussiemandeus@aussie.zone 6 points 2 months ago (4 children)
[–] grue@lemmy.world 15 points 2 months ago (1 children)
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[–] kadaverin0@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 2 months ago

My friends and I used to do that. We find some scumbag trawling the teen chat rooms on AOL and get them to IM us. The we'd say we wanted to send them a picture us and we'd send them gore, scat porn, and other gross shit. Some of the best nights of my teenage years.

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[–] GrumpyDuckling@sh.itjust.works 13 points 2 months ago

We would ride our bikes to the library because their connection was faster and we could sit next to each other.

[–] kadaverin0@lemmy.dbzer0.com 10 points 2 months ago

My first hands-on experience with the Internet was at a friend's house in the early 90s in 4th or 5th grade. I'd seen it before on various classroom computers but I never got a chance to use it because the teachers all seemed to agree on putting the unstable desk-throwing kids in front of them for the school day to keep them distracted.

[–] Whats_your_reasoning@lemmy.world 10 points 2 months ago

Ah, the good ol’ days, when my friend’s computer would get jacked up from Bonzai Buddy because she thought it was too cute.

I thought it was weird and didn’t care for it, so I never put it on my family’s computer. After it was discovered to be spyware, I felt vindicated.

[–] renzhexiangjiao@piefed.blahaj.zone 10 points 2 months ago (1 children)

it's not that old, it was still normal in 2010

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[–] j4k3@piefed.world 9 points 2 months ago (1 children)

We polished the prop to 28k in my full digits year. There better be 7 of us 28'ers here or we have failed - rule

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[–] biofaust@lemmy.world 9 points 2 months ago

I used to play Doom with 2 other friends on the same keyboard. One moving, one firing and one (the most bored) opening doors and activating buttons.

OG multiplayer Doom.

[–] match@pawb.social 8 points 2 months ago

you're the man now dog

[–] bridgeenjoyer@sh.itjust.works 8 points 2 months ago

All the time! Showing each other the cool sites we'd found. Messing with settings.

[–] GreenKnight23@lemmy.world 7 points 2 months ago (1 children)
[–] Itdidnttrickledown@lemmy.world 4 points 2 months ago (2 children)

No shit. Everyone brings over their computer. For me my first network was the lan party net. It was 10base 2. Invariably at least one time a meet someone would kick a coax cable loose and we would lose the whole network. Thinking about it we didn't have the name lan party when we first started having them. We called it playing warcraft 2.

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[–] hperrin@lemmy.ca 6 points 2 months ago (1 children)

No, cause I was the friend with the computer. My dad worked in computers, so we had a computer in the eighties and internet in (I think) 1995. We got cable internet really early too, and my first username was “guywithcable”.

[–] otter@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 2 months ago

Unknowingly, son of u/fatpipe & u/maxbaud

[–] RVGamer06@sh.itjust.works 4 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

I'm only just enough old for the Wii lmao

[–] Wav_function@lemmy.world 5 points 2 months ago

That's an abnormal amount

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