if you are not actively wishing for the USA to be nuked you are a loser
Ethnic Minorities and People of Color
Official Title of this Community: Ethnic Minorities and People of Color
Why is the title different?
We like to have fun here.
What is this place? A safe space for underrepresented peoples and peoples of color to talk, chill, and vibe.
What are the basic rules of the community?
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Follow Lemmy TOS and Community Guidelines. Non negotiable. This is the bedrock and mods will make decisions with this always in mind.
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This community is for ethnic minorities and people of color. This is a safe space where such people can freely discuss their struggles, insight, and thoughts without fear. If you are not, we respectfully ask you do not post or comment here. A future community will be established to allow for racial discussions with a mixed userbase. However, remember, comments here must still respect Lemmy TOS and Community Guidelines.
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Irony Racism is still racism. Racism is bad m'kay? We will treat irony racism and bad faith racist satire as racism. Will wield the ban hammer accordingly.
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No sectarianism: This is an identity channel not a channel for you all to complain about why XYZ isn't the "one true leftism". Take that to another place.
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Stupidpol is not allowed. Stupidpol is class reductionist. We are an identity community. Thinking like stupidpol ignores the struggles of the oppressed, their voices, and their need for unique support. Nothing says oppression more than someone saying that the identity you have is "not real" and that if you only thought like them you'd see what your "real" identity is. Mods reserve the right to ban users and content who promote stupidpol, stupidpol memes, and other class reductionist thinking.
FAQ
I don't look XYZ and/or sometimes I can pass as white so I don't know if I can post here. Can I?
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This place is for ethnic minorities and people of color. This includes those of mixed heritage and those who may be "white" but are of an ethnicity that is a minority in their area (i.e. Kurds, etc) If you've experienced oppression due to your identity that is not based on sexual / gender identification, you are welcome here.
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Moreover, for our American audience, we have people from around the world who are "white" but are oppressed due to being a minority in their country. They are and should be welcomed here.
What can I post?
- Anything you think is relevant to the mission of this community. Things will evolve over time.
- Topics and things relevant to EM and POC.
Suggested Posts
- [People of Spice]: Food recipes so others can taste your culture
- [Theory]: Vid/podcasts/websites discussing issues relevant to identity, anti-imperialism, etc
- [News]: Vids/podcasts/websites that talk about current events relevant to EM and POC
So some crackers on this site really want to nuance the "Falklands".
I think I missed the struggle session on that one. What are empoc takes on it?
personally i dont think brits deserve rights but also i dont think argentinians should be rewarded ever so the malvinas should be given to uruguay or brazil
This is the only correct and true position.
Anyone with a different take should be punished as a deviationist.
I still do not regret my 3rd party vote. Majority of the people in my life do not know who I voted for(I think they assume Kamala) but if I hear hollow brain takes like "this is what they voted for", then I'm letting it rip. A coworker told me Biden wasn't that bad and I had to shut that down on the spot.
I'm seeing so many of my fellow Black people on that "this is what they voted for" shit
It breaks my heart, makes me feel alienated from the community
I'm trying to date again, but it's scary af to put myself out there and I get more scared when someone does like me 🙃 I'm doing OK at making friends tho so maybe i should push myself less and just try to have a social life to start with.
struggling to be organized enough to go do stuff vs. 🧊 but the little I've done feels good
I've been thinking about my first ever partner a lot, and I miss her.
I'm not gonna get into the whole story behind us, so to keep it short: I met her early on in college. We connected really well over the fact that we found out that we're both Black and into metal. She was the only Black person I've ever dated, and I think that's why she's been on my mind a lot as of late.
As some of you may know, my dating pool is already very small due to some non-negotiable concerns about personal values. For this reason, I didn't think I was ever gonna feel to racially restrict it, but I cannot see myself ever entertaining a relationship with another non-Black person again.
I've become increasingly scared of people who do not truly understand the Black experience, but with that, I've been taking a lot more pride in my Blackness and really find it crucial to seek solidarity with other Black people.
Of course, no amount of introspection and questioning of anti-Black conditioning can ever make a non-Black person truly understand the Black experience and why it can be so damn important for us to be understood by other Black people, especially in a deeply intimate setting.
Intersectionality makes it even more rough. My relationship with this person wasn't just a Black relationship—it was a queer Black relationship, and that makes it hit hard. That level of understanding and connection is so valuable.
When I'm ready (which I will consider myself once I finally achieve some fucking job stability), I will get out there and try to meet more Black queer people. I don't ever intend on dating another non-Black person ever again.
As far as my non-negotiable values go, I'm gonna play things by ear. Really, what's most important to me is finding a Black queer who has at least these two things in common with me upfront: radical and vegan. The other things? Well, they can be discussed and talked through so I could get an idea of what they think about them, but hell, the thing is that I'm not necessarily just looking for long-term or even specifically romantic, really. Having that connection with another Black queer will be important regardless, and even if they're incompatible with me long-term, I'll definitely value getting to know them.
I'd take being single my whole life over entertaining a romantic relationship with a white person ever again.
Yeah I'm gonna forever use economic anxiety sarcastically as anglo trump fans cheer this madness. I'm sure starting a regional war will magically solve this.
This woman who was a customer at my last job one time saw me in public and asked me where I'm working now. Of course, I wasn't terribly transparent about the whole mess, but I told her that I'm looking for a new position. She gave me her email and told me to list her as a referral when I'm applying for some positions at her own workplace, but unfortunately, even with that, they didn't accept me.
This was a few months ago, but out of the blue, she emailed me today to ask me how things are going. Really good timing because I am feeling more and more dry when it comes to ideas. She said that she'd be willing to see if she can find anything else for me.
I emailed her my resume, and she said she'll get back to me after the weekend.
I don't know what she has in mind, but I'm certainly a bit more confident now. It also helps that she's a Black woman because y'know how jobs are with discrimination.
Nice, Angel.
I threw away the last track I was working on and started fresh on another one.
This one has a happier vibe and opens with a drum solo!
I realized the last one wasn't working so well for me because I tried to structure it around a concept I previously developed. I'm far more vibes-based in how I write music than one might think, so when I try to stick to a certain concept instead of just letting the heart do what it does, I find it goes worse for me.
This is track #8 out of 9. After I finish this, the last track I'll work on for the debut will be a shorter one (likely no more than 3 minutes). I will focus more on structuring vocal arrangements and lyrics next.
Edit: Also, unlike many other things I've written, what I got so far here is entirely in 4/4. Shocking, I know.
i swear us americans treat travelling to different countries like going to another planet. a lot of "travel guides" especially to asian countries are lowkey racist and chauvinstic as fuck in a way i cant express clearly enough.
90 Day Fiancée I'm convinced exists solely to make my blood boil. I've only seen clips of it and it makes me want to slap the shit out of those scumbags.
All the anti-ICE protests kicking off give me some hope if I'm being real. Seeing libs go "noo we have to this peacefully" please go get your head broken by the police and the national guard then. As always it's on the oppressed to be peaceful as the gestapo marches in 🙄
The masses have been in the streets more frequently in the past 20 years and it'll only get more frequent. I have no more room for fake pacifist and incrementalism.
There's nothing left to explain, I don't need to tell white people anything anymore, there's genocides going on supported by their governments, it's so obvious and so clear, you're an enemy if you don't recognize it.
I don't know how many times I gotta say it, but something white leftists just can't seem to get:
I'm Black before anything else.
Black liberation is 75% of my politics
Sometimes you really do know some on here are too online, western(ized) and propagandized. It becomes immediately obvious through their mannerisms and speech patterns. Especially when it comes to anti-imperialist actors internationally.
I would like to type so much - but I know it won’t help so I am exhibiting some self-control.
one of the accounts that has been rising since the protests in LA is this Mexican chud that think only the anglos are capable of settler colonialism
evidence even latinos are capable of having brain worms
White "leftists" be like, "No need to try to unlearn my white supremacist conditioning if I just act like POC don't exist!"
White people when my freeform dreadlocks were in the earliest phases: "Have you considered combing your nappy ass hair?"
White people when my freeform dreadlocks are longer and mature: "OMG, WAOW. SO COOL! IT'S LIKE BOB MARLEY! THAT'S SO EXOTIC! OMG!"
I swear to fucking God.
I am back to restricting myself to c/em_poc and c/mutual_aid, and this time, I intend it to be permanent.
I can't post an innocuous thread without having issues, and truthfully, I've been feeling a vibe to quit Hexbear entirely, but I still need support from c/mutual_aid, and even once I get more stability (whenever the fuck that'll happen), I want to support users there as well. However, after I hang for some time (I don't know how long) after having employment and financial stability and whatnot, I will delete my account and possibly stop using this site entirely.
It will never get fixed. I might, at the very least, remain on an alt to post on this comm again—I don't know, but there's no hope.
I know @CommunistCuddlefish@hexbear.net said she'd miss my posts, and I'm sorry, but I'm glad you seem able to understand.
Through all the bullshit I've gone through since I first started using this site, thanks for being there for me, all you beautiful EMPOC comrades.
That poster was being ridiculous. Sorry you won't be posting as much, but I'm even sorrier you suffer so much when asses like that pop up. Do what you need to for your comfort <3
Tupac: I see no changes, the black community systematically oppressess Black people to sell and die in the streets to survive capitalism
Some white journalist named chuck: this song is a beautiful epitaph about the Black on Black crime that led to the creator's demise.
Time moves fast and all that but I forgot how strong the casual racism of Black folk was in the 90s-2010s born from miss characterization and stereotypes. Because how do you hear tupacs "changes" and only take away "Black on Black" crime
casual racism of Black folk was in the 90s-2010s born from miss characterization and stereotypes.
I just saw an RPG book where it listed all the different Europeans during the Scramble for Africa, while actual Africans were categorized as "West African," "Southern African," and (I shit you not) "feral," etc. Zulu? Tutsi? Somali? Hahaha ha nope! Why do any actual research into the second largest continent in the world with hundreds of languages and cultures when you can just stereotype everything and focus on European colonizers?
Book was written in 2000.
I am very bias, please convince me that I'm wrong. So, I can't view Vietnam veterans as heroes. They came to conquer, to massacre, and left behind starving pregnant women. Then they made a musical to romanticise that, justified the passport bro movement and returned to the land they had hurt to marry young, uneducated women who didn't speak their language. I can't take them seriously when they condemn the Red Army for invading Eastern European countries that were under fascist occupation. I can't take them seriously when they vote against giving funds to agent orange cleanup and anything progressive. Why should any American veterans be considered heroes when the US started every other war they fought themselves anyway?
Always thinking back to the fact that someone who I'm on good terms with and still talk to these days posted this on social media:
CW: Whte Lberal Being a Whte Lberal
"Genuine anti-racism doesn't make exceptions. If your anti-racism includes demonizing white people, it's not anti-racism. It's just racism."
It's just racism.
Systemic oppression of Whitey is a good thing, actually, and I'm tired of pretending it wouldn't be fucking awesome.
I'm just starting to tell those crackers that there is indeed anti-White racism and I openly espouse it. There was a meme about that but I can't find it.
We're not going to get some of them on board so I don't care anymore.
fucking hate libs. ''peaceful protesting'' is fine but the moment violence is used, that's too far. ICE deports people FFS.
It really shows where their loyalties are. It's always on us to not be violent or confrontational. It's never the responsibility of racists to not be racist. I've had to deal with this a lot in my personal life with crackers letting other crackers say awful shit, but then when I argue with them about it I "ruined the holiday for everyone." Just shows how ingrained white supremacy is in the minds of white people.
Happy Juneteenth nerds
A bit late, but Happy Juneteenth.
Hate how every other post is like RACIST RIGHTWINGER SAYS MILDLY CORRECT THING, GOTTA HAND IT TO ‘EM
Happy Juneteenth!
The freeform dreadlocks keep getting more and more no cap
discussion on Iran be like: "I will literally make up random unsourced claims and if you disagree with you're either ignorant or you do that stuff"
So, happy Juneteenth. Hope y'all well.
Frijoles y arroz con repollo till I die fr. I think one day even when I make it I'm gonna stick to these classics. Been eating this for weeks on end, gotta say got a real chance of living better still gotta finish this course and get my EPA 608 license. It's everything my parents ever hoped for for me, a good job and future. Powering through sickness and apathy for something better, once I make it I'll be able to pull up the rest of my family I hope.
Remember, you kicked the colonizers jaws, it didn't stop wanting to eat you