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Applying to a couple jobs and like, they didn't even give the option of "is this your legal name?" Or "are you trans?" In the affirmative action portion. Just "male or female?"
What they did put was "by signing this you give us permission to verify this information."
And none of the places except for my current employer have known me by my current name, but I haven't legally changed it yet so...
Gosh there are multiple big things going on this summer now (and am in the process of planning), and it's just really exciting! Not to mention I'll be starting progesterone in a few weeks, and the weather's been getting warmer, which can be nice, but can also means the sun is baking me sometimes. It really feels like summer is already here... but it's not
The semester isn't over, I still have work to do, and I may have forgotten to take my meds today and am struggling to focus. Whoops! I should probably make sure I get my work done so that I can do the things I want to do.
hi meredith
what a cutie, i'm sorry you lost her so early.
I can't simply state "I like men" and I don't know why. It's true, but I always feel like if I state it I have to go on the defensive and justify myself somehow even though I just... don't?
I like girls too. fucking love them.
. I can say that confidently and without hesitance
but if I say I like men then I get super hesitant. my hand reaches for the back of my head and I feel... awkward? idk. I guess all my trans friends are transbians and I feel kind of out of place when I say "but men tho". but i'm on hexbear now and i still feel awkward talking about it? ugh
Are there any good trans resources on hair?
Like how to care for it, style it, choose a look etc.
Feel kind of lost.
Sure sex is probably cool but you know what's better, getting a full nights sleep with minimal piss/water breaks
Woohoo hamster mega!
Meredith sounds lovely. I'm glad she had someone that cared for her so much
just got my day one chip from bedwetters anonymous :)
Omg pee pee girl is back! Glad to see you going back to your roots ๐
Feeling tired and gross today
The real op avatar element we never got because Nickelodeon is cowards is piss bending, sure you think you're tough but what you gonna do when someone bends the piss out of you
Focaccia bread with latke baked in
I got ma'am-ed in public for the first time ever, by someone selling me noodles.
Ma'am/sir is somewhat less common in Australia, but still present.
I was wearing high waisted baggy jeans, converse high tops and a light sweater over a padded sports bra. Long hair in a messy pony tail. I have pretty good breast growth for only 3-4 mths HRT.
Honestly it kind of stunlocked me in a good way.
RIP Meredith
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Sorry I hate doing this at the start of a new mega but it hurts bad right now and none of my other ideas are great either
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Eggy,
It may not seem like it, but you're moving forward. Even when you're posting like this, it's not as bad as the things you used to say about yourself. I've also seen you being more social and casual outside of the mega more often. It may be hard for you to see progress, but I see it.
Based on our chat in the last thread, I think you're taking the right steps. I too want your pain to disappear immediately, but we can only offer you kind words here. I'm thinking of other things that might benefit you.
Do you still meet with your therapist? Have you two discussed medication like antidepressants? Do you have any experience with them? I know some people here can attest to how helpful they are.
Does your therapist know the extent of your pain? That you're having SI daily? What's the suggested course of action?
Sorry if you feel I'm prying or condescending, but I'm trying to understand your options.
envy
Saw my friend today, all dressed up. She looked great. I don't even know how to describe what she was wearing but it looked nice. I wish I was her.
Only partially related but I wish I could cry.