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[–] surph_ninja@lemmy.world 17 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Witnessing people you believe to be moral now supporting genocide will create strange inconsistencies like that.

[–] sunzu2@thebrainbin.org 4 points 3 days ago

It is not a genocide if god's chosen people do it!

[–] girlthing@lemmy.blahaj.zone 9 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

Good! In a culture that worships cops and "thought leaders", this is two steps up from meekly accepting whatever powerful people say.

Now it's time for:
(3) Acting on your ethical convictions towards specific goals, and learning to work with people who share them, even when their motivations or values are different.

P.S. As others here have stated, (1) and (2) are not contradictory. If morality is constructed, then we all construct our own. Unless you actually WANT to be an amoral bastard.

[–] Rhoeri@lemmy.world 41 points 4 days ago (3 children)

What’s even funnier- is the amount of people in the comments here that perfectly illustrate the humor in the post without even understanding why.

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[–] HawlSera@lemm.ee 8 points 3 days ago (1 children)

I believe the only objective morality is that you must act without intent to harm others unless it is in self-defense.

[–] Apytele@sh.itjust.works 8 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (2 children)

How far in advance are you allowed to act in self defense? If you all but know they're leaving the room to go get a gun out of the next room can you strike while their back is turned as they leave? What if it's the neighbor who thinks you banged his wife and he's going next door to get the gun? For most people there's probably a distance at which the answer becomes "call the cops" but that distance probably gets a lot farther if the guy you think is about to shoot you is the sheriff's brother. And what if you're less sure? What if the person is clearly unhinged but it feels like a coinflip as to whether or not they're about to try to murder you?

What about on a wider societal level? If you think a group of people is marshalling to attack you or the wider society can you attack first? Do you arrest them or even have the police violently disrupt their gatherings? Do you become a terrorist and commit an act of mass violence in the hopes that it will prevent them from attacking you or another group you consider vulnerable?

That raises the other question of whether it's acceptable to defend others, but for the sake of simplicity it sounds like you're not in favor of getting in the middle of other people's fights which is fair, but do your kids fights count as your fights? Is there an age limit on that?

None of those questions necessarily apply to any particular ideology but I can think of a few ways people might and often actually have used these concepts in ways both favoring and disfavoring my own personal convictions.

[–] cows_are_underrated@feddit.org 5 points 3 days ago (1 children)

And now you successfully turned a simple statement into one hell of a philophical exam.

[–] Apytele@sh.itjust.works 3 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

A few years ago a coworker asked what thing is seen as normal now that's going to be looked back on in 100 years as completely barbaric and I was like seriously? We're acute inpatient psych nurses who have to force people to take medications, often by physically holding them down and injecting them. We're doing the best we can, and I actually got into this field because I was that patient (my first restraint incident was my own) and I like to think I'm part of working towards that better future but holy shit does it suck right now.

Even if you skip over the psychiatric emergencies volatile enough to warrant emergency meds there's so much more awful shit that I don't have any good alternatives to. I have to see every person's full skin including removing their pants on admission. I'm as tactful as I can be, I try to make sure the staff members are the same gender (although usually the men don't mind the nurses all being female). I try to provide as much modesty and dignity as I can, but in the end I can't tell just by looking which ones have a knife taped to their leg until their pants are actually off. One person actually had an entire loaded gun that the ED somehow missed. I don't make them squat and cough or put my fingers in any orifices but it still traumatizes the depressed college students who think we're gonna heal them instead of just prevent them from dying for three days while we make sure it's safe for them to take the sedatives they're gonna need for the weeks or even months until they can see an outpatient psych or therapist who will do the actual helping.

Life is horrible. We do the best we can. I've decided my meaning of life is to reduce suffering. I don't work in an environment that's conducive to that but I also don't have a whole lot of better options. There are places that are kinder but they're not designed to handle the really hard cases and a certain amount of those will always exist. At least the more time I spend trying the better idea I have of what actions I can take that will actually reduce suffering (although luck remains a significant factor) and sometimes I even succeed!

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[–] whotookkarl@lemmy.world 139 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (8 children)

Even if all morality is subjective or inter-subjective I have some very strong opinions about tabs vs spaces

[–] themeatbridge@lemmy.world 50 points 5 days ago (10 children)

Morality is, and always has been, built entirely upon empathy. Understanding how someone else feels and considering the greater implications beyond yourself is the fundamental building block to living a moral life. If you're willing to condemn the world to your shitty code just because the tab key is quicker, you're a selfish monster who deserves hyponichial splinters. See also: double spaces after a period.

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[–] fishos@lemmy.world 5 points 3 days ago (1 children)

For the people not getting it:

  1. They treat morals as opinions.

  2. They also treat their personal opinions like they're the absolute best opinion.

Another way:

They think everyone likes different ice cream flavors and that's fine. They like Rocky Road flavor. They also think anyone who doesn't is a monster.

Convictions are one thing. But they need to be logically consistent. Saying morality is subjective but you're evil if you don't subscribe to my personal version is illogical.

[–] taxiiiii@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Let's say we decide that ~~morals~~ what is right and wrong is decided entirely by ourselves. Then it makes perfect sense to defend your own opinions and to disagree with people who disagree with your stance on right and wrong. You chose those morals after all. It's kinda part of the deal that they can't apply to you alone (example: when is it just to kill?)

So I don't see a contradiction.

I guess this post is about Inability to engage with a different set of morals. But assuming that their is an absolute truth for right and wrong wouldn't solve that issue, so I'm not sure why they brought it up.

[–] fishos@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

The issue is believing that everyone has a right to their beliefs but then attacking them. It's like in cultural anthropology: you should only judge a culture by its own internal morals and standards and not impose your outside view when studying them. Kinda like Star Trek Prime Directive.

If you TRULY believe everyone is entitled to their own morals, then you're breaking that when you criticize someone else's. After all, they have their own morals system and you're perfectly fine with that. Your morals can only include your actions. If you believe that your morals are objectively the best, you're no longer thinking the first thing anymore. It's subjectivism vs objectivism.

[–] rowrowrowyourboat@sh.itjust.works 105 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Yeah, that's because moral relativism is cool when you live in a free and decent society.

The irony is that you can afford to debate morality when society is moral and you're not facing an onslaught of inhumanity in the form of fascism and unchecked greed that's threatening any hope for a future.

But when shit hits the fan, morality becomes pretty fucking clear. And that's what's happening right now. Philosophical debates about morality are out the window when you're facing an existential threat.

[–] fluffykittycat@slrpnk.net 28 points 4 days ago (6 children)

They used to be the case that just calling your political opponents evil was oversimplifying. But these days? They literally are just evil in the most cruel ways imaginable to the point where there's nothing to debate, and people who do so are doing so in bad faith most of the time. I think that's another dimension of the situation, a poorly moderate websites like Twitter make it so that people are constantly in a hostile environment where good faith cannot be assumed so you have to learn to operate in that kind of environment

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[–] MehBlah@lemmy.world 4 points 2 days ago

Now that is funny. Its funny because its true.

[–] Anamnesis@lemmy.world 49 points 4 days ago (7 children)

Hah! Cool to see Henry pop up on my feed. I knew this guy back when he was a grad student. And as somebody that also teaches ethics, he is dead on. Undergrads are not only believe all morality is relative and that this is necessary for tolerance and pluralism (it's not), but are also insanely judgmental if something contradicts their basic sense of morality.

Turns out, ordinary people's metaethics are highly irrational.

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[–] Septimaeus@infosec.pub 35 points 4 days ago (3 children)

I see no paradox here. Yes, the rubrics change over time, making morality relative, but the motivation (empathy) remains constant, meaning you can evaluate morality in absolute terms.

A simple analog can be found in chess, an old game that’s fairly well-defined and well-understood compared to ethics. Beginners in chess are sometimes confused when they hear masters evaluate moves using absolute terms — e.g. “this move is more accurate than that move.

Doesn’t that suggest a known optimum — i.e., the most accurate move? Of course it does, but we can’t actually know for sure what move is best until the game is near its end, because finding it is hard. Otherwise the “most accurate” move is never anything more than an educated guess made by the winningest minds/software of the day.

As a result, modern analysis is especially good at picking apart historic games, because it’s only after seeing the better move that we can understand the weaknesses of the one we once thought was best.

Ethical absolutism is similarly retrospective. Every paradigm ever proposed has flaws, but we absolutely can evaluate all of them comparatively by how well their outcomes express empathy. Let the kids cook.

[–] Donkter@lemmy.world 16 points 4 days ago

To add to this, morality can be entirely subjective, but yeah, of course if I see someone kicking puppies in the street I'll think: "That's intrinsically morally wrong." Before I try to play in the space of "there's no true morality and their perspective is as valid as mine."

If my subjective morality says that slavery is wrong, I don't care what yours says. If you try to keep slaves in the society I live in as well I want you kicked out and ostracized.

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[–] Yerbouti@sh.itjust.works 55 points 5 days ago (7 children)

I've been a College and University prof for the past 6 years. I'm in my young 40s, and I just don't understand most of the people in their 20s. I get that we grew up in really different times, but I wouldn't have thought there would be such a big clash between them and me. I teach about sound and music, and I simply cannot catch the interest of most of them, no matter what I try. To the point were I'm no sure I want to keep doing this. Maybe I'm already too old school for them but I wonder who will want to teach anymore....

[–] formulaBonk@lemm.ee 59 points 4 days ago (14 children)

That is the same sentiment my music teacher had 15 years ago and the same sentiment his music teacher did before that. I don’t think it’s illustrating the times as much as just that teaching is a tough and thankless job and most people aren’t interested in learning

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[–] JackbyDev@programming.dev 21 points 4 days ago (13 children)

I don't see the problem. One can have unshakeable moral values they believe everyone should have while acknowledging those values may be a product of their upbringing and others' lack of them the same.

[–] JacksonLamb@lemmy.world 6 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (2 children)

I think you're missing the significance of his phrase "entirely relative".

In moral philosophy, cultural relativity holds that morals are not good or bad in themselves but only within their particular context. Strong moral relativists would hold the belief that it's fine to murder children if that is a normal part of your culture.

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[–] shalafi@lemmy.world 30 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (9 children)

I've had people, presumably young, argue with me on here about politics and morals. For example, I say the right to abortion is a political issue. Been screamed out that it's not a political issue because a woman's right to an abortion is a moral issue. Yeah, I agree, but the argument is still political. Some believe abortion is murder and that they're right. That's politics.

It's like they have no sense that other views exist, and opposing views do not constitute politics. "I'm on the right side of this thing so it's not politics!" As if I'm somehow lowering the debate to mere... something?

That was one of the first things I got confused by on lemmy. Am I making sense? Just crawled in from work and I'm wasted tired.

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[–] Triasha@lemmy.world 5 points 3 days ago

Subjective morality is self evidently true, but that gives us no information about how to live our lives, so we must live as if absolute morality is true.

We only have our own perspective. Someone else's subjective morality is meaningless to us, we aren't them.

[–] dudinax@programming.dev 22 points 4 days ago (4 children)

Kids thinking anything goes while also being incredibly close-minded is not new.

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[–] Allonzee@lemmy.world 32 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (18 children)

Morality is subjective. Ethics are an attempt to quanitify/codify popular/common moral beliefs.

Even "murder is wrong" is not a moral absolute. I consider it highly immoral to deny murder to someone in pain begging for another person like a physician to murder them painlessly simply because of a dogmatic "murder is wrong" stance.

[–] Senal@slrpnk.net 35 points 4 days ago (4 children)

i consider this specific example to also be an issue of language, which is in itself a construct.

Murder as a word has meaning based in law, which is another construct.

If you were to switch out "murder" for "killing" the outcome remains the same (cessation of life by another party) but the ethical and moral connotations are different.

Some people use murder when they mean killing and vice versa which adds a layer of complexity and confusion.

Though all of that could just be me venturing into pedant country.

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[–] Batman@lemmy.world 6 points 3 days ago

Everything in moderating or something. I'm not an ear doctor

[–] thesohoriots@lemmy.world 31 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Parallel: Teaching contemporary American literature to undergrads in 2019 was utterly bizarre because they hadn’t lived through 9/11. So much stuff went over their heads. There’s just a disconnect you’re always going to have because of lived experience and cultural changes. It’s your job, especially in a philosophy course, to orient them to differing schools of thought and go “oh, I didn’t think about it that way.” And correct them on Nietzsche, because they’re always fucking wrong about Nietzsche.

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[–] Oni_eyes@sh.itjust.works 35 points 5 days ago (8 children)

Can both points not be true? There will be local morals and social morals that differ from place to place with overarching morals that tend to be everywhere.

Not all morals or beliefs have to be unshakable or viewed as morally reprehensible for disagreement.

Unless they mean all their ethics are held that way in which case that's just the whole asshole in a different deck chair joke.

[–] The_Picard_Maneuver@lemmy.world 47 points 5 days ago (6 children)

I'm sure both are true for some people, but I think the irony he's pointing out is that this belief system recognizes that every individual/culture has different morals, while simultaneously treating individual/cultural differences as reprehensible.

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[–] tuckerm@feddit.online 20 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (10 children)

Honestly, those two points don't seem incompatible to me. For example:

Teaching the history of fashion to undergrads in 1985 is bizarre because:

  1. They insist that standards of dress are entirely relative. Being dressed decently is a cultural construct; some cultures wear hardly any clothing whatsoever and being nude is a completely normal, default way of presenting yourself.
  2. And yet when I walk into class with my dick and balls hanging out, they all get extremely offended and the coeds threaten to call the police.

(And yes I changed the year because I'm sick of so many of these issues being brought up as though "the kids these days" are the problem, when so often these are issues that have been around LITERALLY FOREVER.)

I'm not trying to dunk on this Henry Shelvin guy -- I'm certain that he knows a lot more about philosophy than me, and has more interesting thoughts about morals than I do. And I'm also not going to judge someone based on a tweet...aside from the obvious judgement that they are using Twitter, lol. But as far as takes go, this one kinda sucks.

*edit: I'll add that I hope this professor is taking this opportunity to explain what the difference is between morals being relative vs being subjective, which is an issue that has come up in this very thread. Especially since I bet a lot of his students have only heard the term "moral relativism" being used by religious conservatives who accuse you of being a moral relativist because you don't live by the Bible. I know that was definitely the case for me.

[–] SkyeStarfall@lemmy.blahaj.zone 21 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (1 children)

No, that is not the direct equivalence. The direct equivalence for 2. Would be something like

"But then they insist that being naked is never acceptable and is grotesque, and anyone that disagrees is a gross pervert"

That's where the inconsistency comes from

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[–] gandalf_der_12te@discuss.tchncs.de 24 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

post-structuralism has done a lot to attack the basic idea that something like "right" and "wrong" even exist in the first place, outside of the mind of the observer.

I'm kinda pissed about that btw.

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