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What would be the acceptability of this in your workplace? For context, which country and industry are you in?

I guess I'm mainly thinking about professional jobs, but interested to hear from. I think in France it would be quite common to have a glass of wine, even at a work canteen or so. But in the UK it seems like people would think that was a problem, and in a lot of cases you'd be in violation of something at work.

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[–] skankhunt42@lemmy.ca 41 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Canadian IT worker.

I refuse to drink at work parties. Everyone else does and I get some peer pressure to drink but I don't care. Its normal to see people get super drunk and embarrass themselves which is why I don't even start.

Specifically at lunch, if I'm not driving and others are having a beer I will but only one. If I'm driving, it depends on how I'm feeling.

Working from home I've been known to have a beer or two on a Friday afternoon by my self.

When I left my last job we had a meeting at the end of the day with the guys I got along with and anyone they wanted to invite. There was about 15 people from different departments with their cameras on having a drink or smoking (pot) if they didn't drink as a goodbye. Was a nice goodbye. Lol

[–] CheeseToastie@lazysoci.al 12 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I don't drink but if I did I'd never drink at a work social. I leave work socials early to avoid any drunkenness because there are 535356 ways it can go wrong.

[–] BCsven@lemmy.ca 5 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Way 535354: coworker gets really drunk, as does the owners wife. Coworker later fired for sleeping with owners wife. Like that you mean?

[–] CheeseToastie@lazysoci.al 5 points 1 week ago

Haha yep that's on the list

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[–] tetris11@lemmy.ml 24 points 1 week ago (1 children)

UK/Astronaut

We take a fifth of gin everytime our home country whizzes by, so that's a full glass over the entire workday, and it tends to make the job go faster.

[–] rayquetzalcoatl@lemmy.world 5 points 1 week ago (1 children)

You drink in space??? What kind of gin? What's being drunk in zero g like? I'm gonna vomit just at the thought of a space hangover mate

[–] tetris11@lemmy.ml 7 points 1 week ago (5 children)

Hell yeah, spirits only though since no one's yet found a 'medicinal' reason to bring beer along. I like a bit of Hayman slo gin, we've got some Schadlerer schnapps, and plenty of clear bottles.

Being drunk's pretty much the same but it hits you way faster and passes quicker too, hence why you only do a little bit at a time. No one's vommed yet, but got plenty of towels around for other reasons just in case

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[–] Sequentialsilence@lemmy.world 23 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Part of my job involves operate hoists that are lifting several tonnes over the general public. Anything that is even impairment adjacent, like being tired, will get you removed from that position. If you are actually impaired you’re fired no questions.

[–] CalipherJones@lemmy.world 11 points 1 week ago

Almost was crushed cause of a rigger πŸ‘πŸΌ. I'd never work with a drunk one.

[–] ceenote@lemmy.world 22 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

US/Engineer

At my first job, a fairly large firm with a few hundred people, I remember the furtive glances around the table as everyone didn't want to be the first one to order a beer. Once a single person ordered one, several others would too. The boss was fine with it, but nobody did it in front of the boss's boss. We never had more than one, though.

At my second job, a small, new company with 12ish people, it was pretty common. Sometimes someone would bring a six pack to share into the office on a Friday afternoon. Usually, the owners would join in.

At my current job in the public sector, the culture just isn't there. Nobody drinks at all during work hours. I don't drink as much anymore, anyway.

[–] pdqcp@lemmy.dbzer0.com 19 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Work from home, drink as much as I like

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[–] sasquash@sopuli.xyz 18 points 1 week ago

Switzerland, IT

Depends on the team. It's not that uncommon in some occasions, for example on a friday, to have a beer when eating lunch in a restaurant.

Very common is the "Apero"-culture. Small festivities after work to celebrate something. Snacks, beer and wine are part of it. Sometimes this can also be during the day and people will continue to work after.

[–] pr06lefs@lemmy.ml 16 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I went back to work once (programming) after a couple of beers at the bar. Turns out not a job I can do while drinking.

[–] Botzo@lemmy.world 23 points 1 week ago

Bartender. I don't get a lunch break so I just drink on the clock.

[–] yngmnwntr@lemmy.ml 15 points 1 week ago

I am a winemaker in the Pacific Northwest. I sample wines a lot throughout the day but mostly I spit, I still catch a bit of a buzz sometimes though. Sometimes during harvest when we're working long days outside I'll have a beer or two. We celebrate the start and end of harvest with champagne. When I work wine tasting events I look forward to trying wines from other local wineries, I usually have a fair number of tastes throughout the event. I think I actually drink more at work than I do at home.

[–] Berttheduck@lemmy.ml 15 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I work in healthcare in the UK. I don't even drink on week nights let alone over lunch. I agree over here drinking at lunch would probably be seen as a problem.

I think a big part of that is the UK binge drink culture. Most people over here drink a lot in one go to get drunk as the goal.

[–] CheeseToastie@lazysoci.al 3 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Off topic but your name is amazing

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[–] cituskai@lemmy.ca 14 points 1 week ago

I see no problem with a single drink at lunch, specially with your team. It helps you relax and build rapport imo.

At my previous job, my manager would take our 5-6 people team out for lunch and a beer for anyone's birthday and at the end of the year. I miss that.

My current job doesn't allow it, so going out for lunch with co workers is a little more stiff, and so is my relationship with my manager.

Last christmas I had to work during the break with only 1 co-worker, we snuck out and had pizza with a berr. It was great.

[–] Bieren@lemmy.world 14 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] kersploosh@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 week ago (2 children)

After all, you can't drink all day if you don't start in the morning.

[–] cone_zombie@lemmy.ml 5 points 1 week ago (1 children)

You can't start drinking if you never stop

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[–] Bieren@lemmy.world 3 points 1 week ago

Cant agree more.

[–] philluminati@lemmy.ml 14 points 1 week ago

UK IT dev here. When I started working in the field back in 2000ish it was perfectly fine for IT staff to pop to the pub. Did for many years. Then in my 20s it became normal to have drinks after work rather than during work. Then when marriage etc came along, it became neither.

[–] Kit@lemmy.blahaj.zone 12 points 1 week ago

Sure, if I'm meeting a vendor for lunch it would be normal. If I'm just sitting at my desk working through lunch like I typically do, it would be really strange to have a drink and I'd probably be reprimanded.

USA, IT worker

[–] P00ptart@lemmy.world 11 points 1 week ago

I work in manufacturing in America. There's NO FUCKING WAY. You'd be fired immediately if caught. I don't even think the union would try to back you up. It's simply too dangerous of an environment. However, reeking of booze from the night before? Apparently totally fine.

[–] GreyShuck@feddit.uk 11 points 1 week ago

I'm in the UK. I worked at a couple of places in the '90s - sysadmin and IT trainer - where this was considered perfectly acceptable at the time, but I definitely wouldn't now. I'm no longer in IT at all, but I don't think that it is seen as acceptable very widely anywhere now.

US IT. They provide us with drinks at lunch anytime there’s a company wide meeting.

When I worked in kitchens and bars? Regularly

Now, driving a forklift and using a nail gun every day.. I’ll wait till I get home

[–] Canopyflyer@lemmy.world 9 points 1 week ago

Used to work for a company that started out as a US startup for IT Services, later it was purchased by a large German company.

During its startup days, you did not dare drink alcohol at lunch time.

After being bought by the German company, you did not dare NOT to drink alcohol at lunch time. Especially if someone from Germany was visiting. They viewed it odd that we had an aversion to drinking beer at lunch.

[–] Nemo@slrpnk.net 7 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Yes, I drink almost exclusively at lunch.

[–] DoubleSpace@lemm.ee 5 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I find a lot of benefits to this schedule too. Mainly, less likely to over indulge, and less impact on sleep quality.

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[–] Ziggurat@jlai.lu 7 points 1 week ago

I worked in 3 different European countries, in both academia and industry,

While not being common, it's not that rare to take a glass of wine or beer when doing a real-restaurant for lunch break at work. At least for people working in office.

[–] UnwrittenProtagonist@lemmyusa.com 7 points 1 week ago (1 children)

In the U.S. this has changed a bit over the years. I believe, based on watching Mad Men, that it used to be super common for people to drink and have alcohol at work, let alone at lunch. A friend of my dad used to take his Playboy subscription at work because he didn't want it to be available to his kids. Try that these days!

In the 90s, I worked at a job were it wasn't uncommon to have a drink with lunch, especially when we were out with our Managing Director.

In the 2000s it was essentially something you'd get fired for.

Now? My current job (IT in the aviation industry) wouldn't allow it but there are apparently a lot of start ups that bring beer around to people's desks on Friday afternoons.

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[–] neidu3@sh.itjust.works 6 points 1 week ago (2 children)

IT related to ships and geophysical surveys.

For larger projects, as long as the heavy duty work is out of the way, grabbing a beer or two with the meal is pretty common.

Related story:
We were mobilizing for a project, and I had a real headscratcher of a problem. Work day was over, and we all headed back to the hotel for the evening. We all met at dinner, and I called it "a night" early as I excused myself after a few beers to head back ip to my room.

Project manager, who knew of the issues I was having with the system said something along the lines of the issues being serious when it caused me to be the first to leave the bar. "Nah, I'm gonna VPN in and try something I just thought of"

Yup, turns out it was abgood idea: Misconfigured soanning tree was the root cause, and the fix took 5 minutes. It was fun rejoining the others and Announce that the system would be ready the next day after some cleanup, and all that was missing was a few beers. The Ballmer Peak is real.

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[–] RoadieRich@midwest.social 6 points 1 week ago

I'm currently in a production support role in the US, and I'd never consider it: I work too closely with production operatives that they'd smell it on me. My last couple of role involved programming automated forklifts, so it was strictly forbidden.

Ten years ago I was doing an internship an engineering firm in the UK, and a few times we went out for a beer with lunch. It wasn't exactly common, but it did happen.

[–] Tolookah@discuss.tchncs.de 6 points 1 week ago

If my boss gets a drink and I want a drink, it's fair game. Otherwise no.

[–] BCsven@lemmy.ca 6 points 1 week ago

Most places have an alcohol restriction on premises. But lunch time is your own time. Bars near the auto plants used to have 30+ beers already opened so the workers could come in slap their money down and get right to drinking at 12:05. I worked at one place where boss bought beer and pizza for the whole company for doing well that week. I think shop guys had 1 beer restrictions, for "safety". Us office guys could have more. 2 beer and pizza makes it hard to stay awake at the computer though.

[–] KittenBiscuits@lemm.ee 6 points 1 week ago

US, audit & tax

Once in a blue moon, on a really nice day, we would get a patio table and have a margarita with lunch. Only if it was a slow work day, like with nothing but webinars scheduled for the afternoon (as attendees, not presenters).

It was not uncommon to see beer in the office fridge during tax season because those folks would be pulling 15+ hour days for pretty much 3 months straight.

[–] OhVenus_Baby@lemmy.ml 5 points 1 week ago

No. Work is giant liability now days.

[–] rayquetzalcoatl@lemmy.world 5 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

I'd regularly have a pint or two (no more than three) with my boss on Wednesday lunchtimes! And, in another workplace, while I was a young'un throwing an almighty tantrum, I spent a month having four double vodkas for lunch most days. Stunned I wasn't fired, honestly. (UK)

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[–] hansolo@lemm.ee 5 points 1 week ago

Depends on what the boss does, but if I'm the most senior person, and especially if it's a conference or lunch meeting with someone I know well, and the itemized bill isn't required for reimbursement, sure thing. Have many times.

Some older companies have policies in place that define appropriate circumstances under which staff can have 1 drink during duty hours and it not be an actionable offense.

[–] criticon@lemmy.ca 5 points 1 week ago

In my previous job I had to travel very often to customer's sites or or other offices

The ones in Germany drank regularly during lunch time. I never felt comfortable to do it since my job was very technical. In one office they even had a fridge full of beers and wines that you could grab freely. I never saw anybody drinking at the office tho

I personally don't drink, but my team is all WFH, so I don't doubt at all that there are some that have a beer or two with lunch. Or a glass of wine.

When we have in person events, there's a pretty strict no drinking culture, but once the event is over, usually people will shuffle off to the nearest pub or bar or we've done a board game cafe with booze before.

[–] Appoxo@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 1 week ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

Don't drink.
Sometimes the colleagues crack open a cold one near the end on a Friday or we chill in an office corner as a sort of after-work "party"

[–] some_guy@lemmy.sdf.org 3 points 1 week ago

I had a bottle of hot saki at a restaurant that we walked to last month.

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