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[–] Charlatan@lemm.ee 1 points 2 hours ago* (last edited 2 hours ago)

If this implies success in that field, I would choose financial investing.

Using a bit of those funds, I could go learn and become an expert in many fields and enjoy each one. If your not learnin' you're dyin'

[–] Kolanaki@yiffit.net 2 points 10 hours ago* (last edited 10 hours ago) (1 children)

Computer science/programming. So I could hack the planet.

[–] GrumpyDuckling@sh.itjust.works 2 points 2 hours ago

It's going to be really slow since it only has one core

[–] inv3r5ion@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

Counting cards at a casino

[–] Sir_Kevin@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

You would be disappointed to discover that they watch for this and will ask you to leave if they suspect anything.

[–] inv3r5ion@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 6 hours ago

Oh I know, but I’d get so good I’d somehow go undetected. Just let me fantasize! Lol

Then like asking a genie to grant me more wishes I’d take the money and become an expert in something else lol and it be a never ending wish scheme.

[–] Free_Opinions@feddit.uk 3 points 14 hours ago

Probably carpentry. It's highly relevant to what I do for a living. I have the tools and the physical abilities but there are big holes in my know-how

[–] GrumpyDuckling@sh.itjust.works 3 points 14 hours ago

Public speaking. You could get a lot of stuff done and fixed if you can convince people to do it. Doesn't matter how good or smart you are if you can't convince other people.

[–] 667@lemmy.radio 7 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

Surgery.

Why? Because I’m a surgeon.

[–] Allero@lemmy.today 2 points 14 hours ago* (last edited 14 hours ago)

Now that sounds scar(r)y

[–] rikudou@lemmings.world 7 points 18 hours ago

Physics, all of it. It's such an interesting fields and I'd love to understand all the new discoveries without an article dumbing it down for me.

[–] stray@pawb.social 2 points 14 hours ago* (last edited 10 hours ago)

This question made me realize that I could become an expert in anything I wanted at any time; there is nothing stopping me. I guess I'm just not interested.

Survivalist knowledge would be practical in emergency situations. You'd get things like first aid, nutrition, self-defense... Seems pretty broadly applicable.

e: Thought of something. I want to be an expert assassin. Really top grade action movie shit so I can kill whoever I want while maintaining safety, secrecy, and connections.

[–] MelonYellow@lemmy.ca 8 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

Languages definitely. I want to be able to pick up new languages with ease

[–] UniversalMonk@lemmy.kya.moe 2 points 5 hours ago* (last edited 5 hours ago)

Good one. I'm studying Esperanto right now, because I watched a TedTalks vid where they said learning Esperanto (because it's fairly easy to learn) teaches your brain to be bilingual. And that in turn, makes it much easier to start learning other languages.

Dankon, amiko!

[–] hihi24522@lemm.ee 2 points 15 hours ago

Mechanical Engineering. Firstly because I am already studying it, but it’s also a super broad field, so if I’m an expert in all of it, I’ve just become an expert in like a dozen different fields.

Aerospace, biomedical, materials science, robotics, mechatronics, fluid dynamics, dynamic systems & controls, nuclear energy and all the other energy production types like fusion, even some branches in quantum computing and weird physics like Alcubierre drives.

Sure maybe it’s limited to the extent of where those fields are now, but I basically just became an expert in all of human technology.

[–] uhmbah@lemmy.ca 2 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

Survivalist. Because, headlines.

[–] UniversalMonk@lemmy.kya.moe 1 points 5 hours ago

Good choice!

[–] ZDL@ttrpg.network 3 points 18 hours ago

Music. Specifically woodwinds. Because I like them.

[–] Xed@lemm.ee 2 points 16 hours ago

Maybe competitive fighting video games for fun. My job doesn’t really let me focus on video games

[–] Sergio@slrpnk.net 2 points 16 hours ago

Judo. bc it's freakin' cool, but I'm at an age where just doing the warm-up drills are too much for me.

[–] tal@lemmy.today 5 points 21 hours ago

An existing field?

I mean, if not, I think that it'd be a pretty easy call to be one that nobody is in, preferably one from the future -- now you have access to a bunch of unique and thus highly-valuable knowledge.

[–] inlandempire@jlai.lu 5 points 21 hours ago* (last edited 21 hours ago) (1 children)

I want to be a renaissance painter

Don't monkey pawn me

[–] ocean@lemmy.selfhostcat.com 3 points 19 hours ago

You’re burned at the stake by the church for your weird handheld light devicd

[–] ocean@lemmy.selfhostcat.com 3 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

Japanese. It’s the one language that I need the most that I suck at learning. It just doesn’t make sense unlike Chinese. I have learned it for a while but it’s constantly flowing away from me.

[–] stray@pawb.social 5 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

You might look up synthetic vs analytic languages and see if that doesn't shed some light for you. I think most people who don't natively speak very synthetic languages have a hard time with it in second languages.

[–] ocean@lemmy.selfhostcat.com 4 points 14 hours ago

Makes sense why English, Chinese, and even Vietnamese make sense to me but Japanese doesn’t.

Yeah it really messes with me

[–] UniversalMonk@lemmy.kya.moe 4 points 21 hours ago

For me: Planetary science. We are making space discoveries every day. It'd be so cool to be in that room when that information comes across the computers and everyone discusses what the new discovery means.

[–] Hossenfeffer@feddit.uk 3 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

I choose the skill of being able to open any food packaging (bacon, I'm specifically looking at you, here) quickly and easily without tools, weapons, or heavy machinery.

[–] UniversalMonk@lemmy.kya.moe 1 points 5 hours ago

Now that you mention it, I need this skill as well!