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Some of the more prolific posters here comment on seemingly everything. It might be intimidating for if you're just starting out and/or have more narrow interests. But I promise you, if you make your own posts, people will respond well. Did something happen in your day? What game are you playing? What are you reading? Is there any drama in your family.
I'm probably 3x your age, but you're welcome to dm me with stuff.
The only games I play are the Fallout and Bioshock Series, I read Fairytales and books about Accounting, and I mostly watch random movies on Tubi.
What's your favourite Fallout game?
(it's New Vegas)
~Just~ ~guessing~
New Vegas
Hexbear is a non Bethesda fallout game fansite
fallout has a presence on lemmy; but be aware that those communities are in other instances and most instances are filled with redditors and some of those redditors have brought their toxicity along with them.
Prolific poster on everything here. He's right.
hang out and chat at movie night, trade socials with people you vibe with, pop on the minecraft server...
How do I find those items?
movie night is usually pinned among the megathreads, minecraft server is pinned in the gaming comm
you can’t spell FriEnD without FED 
We are all comrades here.
the cheat code is being trans 
It'll happen when you aren't looking for it. I have people here I'd consider friends, but I didn't make any conscious effort to make that happen. I just posted when I thought I had something worth saying and ended up clicking with people.
i think it takes time, i think people start to recognize posters over a period of time and then eventually the stars will align and you'll have a 
over the course of a few days ... and if it happens more than once, well, then I mean I guess you're friends now. After a while you start to feel comfortable ... maybe one of you asks for a Matrix account, or you DM on the bearzone... and uh then sometimes things evolve from there but I digress
but fr idk I have no idea how to intentionally do it, it feels totally by accident and its kinda scary to think about how if i missed a post or two i wouldn't have met or gotten close to at least two people who have had a big impact on my life, but lol I am so so so glad to have taken a chance and posted a bunch.
You call each other a liberal until kissing
I think one of the things that works is finding users who you particularly enjoy having exchanges with, often the ones who you find sharing an overlap in interests with and who spends time in the same comms and who seems to enjoy replying to you (especially if the comment exchange goes for more than one or two replies).
The next step is usually connecting with them via DM or exchanging socials. Usually this is easier if you have a purpose for contacting them rather than trying to strike up a discussion from nowhere.
There is the visual cuisine which happens once a week, I think, and is announced in masterposts like this upcoming one. There's a chatroom in there which you can use to engage with others. There are other events like a peer support space that I try to run at least every week or so via the game Webfishing, although that might not necessarily suit your interests.
I've seen comrade CorgiWithALaptop invite people to impromptu viewing sessions via the visual cuisine cytube space but idk how that works exactly, but I think they set a good example of how to invite people to hang out.
I think this stuff is kinda hard to navigate as someone who is autistic because understanding the nuances of the whole thing can be kinda tricky, speaking from personal experience. Not to say that you should self-segregate but you might find it easier to try a comm which could be more accommodating such as the neurodiverse comm or to ask the mods there if they would consider helping you set something up via that comm if you feel like you would benefit from getting some assistance with connecting with other users or organising a group activity like a watch party via cytube, for example.
Do you mean the mods at neurodiverse? I have thought of asking for a step by step guide for say, making a mega thread or a guide for how to find movie nights. I am so scared of trying things, that I don't try if I don't know what to do, without a guide.
It is like fight club. You aren't supposed to talk about it. However you gotta talk about it. People break opsec here and there. Which is bad and we need to acknowledge that.
I told them I have information that will lead to the arrest of Hilary Clinton
I'd like to think we're all friends here. Through the course of posting and getting replies and talking you'll develop some.degree of relationship with other users. Sometimes I don't really know where it came from. I feel like say @LocalOaf@hexbear.net and I are constantly in each other's inboxes cause we're doing a bit in some thread, it just kinda happened and now it's a name I look for. Always love a @Frank@hexbear.net post and we've had some fantastic chats and of course there's @Dirt_Owl@hexbear.net who's posting history should give any newcomer a great idea of site culture as well as proper owl hygiene (none)
Simpsons bits and knowing about black metal and mathcore go a long way for making me think somebody's cool, and being on a commie/anarchist niche site
And being a owl with a lot of dirt that knows about Digimon
Hell yeah 
(that's the first emote that comes up when you type)
:Digimon:
lmao 
I've never met anyone from here irl if that's what you mean. Honestly I have a hard time remembering who is who, except for a few prolific posters with memorable names and/or profile pics.
But I thought we were all friends
Then why don't I feel very welcomed? Then again, there is no place where I feel accepted.
I’ll be your friend 😢
you heard lies!
Comment on people's post, friend
Well, I usually don't have anything that sounds insightful in my own head.
Yeah I get that I usually find myself sitting on posts I enjoy until I think of something to say. I've already learned about artists I've never heard of before and if I enjoy them I just give a, "thanks for sharing". Idk just some ideas
Huh. Guess I am more of a reader or thinker here, than a talker.
haven't met any1 irl here (yet) but i'm e-friendly with a lot of fellow megathread journal posters/stream of consciousness posters. idk it just kinda happens, you recognize each others usernames and profile icons and get a general sense of people's interests, quirks, etc.
I bet you'd get along pretty well with user TheDoctor