The only time I was ever actually interested in men was when gay men were attracted to me. The way straight men look at me is so boring. I can sympathize with the trans women who keep their gay guy partners after transitioning. They're so fun.
But also, stay away from people who aren't attracted to your womanhood. Its fine if you've already developed a connection with them, and thats where the attraction comes from. But, you need to protect yourself! Don't fuck with anyone unless they cherish your womanhood! (or whatever identity you adopt). They will inevitably encourage behaviors that don't make you happy. If gay sex was fully satisfying to you you wouldn't have transitioned. They will act as anchors to the past you need to move beyond.
The less empathetic and subby you are the less this probably matters. I just think people aren't careful enough with their emotions when it comes to sex.
