I consider a 30+ year old dating a 24 year old to be a problematic in the pedo-lite sense. Sure it's not technically illegal and not always in bad faith and there is not always a victim, but it's a red flag. It gets blurrier as both parties age.

Also in the context of this post, Is 24 old or young or the same age as the speaker? Are you robbing the cradle or robbing the grave?

[–] BeanisBrain@hexbear.net 4 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I consider a 30+ year old dating a 24 year old to be a problematic in the pedo-lite sense.

I'm curious about the ramifications of this. If someone in their 30s still finds themself sexually attracted to people in their mid-20s, should this be considered a paraphilia and require psychiatric treatment?

[–] Tabitha@hexbear.net 2 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

ramifications is that I give you the stink eye

[–] BeanisBrain@hexbear.net 1 points 2 weeks ago

Understandable have a great day