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[–] Zier@fedia.io 46 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Conversion therapy is a form of torture. It's as stupid as expecting someone to change their blue eyes, to green eyes. You can't blame people for genetics, and you cannot just decide, as a blue eyed person, that you are now a green eyed person. It's not a decision, there is no therapy or medication or surgery to "fix" what is not broken. It's just abuse.

We have already been through this with Left Handers. Being left handed is normal. Gay people are normal. Religion does not exist to help people, it's purpose is to control people.

Thank you for attending my Ted Talk.

[–] Malyca@lemmy.zip 10 points 2 days ago (4 children)

Growing up in the USSR they forced everyone to write with our right hand. You get beaten if you don't. Was really hard for my cousin because he's left handed. He just learned to fake it for the teachers.

[–] Amnesigenic@lemmy.ml 0 points 21 hours ago (1 children)
[–] Malyca@lemmy.zip 1 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

Sometimes you guys make it hard to laugh at you because you're just so damn sad

[–] Amnesigenic@lemmy.ml 1 points 15 hours ago

Cool story kiddo

[–] Tollana1234567@lemmy.today 1 points 1 day ago

not only in russia, but christianized countries. or christian schools. Left handness was very discouraged when i was growing up. i only wrote with the left hand.

[–] aBundleOfFerrets@sh.itjust.works 15 points 2 days ago (1 children)

This was common globally (yes, even the US and Europe) until frankly frighteningly recently

[–] Mannimarco@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 2 days ago

It happened to me and I'm not even 40 yet, and yes I'm from Europe

[–] Beehaw_Girl@beehaw.org 3 points 2 days ago (1 children)

How did he fake being right-handed?

I'm naturally right-handed and I've tried to do things left-handed before and it is insanely difficult, maddening really.

[–] Malyca@lemmy.zip 4 points 2 days ago

Developing ambidextrous talent I guess. I remember when they are watching he'd use right, then switch to left for the rest and homework.

[–] daggermoon@piefed.world 9 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Finally, a Ted Talk that didn't suck.

[–] Warl0k3@lemmy.world 2 points 2 days ago

If you count Apollo Robbin's and that guy with the spam mail rant (which really is quite fun) that brings the count up to... three?