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I genuinely don't know if those are gender identities. The world is a big place so I would guess to at least some people they are. I really don't think I'm qualified to draw the line between fetishizing one person's identity or kink-shaming another though so I can't speak to any of that.

I don't have any interest in talking past each other or attacking you or arguing semantics. I just figure there's room under the rainbow for all kinds, so I just try to ask questions and share my limited perspective when I don't fully understand something.

If you're good here, that's totally fine and I wish you all the best 🙂