this post was submitted on 30 Jun 2026
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Besides the harms you listed, it's also just toxic af. I still have trouble approaching people who are more knowledgeable about a subject than I am without feeling the need to prove myself or one-up them (or just avoid learning about something at all if there's no chance I'll be one of the best at it). This has made me incredibly stupid and disinclined to learn about anything.
I think a big problem is that we're taught that skill is something you're born with instead of something everyone has to suck at before they get better. The whole way science and discovery happens is by failing until you get it right. If people aren't allowed to safely fail, if failure becomes dangerous socially or economically, we aren't going to learn.
Sounds like individualism strikes again. With no community support for growth, failure is a hit to the ego and can single you out as the "loser". Of course people aren't going to try things when the risk of failure outweighs the benefits of growing from that failure!
Wow I can't imagine that. Sounds horrible.