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Some helpful links:

The Gender Dysphoria Bible // In depth explanation of the different types of gender dysphoria.
Trans Voice Help // A community here on blahaj.zone for voice training.
LGBTQ+ Healthcare Directory // A directory of LGBTQ+ accepting Healthcare providers.
Trans Resistance Network // A US-based mutual aid organization to help trans people facing state violence and legal discrimination.
TLDEF's Trans Health Project // Advice about insurance claims for gender affirming healthcare and procedures.
TransLifeLine's ID change Library // A comprehensive guide to changing your name on any US legal document.
Rainbow Railroad // A non-profit international humans rights organization helping at risk LGBTQ+ people relocate to safety.

Support Hotlines:

The Trevor Project // Web chat, phone call, and text message LGBTQ+ support hotline.
TransLifeLine // A US/Canada LGBTQ+ phone support hotline service. The US line has Spanish support.
LGBT Youthline.ca // A Canadian LGBT hotline support service with phone call and web chat support. (4pm - 9:30pm EST)
988lifeline // A US only Crisis hotline with phone call, text and web chat support. Dedicated staff for LGBTQIA+ youth 24/7 on phone service, 3pm to 2am EST for text and web chat.

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should i include that i'm applying to colleges/unis to transition in a safer place? (lemmy.blahaj.zone)

submitted 1 day ago by coolestusername@lemmy.blahaj.zone to c/mtf@lemmy.blahaj.zone

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i'm finally graduating from high school soon :D oh my god i'm so glad that i'm leaving this shithole behind. anyways hopefully i'll be studying abroad this or next year. i want to transition where i live but surprise surprise "where i live" isn't really nice towards queer people.

should i include that i'm seeking asylum to transition? i feel like its a bit too much as i don't know if i can call myself a refugee. (also i don't want to forfeit my current citizenship lol)

also any uni/college suggestions for computer science? united states is a big nono unless i get accepted by a high ranking college and if it's in a blue state

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[–] coolestusername@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

how's Ontario when it comes to LGBTQ rights? is informed consent a thing there?

[–] Witchfire@lemmy.world 2 points 15 hours ago* (last edited 15 hours ago) (1 children)

It partly depends on where you are. Much like the US, there's a split between urban and rural.

I can only really speak for Toronto. We have a center-left mayor, fly the progress flag at municipal buildings, have strong LGBTQ protections, and have a generally welcoming population. The biggest issues with trans health care are due to the systematic destruction of our health system by a conservative grifter with a personal vendetta against us, and the federal government (useless libs) is just letting him do his thing. Mind you, that's a problem province-wide. But otherwise, I feel very safe here

Ottawa seems quite queer friendly from the times I've visited. The rainbow flag is flown loud and proud. I used to work in Kitchener/Waterloo but rarely left the office (I'm a big city girl so it's not my vibe), but my friends out there seem to like it. I also have trans friends in Guelph. Hamilton recently struck down a transphobic train ad, which is a good sign.

Doug Ford can go fuck himself with a rusty tailpipe

[–] psycotica0@lemmy.ca 1 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

For outsiders: Doug Ford is the Premier of Ontario, vaguely like a governor I think, and is Conservative. From Toronto, Ottawa is about 3ish hours North East by car, and Kitchener-Waterloo (KW) is about 1hr South West of Toronto. Hamilton is perhaps the next major city after Toronto and is around 30 minutes South (ish) of Toronto. Guelph is a smaller city 30ish minutes North of KW.

This is why these various places were all brought up in relation to a comment about KW. Besides Ottawa, they're all pretty close to each other.

And yes rusty tailpipe sounds about right 😉

[–] Witchfire@lemmy.world 1 points 11 hours ago* (last edited 8 hours ago)

Yeah he's the equivalent of a governor, just for a much larger area. The other significance of Ottawa (for those in the US) is that it's the capital of Canada and the second largest city in Ontario