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[–] QueenHawlSera@sh.itjust.works 27 points 20 hours ago (3 children)

The idea that vaginas stretch out is kinda debunked.

Now assholes on the other hand...

[–] idiomaddict@lemmy.world 21 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

I’m not disagreeing with the point of your statement, but I do want to clarify that vaginas absolutely stretch, just not permanently. You’ll have a very different experience if you work up to fisting over a couple of hours vs. launching right into it, because vaginas loosen with arousal.

[–] Whats_your_reasoning@lemmy.world 19 points 17 hours ago

The important thing is that they are elastic - they don't stay stretched. They're not like sweaters that stay stretched out forever after someone large wears them, more like rubber bands that stretch temporarily before returning to their typical size. I think that's why OP used the term "stretch out," as too many people seem to think once a vagina stretches, it's a permanent change. It's such a weird misconception.

Giving birth stretches a vagina more than any penis (or fist) ever could. Though birth can make some changes that last, it's more like "Now I need a larger size menstrual cup" than "Now penises just slide back out," as the popular belief would have people believe.

[–] endless_nameless@lemmy.world 1 points 19 hours ago (2 children)

I don't think people caring about body count has anything to do with physical things other than drastically increased odds of STIs and certain cancers.

I think mature adults realize that sex is never just sex, it forms attachments whether you want it or not. Screwing around forming and cutting off attachments constantly kind of fucks with your capacity to emotionally invest in an actual relationship.

[–] fracture@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 10 hours ago

i think the way you're describing the process as "screwing around, forming and cutting off attachments" really shows that you think of it in a very black and white sort of way. one can have casual / fwb sex with their friends, and still have a friend relationship with that person. one can even have one-off sex with an acquaintance or stranger, and even if you never meet again, it doesn't really make it a "cut off" relationship; if you met again, it would be pleasant, circumstances just may not arrange it

just because it's a more emotionally involved process for you or some people you've encountered, doesn't make it a universal truth

[–] poke@sh.itjust.works 8 points 15 hours ago (2 children)

Not everyone does form those attatchemnts. There are plenty of poeole out there who can just have sex and have a good time and move on.

[–] Tetragrade@leminal.space -3 points 12 hours ago

Good point, it also helps filter out people who are innately mental.

[–] FinjaminPoach@lemmy.world -3 points 15 hours ago

Which is equally as worrying, to people who disapprove of high "body count" on assumption that emotional attachments were made