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[–] AlecSadler@lemmy.dbzer0.com 14 points 1 day ago (4 children)

Also why bring a kid into this hellfire right now.

[–] UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world 1 points 7 hours ago* (last edited 7 hours ago) (2 children)

Crazy to compare the modern day to the Great Depression or the Civil War Era and pretend you're doing someone a disservice by raising them with love and care.

You talk about hellfire when it has literally never been better to be alive.

Of course, the Western quality of life has taken a stumble. We're slipping back into 1980s levels of prosperity from a civilizational peak.

But the real horror of the future is knowing Americans won't be on top. Why bring another American into the world if they'll be no better than someone from India or South Africa or Brazil? Might as well just end it here. Die Now!

[–] AlecSadler@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 4 hours ago

I pray and wish America isn't on top. I hope it collapses and never recovers.

That isn't my reason for not having kids, it's climate change and the global rise of fascism. The US is a factor, yes, but not the only factor.

Also, personally, and many will disagree, there is no real reason to have kids.

[–] Weydemeyer@lemmy.ml 1 points 6 hours ago

The real horror of the future is climate change, which is usually the first thing people cite when questioning if it’s a good idea to bring kids into the world at all.

[–] MonkeMischief@lemmy.today 8 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

From a pragmatic point of view?

"In a time of dragons, raise dragon slayers."

Those fighting for a better future now will get old. Thankfully, so will those seemingly-immortal bastards ruining that future.

We need future generations, educated and supported and prepared to take up the mantle.

As Bruce Lee put it: "Do not pray for an easy life. Pray for the strength to overcome a difficult one."

We need to come back around to the idea that we are here for a bigger purpose than to be comfortable and happily wither, as even if we are victorious, someone needs to maintain the solemn responsibility to keep evil at bay, because it will try again.

We all want our children to be happy and healthy and safe. But we also must prepare them to bear the same responsibility we do. Part of resistance and war against the principalities and powers and forces of darkness in this world, is to make sure righteous ideals live on.

[–] IratePirate@feddit.org 2 points 8 hours ago

Thank you Sir/Madam for this inspiring response to capitulation!

[–] blady_blah@lemmy.world 8 points 20 hours ago

Try not to dwell in the "woe is me" narrative. Today's younger generation has some challenges, but thinking "this is the worst any generation has ever had it by far" is total bullshit.

[–] Iconoclast@feddit.uk 15 points 1 day ago (4 children)

Because now is the best time to be alive, ever. I could take you back 100, 200, 500, 1000, or 5000 years ago and things just get shittier and shittier the further back we go yet people kept having kids.

[–] NewSocialWhoDis@lemmy.zip 8 points 19 hours ago (2 children)

Because they had no means to have sex without kids.

[–] UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world 0 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

We've been able to pull out for a long time.

That said, what do you think is going to happen to our capacity to produce modern safe prophylactics at scale of we let guys like RFK Jr keep running things.

Technology isn't a given. It's a surplus benefit of a modern society. One that can degrade over time just as easily as it can accumulate.

[–] NewSocialWhoDis@lemmy.zip 1 points 7 hours ago* (last edited 7 hours ago) (1 children)

I mean, my sex ex courses were mostly taught by conservatives, but we were always told the pull out method alone isn't going to get the job done. Though, I think it's supposed to be decently effective if the woman is also tracking her ovulation carefully and you abstain during ovulation.

Pretty sure the re-enslavement of women into perpetual baby makers is part of their plan.

[–] UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world 1 points 7 hours ago (1 children)
[–] NewSocialWhoDis@lemmy.zip 1 points 7 hours ago

Are you talking about trans men? Or are you talking about other types of slavery?

[–] Iconoclast@feddit.uk 3 points 19 hours ago

Fair enough. Kids were also their retirement plan.

[–] prole@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 21 hours ago

It's not even the best time to be alive during my lifetime

[–] ChadGPT2@lemmy.world 26 points 1 day ago (3 children)

Not quite true. 20-30 years ago would be better than now. Slightly worse medical science is offset by everything else being farther up the collapse timeline.

I get our argument but I don’t think it’s accurate to overlook how terrible things have gotten in the past few decades just by taking the longview.

[–] UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world 1 points 7 hours ago

20-30 years ago would be better than now.

Tell that to anyone currently living with AIDS.

[–] osanna@lemmy.vg 9 points 1 day ago (1 children)

My support worker just got a new client and she said they bought their house for about 30k$ decades ago and are now sitting on millions.

Who the fuck can afford a house or kids or anything other than the bare minimum.

Costs keep going up, wages stay the same or often get smaller. What. The. Fuck.

[–] Krauerking@lemy.lol 1 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

I literally had to take a paycut to get hired by my former employer again.

Things are definitely not getting better than they were

[–] UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world 2 points 7 hours ago

They're clearly getting better for your employer

[–] BeardedGingerWonder@feddit.uk 1 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

You're kidding yourself, things may have seemed better 20 years ago but the economy was being bolstered by sub prime mortgage nonsense, it collapsed 2 years later and we've not had good times since.

[–] ChadGPT2@lemmy.world 4 points 16 hours ago (2 children)

How about climate change? 20 years ago there was hope. You want to introduce a kid into a world that is ending? Tell them hey, we made this world for you. You’ll fight in the water wars of 2040?

[–] UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world 1 points 7 hours ago* (last edited 7 hours ago)

How about climate change? 20 years ago there was hope

Twenty years ago, we invaded a country to steal it's oil while dismantling the nascent EV/Solar industry to protect fossil fuels

We are here today precisely because things were worse twenty years ago

You’ll fight in the water wars of 2040?

Better fighting to preserve water tomorrow than bloody your hands fighting for oil yesterday

[–] BeardedGingerWonder@feddit.uk 2 points 15 hours ago* (last edited 15 hours ago) (2 children)

You're saying things were better 20 years ago because there was false hope? By that logic 2020 must've been the best year ever because CO2 emissions actually dropped.

[–] ToTheGraveMyLove@sh.itjust.works 2 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

And because we were 20 years further from the collapse.

[–] BeardedGingerWonder@feddit.uk -1 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

It'll collapse or it won't collapse or we'll do something different, same as we always have. Pining for a rose tinted snapshot of 20 years ago or 30 years ago won't make things better. It's the same bullshit nostalgia fetishism the far right have for the 50s or 60s or whatever. Some things are worse, a lot of things are a lot better. All we can really do is support those we can support and make things better where we can.

[–] ToTheGraveMyLove@sh.itjust.works 1 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

I'm not pining for anything, but being 20 years further from the end is objectively better.

[–] BeardedGingerWonder@feddit.uk 1 points 7 hours ago

It's exactly the same.

[–] ChadGPT2@lemmy.world 0 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

US life expectancy has also gone down during that time.

[–] iglou@programming.dev 11 points 1 day ago (1 children)

No, it's not. It's not a constant progression.

In most countries, the best time to be alive was the 60s-90s. Since then the world has been going downhill in everything that matters. Yes, sure, tech has evolved and all. But having the wonderful opportunity to be glued to a screen for half your life doesn't make it the best time to be alive.

People dont stop having kids because they suddenly hate the concept. It's in our nature to have kids. We don't want kids anymore because society has turned so hostile that it completely overruns our instinct to have kids.

[–] Trainguyrom@reddthat.com 2 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

The argument could be made that kids conceived right now will be the next richest generation as we have to be rapidly approaching the breaking point with the current second gilded age

[–] ToTheGraveMyLove@sh.itjust.works 2 points 11 hours ago (2 children)

You literally have no way of knowing that though. I hope you're right, but that's just wishful thinking.

[–] Trainguyrom@reddthat.com 1 points 9 hours ago

I mean choosing to believe things won't get any better is just pessimistic thinking, plus its counter-productive because if you don't believe in a better tomorrow how can you make today the first/next step towards a better tomorrow?

The best time to plan a tree is 20 years ago, the second best time is now. Why not be hopeful about the future and lay the groundwork to make some small improvement to your corner of the earth?

[–] terry_jerry@sh.itjust.works 1 points 10 hours ago

Bro, deciding to continue living is also wishful thinking tho.