Sure, they could get mugged but it’s less likely

This is completely untrue, men are (and always have been) the primary target of random violence such as mugging. According to FBI crime statistics it's hugely disproportional year after year. Women are disproportionately victimized by their intimate partners, both male and female. Both of these facts are beyond tragic but it is, in my opinion, really important to get these things straight. Women are more likely to scream for help when they are being robbed which leads them to being de-prioritized when violent criminals are choosing their targets. Men tend to submit, and are likely to avoid reporting it due to shame, so the disparity is probably significantly higher than the already gigantic reported disparity.

Hope you don't see this as me just trying to stir shit cause I'm not. It just really irks me to see that sentiment repeated even though it's entirely unsubstantiated. I'm a man of small stature and a minority. With awareness of the reality of the situation, the threat of physical violence is literally always on my mind. I've had a solid handful of random encounters in public that very nearly turned violent and it causes me pretty severe anxiety.

Don't know why I felt like typing a novel over this, like I said though I guess I just find it frustrating. I can't talk to my female friends about this, they just laugh at me. They talk about it like I'm wholly immune to violence by virtue of being male when it couldn't be further from the truth.

Edit with data from FBI crime data explorer: Over the last 10 years it's 906k male victims of robbery to 474k female victims, and (though it doesn't need to be said) that's just about double.

I was mugged in the playground of my building, the street across fine my house, my lobby, and at 57th and suttton, all in Manhattan. Then a few more times when I lived in Baltimore. I really hope most women don't get raped that often.

My point wasn’t that women aren’t looking at the surroundings, but that they don’t do it as is portrayed in the image. You said it yourself: “checking and rechecking the whole time” That doesn’t match singular hotspots, but rather a more spread-out heatmap with peaks at certain positions.