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I am someone born in the USA and white and male, so I am less at risk of harassment and brutality than others.

My take on things is that Trump is probably a Russian asset and Russian leadership probably wants a US civil war (but I don't have proof).

Midterms are still many months away. I am pretty sure Democrats realize that Trump wants conflict and they are trying to just wait for Midterms.

I am scared and feel like civil war could still happen. I have no children, few ties to any area, and only work remotely. I live in a very liberal area. I am mostly a poor person and have less than $25,000 saved.

I also have been arrested and held in terrible conditions in a notorious jail, experienced physical and emotional abuse there, and fear being arrested again and experiencing more abuse. Some of the things I experienced meet definitions of torture although not egregious physical torture (iron maiden type stuff). I am also gay and effeminate and worry I could receive worse treatment if involuntarily held for mental health reasons or for poverty because of homophobia by religious people.

Should I be trying to flee the USA now? If so, would Canada be safe? Is there anywhere else I could go to? I could claim asylum in a Northern European country but am concerned about the Russian War of Aggression.

I do not know if I am over-reacting. Will I still have time to flee if I wait and the situation gets worse?

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[–] tanisnikana@lemmy.world 59 points 1 day ago (4 children)

I’m a white disabled trans woman, and I’m fuckin’ staying. Although it’s only a matter of time before the federal ungovernment turns its attention to my city, Portland, to leave would be to give up my home, and the only place I have known for an incredibly long time.

I will die eventually. That much is the only thing that’s true for me. My wave will move on to being just water somewhere else. Ideally, under peaceful circumstances. But it will happen here most likely.

I have friends to defend and friends to help, and they need help here.

[–] otter@lemmy.dbzer0.com 19 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Stay the course, and stay safe. The PacNW might be one of the last places to stand against this chaos, and the community needs you. 🖖🏽✊🏼🤙🏽

[–] tanisnikana@lemmy.world 8 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Always.

The only good henchman (be they cops or ICE or whatever fresh new horrors Stephen Miller dreams up) is a henchman that’s been thoroughly perforated or otherwise separated in half.

[–] otter@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 23 hours ago
[–] AmbiguousProps@lemmy.today 12 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] tanisnikana@lemmy.world 6 points 1 day ago

I fly the Doug Fir every day.

[–] Cherry@piefed.social 5 points 1 day ago

I fucking love you.

[–] wuzzlewoggle@feddit.org 3 points 1 day ago

You are amazing. Stay safe and stand your ground. Don't let those fuckers get to you or any of your loved ones.