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Breakung up with my therapist in like 45 min and im nervous (hexbear.net)
submitted 3 months ago by corgiwithalaptop@hexbear.net to c/chat@hexbear.net
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I never really felt much of a connection with this guy, despite sticking it out for over a year with him. Hes very insistent that I take almost 3 hours out of my day to do in person visits and has threatened to charge me as a cancelation if I still demanded virtual, I haven't felt the ability to be honest with him about larger issues than what I discuss, and frankly I would get nervous to talk to him before a lot of sessions. I had a therapist before that I connected with better, but that was 3 years ago almost and I had to stop when I lost my last job.

Im already in the process of getting back with my past therapist, who seemed much warmer to me. When I had to stop seeing her, i cried, whereas with this guy, I'm nervous he'll try to talk me out of dropping him.

On the bus to go do it now, send me your good vibes pls

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[–] LeeeroooyJeeenkiiins@hexbear.net 3 points 3 months ago (1 children)

I wouldn't be nervous, if you didn't have muich of a connection it's not even a break up it's just a "i'm not paying you anymore good bye" moment

just channel the "if you don't like it you can leave!" skeleton meme

[–] corgiwithalaptop@hexbear.net 7 points 3 months ago (3 children)

Ohhhh it did not go well. Check my responses to a lot of other people, I copy/pasted a lot of updates, but the guy took some personal digs at me using my life and relationship situations against me and I am...well, yeah, im angry, but mostly just shocked that a professional would say shit like that to me.

[–] GalaxyBrain@hexbear.net 5 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Sounds like he's really fucking bad at his job if he's doing that. Good riddance

[–] corgiwithalaptop@hexbear.net 3 points 3 months ago

Yeah, happy to be never going back.

[–] LeeeroooyJeeenkiiins@hexbear.net 3 points 3 months ago (1 children)

guy sounds like a mad loser, I'm sorry that happened though

[–] corgiwithalaptop@hexbear.net 5 points 3 months ago

Appreciate it homie

[–] Edamamebean@hexbear.net 2 points 3 months ago (1 children)

I'm sorry to hear that, it's absurd how unprofessional some of these "professionals" can be.