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[โ€“] Arahnya@hexbear.net 17 points 1 month ago (1 children)

anti-transmasculinity anti-non binary

there's a sort of cis approval or head nod ( ๐Ÿ˜ ) when they think my feminine expression is just an ontological part of my so called "binary sex" like "Ah yes see ur a girl clearly ๐Ÿ˜" but then also disapproval and confusion, they cant quite parse me and how I act (its the trans masculinity and non binary femininity,) but they dont want me to be too feminine. They want me to be the sort of "girl" who takes charge and bosses "her man" around to do things I "cant" do, like open a jar of pickles. And the cis women are like ๐Ÿ˜ฉ why dont you ask a man to do it. And then she opens the jar herself lol. Like the rules are MADE UP!!!

[โ€“] MusicOwl@hexbear.net 3 points 1 month ago

this shit makes me so mad. folks know the rules and even recognize how they are hurt by them constantly, and do nothing about them and enchain eachother