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[โ€“] adhd_traco@piefed.social 18 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (3 children)

Stray dogs:
If you pass somewhere and there are suddenly stray dogs in your way, just squat down and show your hands. Hands down, palms up. If they come to sniff and shit, keep your palms below their face. Basically let them come to you. When they trust you, you can pat the top of the head. But patting the top of the head before they know you can be dangerous, as you might use them to hit them, for example.

Usually within seconds the whole pack comes to get some love :)

I've never been attacked by a dog this way. But if a dog would come at me, actually aggressive and not slow down, I hear you should use your feet to defend yourself.

Don't just walk through their territory.

[โ€“] otter@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 13 hours ago

Interacting with unknown, much less untrained canines is a quick way to test the local health system.

FWIW, looking unfamiliar animals in the eyes is an even more sure way to imply to them that you're a predator. ๐Ÿ˜ตโ€๐Ÿ’ซ

[โ€“] Hossenfeffer@feddit.uk 8 points 22 hours ago (2 children)

If you do have to defend yourself, indiscriminate use of a grenade launcher sends a powerful message.

[โ€“] otter@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 13 hours ago (1 children)
[โ€“] lagoon8622@sh.itjust.works 2 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

I always liked "To whom it will shortly concern"

[โ€“] otter@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 28 minutes ago

Not unlike upcasting fireball ๐Ÿ˜œ

[โ€“] HubertManne@piefed.social 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[โ€“] adhd_traco@piefed.social 7 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

gXjHAWO0ytDg0fL.jpg Like this

I would say, the psychology behind is that we grip into our palms. So it's harder to hide something behind your palms. You're showing in every way you are not backstabbing them.

[โ€“] HubertManne@piefed.social 2 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Seems dangerous is what im saying. I do palm down on only one hand. Also feet does not seem like a good idea. I would not want to reduce my balance and verticality nor make my groin more of a target.

[โ€“] PriorityMotif@lemmy.world 1 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

If a dog is jumping up on you then you should put your knee up and they'll stop. It's a good way to train dogs not to jump up on people.

[โ€“] otter@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

If you're squatting down in this situation and raise your knee... Thafuq.

[โ€“] PriorityMotif@lemmy.world 1 points 8 hours ago

Stand up first

[โ€“] adhd_traco@piefed.social 4 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

The defense with the feet I got from someone who had to defend themselves multiple times. I don't remember the details, but it's about the easier way to keep distance from their mouth without it biting onto anything... idk. I'd say, check some youtube videos or other resources of people who talk from experience. :)

I think another important reason is to keep the face away. If you were to use your fists, you'd have to lean forward, bringing your face closer to their mouth. You're also not allowing them to bite anywhere, like your legs. Of course, much like a knife fight, you don't wanna be in this situation in the first place.

The palm thing, if you're already doing a lot of other things right, it probably doesn't matter much. But I find it signals more intent that you mean no harm. And by the time they come that close to you, I don't see them attacking you, like ever. And if they were to show hostile behaviour beforehand, you have time to change your hand position and stand up.