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As a guy, you'd be a total idiot to agree. Single guy on a date with two girls is definitely going to make a fool out of himself and have a terrible evening. Call me sexist, blame social whatnotever for it but it's as sure as the night is dark. These two have known each other and longer than you so you're the outsider and there's that unspoken, inevirtable rivality between you and her best friend. No fucking change. BTW, I'd wonder what people might say if gender roles were reversed here. Lol... "I gotta bring my buddy. For safety."
You're sexist, but I will say I'm glad I took the offer when given it. The night ended up twice as nice, along with the next couple of months too.
Basically, go ahead and think that. More fun and good times for the rest of us, the two girls I was with that time included ;)
(In hindsight, it should've been way more obvious I was poly. But my sights were distracted at the time, and it's something that wasn't really talked about much back then)
I'd be sexist if I said it was women's nature and blah whatever. I'm sure it's more or less a social matter, nevermind that as far as I know it applies to pretty much any known culture, ancient or actual. The reason might be that humans are not so different actually, no matter what your fucking leaders might tell you. And you, Mr "pickup artist" might notice that I did not refer to the sort of occasion you're talking about. The situation the OP describes is obviously not an invitation to a menage a trois.