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A "Showerthought" is a simple term used to describe the thoughts that pop into your head while you're doing everyday things like taking a shower, driving, or just daydreaming. The most popular seem to be lighthearted clever little truths, hidden in daily life.

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I’m a momma and I was planning on driving my son down to the beach with some family/friends. I haven’t worn a bikini since my younger days since I’m super busy nowadays as a single mom working 2 jobs. As I was trying on some of my older bikinis, I couldn’t help but wonder how my younger self was confident enough to be this exposed. I’m not insecure about my body or anything, actually I’m pretty confident since I go to the gym often, so genuinely how do other women have the confidence to rock a bikini?

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[–] Mothra@mander.xyz 54 points 9 hours ago (5 children)

People here saying consent (fair enough) but let me tell you, clothes are suggestive. There is more to suggestion and context than the actual content. Is anybody shocked to see a nude statue in a museum or something? Or in a painting? Now how about somebody wearing nothing but a g-string and a harness? You can argue the harnessed person in a gstring is less exposed than any nude. I say no. Clothing adds to the exposure sometimes. Underwear isn't meant to be seen, so when it's seen, it prompts judgement.

[–] shalafi@lemmy.world 3 points 2 hours ago

There was an old Piers Anthony series about a society where the masses, mostly slaves, went naked and only the owner class could wear clothes. The more clothes, the sexier.

[–] Fondots@lemmy.world 23 points 8 hours ago (2 children)

I go to a nudist resort fairly frequently. Most of it is clothing optional except for the pools, so you see people walking around in various states of undress depending on the weather and what they're doing (watched a guy weedwacking naked last time I was there, seemed ill-advised IMO)

You pretty quickly stop seeing nudity as being sexy there . It certainly doesn't help that the average nudist is middle aged or older and often not in the best shape.

This resort also attracts a decent amount of swingers. While the nudists aren't particularly trying to impress anyone, that's pretty much the whole reason the swingers are there. So how do you make yourself look sexier than just walking around naked? You wear something. Bathing suits, pasties, big flashy jewelry, crazy hats, see-through dresses, ropes, etc.

And though many of them aren't much more attractive than the nudists, they turn some heads.

[–] shalafi@lemmy.world 2 points 2 hours ago

Hell no I won't use a weed whacker without jeans, and boots are preferable. Had one kick a pebble though my car window.

[–] Knock_Knock_Lemmy_In@lemmy.world 13 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

watched a guy weedwacking naked last time I was there

In case you were wondering, this is a weedwacker

[–] Korhaka@sopuli.xyz 18 points 7 hours ago

I shall choose to go with my initial interpretation of the term.

[–] Jiggle_Physics@sh.itjust.works 6 points 6 hours ago

To summarize your statement, social conditioning

[–] grue@lemmy.world 13 points 8 hours ago

See also: https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/TheissTitillationTheory : "The sexiness of an outfit is directly proportional to the perceived possibility that a vital piece of it might fall off."

[–] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 15 points 8 hours ago

Exactly. I see a bikini every time I see people swimming. Underwear though, that implies some form of intimacy