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Why can't they just consciously recognize "I find them attractive and I totally would if they were up for it, but they aren't, and that's okay" and then let it go?
Or even just "this person is attractive but I'm not interested in changing our relationship"
Or even "this person is attractive and I would be interested in changing our relationship, but they aren't, and that's okay"
that phrase is equivalent to "wanting sex", it's just the healthy expression of it because of all the extra words.
I doubt most incels make it to the actual rejection part.