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[–] queermunist@lemmy.ml 27 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (3 children)

Why can't they just consciously recognize "I find them attractive and I totally would if they were up for it, but they aren't, and that's okay" and then let it go?

[–] fox@hexbear.net 23 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Or even just "this person is attractive but I'm not interested in changing our relationship"

[–] queermunist@lemmy.ml 2 points 3 days ago

Or even "this person is attractive and I would be interested in changing our relationship, but they aren't, and that's okay"

[–] Le_Wokisme@hexbear.net 14 points 4 days ago

that phrase is equivalent to "wanting sex", it's just the healthy expression of it because of all the extra words.

[–] Gosplan14_the_Third@hexbear.net 14 points 4 days ago

I doubt most incels make it to the actual rejection part.