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[–] AFC1886VCC@reddthat.com 22 points 1 month ago (5 children)

I'd like to just get to the threesome part first

[–] pipe01@programming.dev 17 points 1 month ago (2 children)
[–] SsxChaos@lemmy.ml 9 points 1 month ago

I would be happy just for being involved

[–] Swedneck@discuss.tchncs.de 1 points 1 month ago (1 children)

i'm generally happy when i have time to arrange a onesome

[–] eronth@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago

Settle for a hand and you can be handsome.

[–] Thteven@lemmy.world 16 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I've had one. It was a lesson in how to disappoint two women at once.

[–] SubArcticTundra@lemmy.ml 6 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Two women? That was the mistake

[–] Thteven@lemmy.world 14 points 1 month ago

Mistake? I was just happy to be there.

[–] Shameless@lemmy.world 6 points 1 month ago (2 children)

So you can disappoint two people at once?

[–] LostXOR@fedia.io 4 points 1 month ago

Bold of you to assume I'll only disappoint two people.

[–] AFC1886VCC@reddthat.com 2 points 1 month ago

Only one way to find out

[–] NotAnonymousAtAll@feddit.org 3 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Same advice applies for that as for all other things related to relationships and/or sex:

  1. Put yourself into situations where things can happen. (Can't win the lottery if you don't buy a ticket.)

  2. Don't expect anything to actually happen at any given moment. (If you are only there for one thing other people will notice it and that is not attractive at all.)

  3. Be patient and enjoy whatever else is going on meanwhile.

[–] pixeltree@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 month ago

I think it's overrated tbh. A good session with one person you really click with is a lot better, imo