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[โ€“] lichtmetzger@discuss.tchncs.de 46 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (5 children)

My sister gifted me the third book of a fantasy trilogy series once.
I never read or got the first two books.

Also, when I was little, my grandma (who hated me with passion) bought me a pink bike just to piss me off, because she thought a boy wouldn't ever like that color. I rode that bike until I was too tall to use it and every time she saw me enjoying that thing she was furious. :)

[โ€“] tetris11@lemmy.ml 10 points 10 months ago (1 children)

The propensity for you and your grandma to both act out of spite for one another is impressively high. Its good to have proof you're related

[โ€“] lichtmetzger@discuss.tchncs.de 9 points 10 months ago (2 children)

Oh, you're mistaken. I enjoyed that bike because it was a good bike. It just wasn't "boy-colored", but I didn't mind.

[โ€“] Zacryon@feddit.org 9 points 10 months ago (2 children)

Gendered colours are stupid anyway.

[โ€“] stringere@sh.itjust.works 4 points 10 months ago

Especially when you consider the arbitriness of it. Pink used to be the color for baby boys.

[โ€“] lichtmetzger@discuss.tchncs.de 4 points 10 months ago

Exactly, and I was way too young to actually care about colors anyway.

[โ€“] tetris11@lemmy.ml 3 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (1 children)

Yeah, but surely you knew how she'd react if you rode it in front of her

[โ€“] lichtmetzger@discuss.tchncs.de 4 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (1 children)

Dude, I was a child. I didn't even have the mental capacity to spite my own grandma. I saw a cool bike, didn't mind the color and rode it, that's it.

Psychoanalyzing people on the internet is stupid.

[โ€“] tetris11@lemmy.ml 3 points 10 months ago

No! You will take the judgement I gave you to your grave!

[โ€“] BuboScandiacus@mander.xyz 7 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (1 children)

Why did she hate you with such passion ?

And why didnt she think about spray paint ?

[โ€“] lichtmetzger@discuss.tchncs.de 10 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (1 children)

She always called me "the bastard" because I had a different father than my sisters.
That was enough of a reason to hate me, I guess. ๐Ÿคท

It was definitely intentional of her to gift me a "girls" bike and she didn't expect me to actually like it.
She also pulled stunts like gifting me and my sisters money on Christmas, but I got 10โ‚ฌ and they got 50โ‚ฌ each. My mum always equally split the whole money afterwards.

[โ€“] BuboScandiacus@mander.xyz 3 points 10 months ago

What an asshole

Your mom did right

My grandma once gifted me volume 21 of a manga I didn't even own a single volume of. All she knew was that I like that japanese comic thing so she bought a random one at the book store.

[โ€“] perviouslyiner@lemmy.world 2 points 10 months ago (1 children)

If it was Ender's Game, you might be better off starting with book two...

[โ€“] PolandIsAStateOfMind@lemmy.ml 3 points 10 months ago

For their sake i hope it wasn't, Ender's Game is possibly the greatest example of deservedly famous book 1 and equally deservedly forgotten rest of the series.

[โ€“] SocialMediaRefugee@lemmy.ml 0 points 10 months ago

"Oh, by the way grandma, I'm wearing the dress you bought me too."