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How do you get over a crush?
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??? This isn't a gender thing?
males of my age generally had to make the move. its possibly different now. I can count on one hand the girls I knew from college and before who asked a guy out first.
I feel like even within the straight paradigm women do a lot to express interest and can still feel "shot down" when those signals aren't reciprocated, outside of also asking guys out
oh yeah. Flirting is totally different. I would say growing up girls flirted more than guys.
Same in France among students. Males are expected to make the move
My realization, now, was that they did. I was too clueless on picking up cues to realize it.