owenfromcanada

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[–] owenfromcanada@lemmy.ca 6 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

Some rights can be similar, but you'll always have to declare the other person as your legal whatever. Marriage says to the state that this person is my default for pretty much everything--power of attorney, medical stuff, property ownership, etc. So if I get in an accident and fall unconscious, my wife doesn't have to fight the hospital staff to see me.

Depending on your country, there are other bonds that have the same legal binding as marriage.

In addition, if we're honest, there are some "soft" benefits as well. My wife changed her name when we got married, and having the same last name (and our kids having the same last name) avoids a lot of complexity with things like traveling (especially because our daughter is a different skin color than the rest of us). Marriage didn't explicitly grant us that privilege, but there are a lot of societal norms that come with it that have proven beneficial.

I'm not trying to claim that any of this is how it should be necessarily, but if you're asking about practical reasons why, those are some of them. If you want the practical benefits without the cost, it's (relatively) cheap to go to the courthouse or Vegas. Hell, you can get a friend to perform the ceremony for free, all you pay is for the marriage license. But if you're otherwise not interested in marriage and those benefits don't appeal (or whatever other reason), just stay dating.

[–] owenfromcanada@lemmy.ca 1 points 4 hours ago

Ever since reading it in my kids' Bluey book: bumblenuts (context is, "g'day, bumblenuts!" following an introduction)

[–] owenfromcanada@lemmy.ca 12 points 8 hours ago

At some point, someone asked themselves, "what would happen if an entire generation suffered from lead poisoning?" and I blame them for this timeline.

[–] owenfromcanada@lemmy.ca 7 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

Doubtful. Without Linux running the majority of the internet, I doubt the desktop scene would look the same as it does today.

[–] owenfromcanada@lemmy.ca 3 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

I'm not an expert, but any time I've needed to do this, I set up my own router as a client to the parent router, and I set my router (client) as the DMZ in the parent router. Effectively you end up with two routers that are both (more or less) connected directly to the internet, without the two networks messing with each other. It's also minimally invasive to the parent router (even old stock firmware has always had a DMZ option).

The tricky part then is using the wireless connection as your "WAN port," rather than a physical one. In which case, as long as you can install OpenWRT on it, you should be fine.

[–] owenfromcanada@lemmy.ca 35 points 12 hours ago (2 children)

Arrest him, y'all bumblenuts!

[–] owenfromcanada@lemmy.ca 5 points 13 hours ago

Functional decor is my personal favorite. I usually have my guitars hung up (just moved, not up in the new house yet). I tried to convince my wife to let me buy two giant googly eyes and set up our central vacuum tube as a mustache, but she didn't go for it (I don't blame her, just a tad sad).

[–] owenfromcanada@lemmy.ca 9 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

Isn't that great?

[–] owenfromcanada@lemmy.ca 21 points 21 hours ago
[–] owenfromcanada@lemmy.ca 3 points 1 day ago

Finally. I've been offering for years.

 
[–] owenfromcanada@lemmy.ca 283 points 3 days ago (8 children)

step down

How about we call for his arrest and trial?

[–] owenfromcanada@lemmy.ca 7 points 4 days ago

I'm really sorry to hear that. Sometimes life puts us in a place where we need our family, even if they're awful.

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